The phrase "my girl" ("your girl" for the sake of this discussion) is ludicrous. Here's why.

"Your girl" gave her first blowjob to someone other than you at age 14. "Your girl" received head from someone other than you at age 14. "Your girl" lost her virginity to someone other than you at age 15. "Your girl" experienced love with someone other than you.

"Your girl" was traumatized from a breakup and lot her ability to truly love before she even met you. "Your girl" spent her college years dating and hooking up with dozens of men before she met you" "Your girl" has literally had the semen of count of other men other than you all over the face and body way before she met you. "Your girl" lost her physical attractiveness to/with other men before meeting you. "Your girl" was traumatized, heartbroken, and pushed to insanity due to other men before she even knew you existed.

"Your girl" is most likely responsible for the depression and heartbreak of five other men she manipulated before you. And by the way, "your girl" with move away from you and onto partner #25 within the next few months, or years if you're unlucky.

But keep calling her "your girl", and keep pretending you share some sort of special bond. LOL.