Reading and consuming all the opinions, posts and solutions to different situations in life given here is determinal to your journey. This is something I have figured out a while ago, and I have been distancing myself from the subreddit and social media in general since.

There is one thing you need to understand. The posts here are aimed at maximizing your results in the sexual marketplace (ultimatly), and while there is definitely a base you need to internalize first (sidebar!), after you have reached that stage, this place becomes redundant and starts to hold you down(mostly with the exception of referring to past gems and sidebar). You need to self- reflect and understand when you are at that place and push yourself through it.

I say this because I noticed too many comments here and on asktrp, and also the questions posted there are not even trying to really tackle their life and situations that occur in them, they just dont seem to understand what they are doing to themselves by relying on others for things you should be able(or atleast aim) to handle youraelf. But trying to find the perfect reaction to every situation via advice and posts here makes your progress moot, since you lose the aspect of personal trial and error.

You need to fail. Ill say this again, you need to fail.

By truely letting yourself go and accepting the possible L (in all aspects in life), you see the path to true development, where you are not held down to any outside circumstances. Its just you vs the problem, as it naturally should be as a man of value.

Only then, when you will truly tackle it in the way you think, then learn from that, you let yourself to be able to break free from the cocoon.

Listen to yourself, value yourself. Peace