Guy finds out his girlfriend of two years, who was supposedly a virgin when they met and made him wait six months for sex, has been lying about it the whole time.

RedBigMan · 2013-06-04T05:47:01+00:00

telling me how laughable it was that he came onto her after a week of knowing her and about how she had to reject him via an awkward message.

Ya, she rejected him alright. She rejected him from being the beta provider. Guess who won that prize? She sounds like a real catch. I'm sure she'll be totally open and honest about everything going forward.

MartialWay · 2013-06-04T16:19:31+00:00

it seems like military guys are disproportionately susceptible to trusting and being exploited by women. i guess you can't apply the virtues you learn in the military to relationships with modern women.

pirateundies · 2013-06-04T05:46:18+00:00

I'm mildly surprised. The top comment has some rationalizations ("it only counts if it's meaningful") mixed with some actual decent advice ("her giving you shit about having sex with other girls is not okay"). So... good for that, I guess.

VZPurp · 2013-06-04T11:07:04+00:00

This guy should dump her and move on, and I find it disturbing people in that thread are suggesting he stay with her.

With behavior like that she's ready to suck cock two at a time and not count it as cheating.

thebears1986 · 2013-06-04T05:39:53+00:00

And I highly doubt she actually lost her virginity to the other guy. It's a safer bet to say she banged 50 dudes and she gets off having them think she is losing her virginity.

dropit_sphere · 2013-06-04T05:55:12+00:00

http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html

Executive summary: Marriages in which the woman has had no other sexual partners are far more likely to stay together.

EDIT: I'm pretty much gonna post this chart habitually from now on, I think.

Invincibull · 2013-06-04T09:45:51+00:00

What an idiot (the girl). Now the guy will always have in the back of his mind that he had to wait six months for sex, and some douche got it for nothing. Not just that, she had the audacity to shame him for not being a virgin. Who was it said, "Women are creating misogynists as fast as they can make 'em."

If anyone on this subreddit can't figure out the red pill, just be a douche, guys. The more respect you give women, the more they abuse it.

2013-06-04T13:02:33+00:00

It's just not OK to dredge up past sexual experiences as a way to shame your partner. It's actually a form of emotional abuse. If a man did this to his girlfriend, we would all be screaming about slut shaming, and rightfully so! It's really gross behavior.

[citation needed]

2013-06-05T06:40:16+00:00

I gave this guy a piece of my mind...

M0nsterRain · 2013-06-04T14:07:52+00:00

This situation right here is why I have a "3 date rule." If we haven't had sex by the end of date number three there won't be a date number four. Sorry, if you want to wait beyond that we're just not going to be sexually compatible and I'm not going to waste my time with you.

That being said, the older I get the less interested I am in dating and the more interested I am in just having a list of women I can randomly hook up with when I feel like it.

ClemsonPoker · 2013-06-04T21:56:40+00:00

I feel like I've said this so much it's sickening, but once again, the most enlightening portion of that is the comments from women, including and especially the current top comment:

http://np.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1fmlfc/i_m25_found_out_my_girlfriend_22_of_2_years_who/cabqk83

Jaw-droppingly ridiculous.

favours_of_the_moon · 2013-06-04T06:13:44+00:00

The first time is a big deal.

Giving it off to some dude the bf KNOWS, not cool.

For the rest of his life the dude would have that over his head, YEAH I TOOK HER VIRGINITY. HA HA HA. MEANWHILE SHE LIED TO YOU FOR TWO YEARS. HA HA HA.

50 dudes for sure. A girl doesn't just give it up randomly like that. Not the first time. For a woman, the mindrape is the orgasm, 9 times out of 10.

mechakingghidorah · 2013-06-04T07:52:36+00:00

This is why I'll never believe a girl who claims to be a virgin. I read somewhere that 90-96% of women have lost their virginity by the age of 20.

J2501 · 2013-06-04T18:45:38+00:00

BWAH-ha, the virgin scam. I'll believe it when I see the blood!

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