Preface - As I've posted before, I've spent the last couple of years doing nothing but pursue women. My entire life has been consumed by how to get the hottest women I possibly can get into bed, and have them remain repeat customers with minimal effort on my half.

I've hardly worked, built my career or done anything productive besides maximize my appearance, game and notch count. This is terrible, and I regret it. I'm saying this because my posts are coming from a place of experience, based on thousands of hours of "work" and surrounding myself with women. What I'm talking about in this post is as close to my understanding of objective reality as I could ever communicate.


This guide is for those of you looking for the best way to manage short term plate set-ups, where you're looking to extract the best sex, company and adoration before your window with her inevitably closes. It is not for long term relationships, as an LTR in this societal climate is sadly impossible and the antithesis to the male sexual imperative which is to have constant access to varied sex partners.

I'll first address what dread itself is, what Dread Game in the RP context refers to, and why a default state of dread is necessary to extract the best sex and company from your women, before providing my guide on how to use dread as a baseline for all your sexual relationships.

What is Dread?

"Dread" refers to the reactionary, biological and most importantly instinctual feeling of impending doom. In the context of relationships, dread is the gut feeling that your partner is not as emotionally invested in the relationship as you, that you're losing or perhaps have already lost control over your partner's interest levels, and that your partner is capable of and perhaps even susceptible to leave for better prospects that are voluntarily and abundantly made available to them as a result of them being a desirable sexual prospect. Dread is ultimately a feeling of helplessness and lack of control over another person.

Dread Game in the Context of RedPill & as a Tool

The concept of Dread Game as discussed in the manosphere is essentially the cognizant manipulation and utilization of a biological instinct. As men, we are able to play on the female nature's susceptibility to dread (read: insecurity) and use it in our favor (access to a woman's body). Dread Game is keeping your plate or STR in a state of perpetual emotional stimulation exclusively attached to her solipsistic idea of you, in order to feed and facilitate her hamster running wild - creating and dwelling on the necessary fantasies (why isn't he answering his phone? where is he? is he sleeping with her? does he have a harem of beautiful women on rotation?) she needs to keep her emotionally and sexually invested in you for a long period of time. In short, dread is a constantly-channeled giddying booster-shot of giney tinglez and feelz that wards off or at least delays the inevitable resentment, repugnant familiarity and loss of attraction that women feel towards men who emotionally invest in them.

Why Dread Game and Dread as a Base in Every Relationship is Crucial

In sexual relationships, women care about two things; how well you fuck her body and how well you fuck her mind. She does not care about you as an individual human being nor what you personally, on an existential level, have to offer her. She views you as a provider of dick first and foremost, and secondly a provider of the necessary emotional stimulation she needs in order to escape the mundanity of her life and female world view. Her sexual and therefore emotional (these two are inseparable) investment in you is contingent on these two things exclusively.

A reliable, stable, nice and emotionally invested man who actively tries to placate, understand and make his partner happy has placed himself in the female frame. He's strayed (been led astray) from the abundant garden of masculinity, is visibly lost, and has now sought comfort in the motherly, feel-good and reassuring bosom of femininity. However, when a man enters his woman's frame, her biological reaction is repulsion. She's not looking for her equal - she's looking for her polar opposite, in the same way we aren't looking for a masculine female, a woman is looking to experience the antithesis to her familiar world, which is hard, test-soaked, mind-spinning and confusing masculinity. She doesn't want a friendly, understanding feminist equal life companion, she hates herself enough as it is.

The emotionally invested man is actively disowning his biology by rejecting core masculine traits and validating her frame as being the superior one. She herself doesn't even want to be in her own frame, so to see a man behave in this way is repugnant, and she immediately recognizes him as being weak - thus her desire to allow sexual access is revoked or denied entirely. The whole reason she is investing in a man is so he can whisk her out of her frame and pull her into a frame of hard, alien masculinity - aka the maelstrom of feelz she craves and spends her whole life looking for, to make her feel good about being his sex slave.

Dread & Masculinity

Dread is the natural female reaction to a masculine man, and thus there is nothing negative about dread - we've simply been conditioned to believe operating outside of the feminine frame and within the masculine is wrong.

Dread as your baseline in every relationship communicates to your plate/STR that you are a man and you unapologetically love being a fucking man, and that you know your worth. It communicates you aren't insecure or unsure of yourself, you know exactly who and what you are. It's embracing core components of masculinity - first and foremost you are free, you owe the world nothing, and you are embracing of your sexual imperative which is to seek sexual access to the highest number of women possible - to fuck whoever you want and not feel ashamed about it nor feel as if you have to explain yourself. It shows that you understand sexuality is amoral, something that women instinctively know from birth. It shows you're aware that you are fundamentally superior to any women that enter your life and that you know what she really wants and needs from you.

