I was referred here and I'm not quite sure what The Red Pill is all about. I mean I sort of get it, but not really.

I was referred here by someone on a rant about my girlfriend. I am pretty much the sub in this relationship. She tells me to do things, I do them. I tell her to do things, she ignores me, or she does them with an attitude. She throws a fit when she doesn't get her way, she screams at me, says hurtful things out of anger, and jokes about my inadequacies or says compares me to other men saying so and so would do X for me.

The worst part is the sexist thoughts she has. She expects the man to pay. She wants a man to take care of her. I am not that man. We're supposed to be equal partners.

Whenever trying to discuss these issues with her, she either gets mad about the issue all over again and can't have a reasonable conversation, or she uses logic that doesn't work, claims I'm the wrong one, and that's the end of it, she doesn't want to talk about it anymore. If I try to talk about it more, she gets re-mad and now I'm in trouble for not respecting her feelings.

She gets the last word almost every time because of this.

Now I ask you: how do you deal with a woman like this? The obvious answer is "leave her", but what if that's NOT the answer? How would you deal with her if you had to make it work?