Another reason why MGTOW is the only viable option nowadays.

fartonista · 2019-03-31T22:00:37+00:00

It only took 13 years to tell him...

ChiefWarBear · 2019-03-31T23:59:23+00:00

"she holds no anger towards me.." This dude is getting gaslit like a flamethrower.

john21232 · 2019-03-31T22:46:47+00:00

This post hit me hard. My wife said something very similar to me, though in my case it was only 9 years. I did not stop loving her: not that that means anything.

KarosGraveyard · 2019-04-01T00:05:14+00:00

Their love is transactional, our love is unconditional.

Evolution is a gynocentric piece of fucking burnt dogshit on the sidewalk.

flee_market · 2019-04-01T01:52:59+00:00

She's not autistic, she's female. I'm afraid it's terminal.

ZeroBlink · 2019-03-31T22:07:34+00:00

On spectrum or not, most marrieges are a sham. Even if you were in love at one point , love ends after about 4 years. After that you're running on fumes and force of habit. Personally know a girl that got married to an ugly ass dude , just because he was the first in line to "save her" from her TERRIBLE PARENTS. (note: A conservative , Moral and well meaning couple).
They were married 3 years and she managed to have 3 kids in that time.

Sir_Koopaman · 2019-03-31T23:17:39+00:00

Time for OP to push for full custody. An eye for am eye.

ieatarse22 · 2019-04-01T02:14:25+00:00

You gave her the things she wanted and PROVIDED. She could no longer benefit from you and she finally got bored enough to tell you.

I doubt she’s on the spectrum. She just has a vagina.

20182019_Throwaway · 2019-04-01T00:47:26+00:00

Mine held the facade for 20 years before she cracked.

GrisBosque · 2019-03-31T23:31:46+00:00

its like keeping pet rattle snakes...

These are not good times to be naïve and good hearted.

This is like Robin Hood era, and the Sheriff of Nottingham has a divorce decree for your serf ass...

So what do you do?

You pull up your nutsack, sling your quiver and sword, and string your bow.... And off into the forest you go for some of those yummy deer the nobles have been reserving for themselves...

Camping out is fun... Merry Men R we!

And if "normal" people cant understand it, it aint our problem...

Toshiba1point0 · 2019-04-01T01:50:45+00:00

So the thing that would piss me off is that she wants to break up with you guilt free by having you do it for her. I have no doubts she has side dick and 0 continued interest. My unsolicited advice is to do document this exact post with your lawyer and get all you can plus the kids. I know she’s saying she doesn’t care but that isn’t necessarily true because money is involved. If she’s lied about the marriage, there’s no end to the rabbit hole of deception.

AndyJN16 · 2019-04-01T00:36:58+00:00

Lol this dudes blue pills are self circuiting

stent00 · 2019-04-01T13:24:18+00:00

my ex told me during our divorce that she stopped being attracted to me after the first kid and had another 2 kids because she was "comfortable". I always new there was something wrong but couldnt put my finger on it. As a result I don't trust any woman. I asked her why she just didn't tell me this 10 years ago??? because she was a stay at home mom and i was supporting her that was what she meant by comfortable. Now I pay her 1780 a month child support and she barely works and comes out way ahead of me in income. Im ducked for another 12 years. Never marry gents! Don't trust women! Don't love women! Don't shack up with a woman!

MincoLesharo · 2019-03-31T22:16:27+00:00

Shit happens.

veganhitler · 2019-04-01T04:08:50+00:00

People in the past always got married to people they didn't really love. It was a sense of duty. And no matter how hard it got, they stayed together for the kids. My parents were an arranged marriage. They are still together. Even though me and my two older sisters are messed up because of how they raised us , i respect that they are still together.

realChebz · 2019-04-01T06:07:13+00:00

at least he was a "great provider" smh.

To be fair marriage is bs. 13 years is way too long to be "in love" with someone. To spare that guy's feelings, she may have even loved him back 13 years ago, but I suspect we're not pair-bonding-for-life species, as time goes we lose interest and want to move on to another partner.

hamburgerstake · 2019-04-01T04:24:29+00:00

She's on the spectrum alright, the crazy bitch spectrum.

xonradical · 2019-04-01T07:34:48+00:00

Live in gf slept with three different people since the beginning of our relationship. Easy come easy go.

BananaWilly · 2019-04-01T02:30:56+00:00

All marriages are shams. Some last longer than others, but, make no mistake, wymen are in the game for freebies.