Practical Guide

Dread can't be used to save a relationship. If you've got to the point where you're in a deadbedroom, she's showing zero respect for you and has seemingly emotionally checked out or become distant, desperately trying to inject some dread by staying out late, purposely being caught texting other girls etc will only make your situation worse. She knows you're frauding. She knows you're a pussy, and at this point she's gone. You've failed to provide her the feelz maelstrom, and you're now deemed a loser, an inadequate male who she cannot feel comfortable giving her body to, and she's on the lookout for the next potential walking Dick n' Feelz Dispenser.

Dread Game is first and foremost a mindset that comes from complete and total embrace of the fundamental masculine trait of abundance and indifference to anything with women that doesn't help you attain your desired result of vagina access, and for that reason it will never properly work until you are operating in true abundance. This simply means you really have to be fucking many women. It means you have to have at least two women at any given time, to build up your natural indifference to anything that isn't good sex and pleasant company.

You must enter every relationship/plate scenario with the mindset of;

"This relationship is going to end. Eventually this woman is going to leave. I know why she will leave. Until that point, I want unlimited access to her body. She has nothing to offer me beyond pleasant company and her body. I am indifferent to anything else. As a man, I will never derive emotional satisfaction and existential completion from this person, only myself. We are polar opposites, she wants to experience masculinity, not femininity. I must understand that this is a transaction - she is giving me access to her body, while I am providing emotional stimulation in the form of dominant sex and emotional rollercoaster/escape from her life. This relationship depends entirely on me upholding my end of the deal*."

When you are able to internalize this mindset, dread simply becomes synonymous with your woman's conception of you. It will seep through in all of your interactions with her. She will feel it in her bones and pussy. She knows she's replaceable. She knows you actually most likely are out fucking other women, even when you fraudulently assure her you're not, with a grin on your face. She will hate and desire you simultaneously. Your indifference will drive her fucking mental. She will give you her body as both a token of her appreciation for understanding her primal needs, and as a desperate attempt to reel you in and secure you, in order to fulfill her imperative which is to beta-ize you and move on to the next male.

Having this mindset has personally manifested in these behaviors of mine with my plates and STR's;

  • Regularly ignore phone calls (I simply don't care)
  • Regularly disappear for days on end (I don't need to explain anything)
  • Regularly fuck, speak to and flirt with other women (I am a man)
  • Constantly trivialize emotional discussion/shit tests (I don't care because I'm not invested nor operating within a female frame)
  • Call her out on her shit, tell her she's wrong, argue with her for the sake of it (drama injection, create fights for the fun of it)
  • Instigate pointless fights (bored, enjoy seeing her hamster)
  • Act completely indifferent/disinterested in person (am usually disinterested outside of bedroom anyway)
  • Occasionally reject sex (nuclear, advanced level and only to be used sparingly)

I balance these natural behaviors with forced, fraudulent and acted necessary comfort such as;

  • Spontaneous, almost psychotic declarations of desire
  • Listening to her problems and pretending to care
  • Ridiculous, over the top compliments
  • Fucking her to the best of my ability
  • Pretending she is unique/special
  • Periodically entertaining the idea of becoming exclusive

If you are operating at a baseline of dread, aka pure masculinity, you can afford to inject moments of forced beta. They will seem completely uncharacteristic and thus memorable, and even the most small of compliments will be received well. You need to balance dread out with instances of reassurance, that communicate you do value her, even if in reality you only value her thick ass. You're also playing into the stupid little illusion/fantasy that she might be "finally hooking you in", before flipping that notion on it's head by disappearing again for 2 weeks and leaving her hamster to spin into overdrive, resulting in guaranteed ass-to-mouth the next time she sees you.

In closing, none of this will work if you aren't operating out of true abundance with at least one other plate spinning. This mindset will feel forced and unnatural until you have surrounded yourself with women and understand their nature for what it is. None of this will work if you can't internalize and accept the reality that all you want from women is their adoration and exclusive access to their body, and all women want from you is your dick and ability/willingness to completely enslave them physically and emotionally, and that sexual strategy is completely amoral.

You must understand women crave and desire masculine men above anything else, they exist to serve and worship masculine men. Every relationship is temporary - you are in there to get the best and most regular sex you can. You must understand everything you've been taught about what women want from men is wrong, and that what you perceive as treating a woman "poorly" is usually behavior that is actually aligned with your masculinity.

Dread is a by-product of being a masculine man.