TheNewAge2147 · 2019-04-01T05:55:27+00:00

its just another story of how the father becomes the beta supporter and wife needs exciting cock to fuck. difference is that she colored it into something innocent and romantic

White_Mlungu_Capital · 2019-04-01T05:56:39+00:00

Typical women behaviour, they play the long con, they have the kids, know your income, now its divorce rape time to run off with her pool boy.

joylover7 · 2019-04-01T09:28:46+00:00

Actually, the same situation happened for my uncle a few months ago. He and his wife had not been together for 13 years though but instead 24 years! They had a house, kids, cars, etc. together. Women are all the same.

hanskywalk3r · 2019-04-01T12:36:25+00:00

I really feel bad for the kids in these families. She's going to destroy the family for selfish reasons and then screw the kids up but that's ok apparently

kagetsuki32 · 2019-04-01T08:31:03+00:00

He should divorce her and warn her that if she intend to take his money through a divorce, he will kill her.

Scheinwelt · 2019-04-01T08:32:43+00:00

The experiences on this reddit almost always follow my own experiences. Same thing happened to me.

My ex, after 15 years of being together told me that there was no connection between us and she didn't think there ever was. After 15 years of me wasting my time and money on this cunt, she tells me this.

AndroidMetroid · 2019-04-01T09:15:16+00:00

i just hope he doesn't come home one day to find his kids corpses dissolving in lye.

Stallion-18 · 2019-04-01T12:51:37+00:00

LOOOOOOL. WHY ARE SO MANY GUYS SO FUCKING STUPID. it pisses me off because they will still think women are all perfect and good. And they will still fucking simp for them. Goddamn. Im never happier that I found MGTOW.

CrackingYs · 2019-04-01T13:09:50+00:00

Funny how those reptilian instincts kick in only after having children and having all the cards in their hand.

RPdOF · 2019-04-01T01:25:08+00:00

I'm on the spectrum. People accuse me of being pissed off / snarky / hateful when I'm just trying to talk normally bc I can't really successfully convey any emotions that I am feeling, other than anger, in a way that you "normies" can easily understand.

She just sounds like a cold, heartless bitch to me.

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Dontneedflashbro · 2019-04-01T02:13:34+00:00

This story reminds me of the anime "Orange"

CodeDaniel · 2019-04-01T04:25:34+00:00

This simp should burn in pain if it took him 13 years...

TheAnarxoCapitalist · 2019-04-01T08:06:43+00:00

I only had to read the title to know there's another guy in the story.

Actually the tl;dr is wrong. The correct tl;dr is: "wife realized I'm a beta and found an alpha to replace me, but still thinks I'm a well-functioning emotional tampon"

aidsgoblin · 2019-04-01T11:14:22+00:00

I think the vast majority of "successful" marriages are exactly like this. People get married just because and never really think about it. Makes zero sense to me.

KingRagnar1588 · 2019-04-01T13:49:04+00:00

Same pretty much. After 7 years tho.

novhaku · 2019-04-01T14:34:08+00:00

And to be honest it's exactly the same even when you're not married/don't have kids. The waythey see relationships is a scam. There's a reason men take break-ups a lot worse than women if the man doesn't just see her as a fucktoy, no matter what some bitter quora retard might say in the line of "WAMAN SUFFER TOO" (before talking about themselves constantly, proving once again that it's all about them)

The way you see a relationship and the way a female sees it isn't the same at all. You are disposable if you aren't useful anymore or if you become bothersoe (= ask for respect).

No feelings are involved. You are useful because you allow them to have some artificial self-worth because of you, since she doesn'tdeserve any by herself ad she knows it. Once she gets another source for this (even moreso if the man is better than you, because it means that she's good enough to attract this kind of man; a part of their hypergamy is also because they are pitiful in the way they compute their own and everyone else's valuen muh inecurity) you being here doesn't have a point anymore.

yardbird98 · 2019-04-01T22:40:17+00:00

Briffault’s Law my friend. If the short-term opportunity cost outweighs the short-term benefits from staying in the marriage, she will almost always divorce. The same shit that happened to you happened to my dad, and his marriage lasted 25 years.

binkerfluid · 2019-04-01T16:17:53+00:00

dude should get her to put that no custody for her in writing from with a lawyer, he just got handed a dream come true there.

2019-04-01T23:13:39+00:00

"Our" marriage is a sham. "Our" AIDS is deadly. "Our" water is wet.

Title	Another reason why MGTOW is the only viable option nowadays.
Author	Natuasi
Upvotes	278
Comments	87
Date	March 31, 2019 9:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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