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This is why we exist.

Narconis

June 20, 2013
31 upvotes
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We exist so that no one has to go through this

http://np.reddit.com/r/depression/comments/1gpqc9/she_makes_me_feel_like_im_dying_and_horribly_sad/

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Title This is why we exist.
Author

Narconis

Upvotes 31
Comments 40
Date June 20, 2013 7:33 AM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1gpr1k/this_is_why_we_exist/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/this-is-why-we-exist.4990
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Comments

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points27 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Dear God. That's not a pedestal, that's a lunar orbiter.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 16 points17 points18 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

That's no moon...

[–]dmahan 12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

That's my wife!

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 10 points11 points12 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's too big to be a wife!

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I do not need laughter while pooping!

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]TRP Vanguardtheubercuber 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

An important detail, sure. But she's still experiencing this at the hands of another girl who probably doesn't even care she exists right now.

[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

The fuck? This guy watches/reads way too much romantic shit... This nigga is literally going on about wings and legs and shit? Forreal?

All jokes aside though, I have a close friend who loves his girlfriend way more than she does him. He buys her expensive things and constantly complains to me about her flirting with other guys. He's going to end up exactly like this guy.

[–]veggie_girl -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

If a woman is flirting with other men the relationship is already over, for her at least.

Best he drop her. Which leaves him with two options.

    1. Fix himself and stop being a beta bitch.
    1. Date ugly girls who there won't be any competition for.

That's honestly why I believe ugly girls exist in this world, for weak little betas to settle down with.

[–]Hoogstens 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

nope, most ugly chicks are deluded people

i have seen average guys get rejected by some really ugly chicks.

they think they can get better because alphas have no problems fucking them on a one-night stand.

[–]veggie_girl 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Those are the worst kind of people.

[–]musicvita25 13 points14 points15 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I can't listen to love songs without cringing now.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I can no longer enjoy Boyz 2 Men. I have to constantly remind myself "they were doing this for the pussy"

[–]slfnflctd 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Oneitis. Fucking. Kills.

Once it's revealed that these feelings were misplaced, the damage is already done. If not leading to outright, literal, physical death in short order, it will destroy a life for any number of years (often to the end) by diverting focus internally & backwards and thereby preventing any significant forward movement.

The worst thing is, practically everything our culture does further optimizes the conditions under which this wretched misery festers while shutting out other perspectives.

Sure, you may be one of the 'lucky ones', but there is absolutely no way to to know for sure because the situation can turn on a dime any time, and the odds are terrible. It would serve us well to encourage more self reliance in our young men. This is definitely worthy of our effort.

edit: more and better words

[–]troubadour1492 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Getting stuck with an internal and backwards focus has been the bane of my existence my whole life. I'm slowly moving past the past.

I really love dogs, and every time a dog dies it damn near kills me, but I have learned when a dog dies, get a new puppy, and I'll be over it in a couple of months. I know what to do about a dog dying, and it's easier to get over the inevitable.

My mother died. I was completely beside myself for years, and then one day I realized I have no idea what her birthday was, or what day she died. The state I have reached on that score is a good one.

It does me no good to remember such things. Good or bad, the past is the past and it's never coming back. Learn what you can from it and move the fuck on.

[–]deksamkcab 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I feel bad for the guy. My former GF said the SAME things to me about needing space to grow and such shit. 2 weeks later, she was fucking another guy. He has a rude awakening coming his way and will realise that he misstook her horns for wings.

[–]Redpillpupil 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Does anyone else get a very immature feel from this post, like the guy is in his early teens? I don't know if any good redpill advice would really sink in for him, at that age you're just a mix of chaotic emotions.

[–]anakinastronaut 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I disagree with your assertion, I'm fourteen and it sunk in pretty well.

[–]MrStinky 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I wish I had this subreddit when I was 14. Cot dayum. I'm going to be 28 this year and could have used it 14 years ago. Take this stuff, learn it, use what is useful, discard the rest and make sure it is internalized

[–]anakinastronaut 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I am trying to. But I was raised by my mom and her friends, so I have a lot to overcome.

[–]MrStinky 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You can get there

[–]anakinastronaut 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I sure hope so.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Skip this one guys, it's a lesbian couple. Nothing to do with us.

[–]RedditBlueit 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lesbian betas, who knew?

Do effeminate gay men have hamsters? If so, is it a learned thing?

[–]thecajunone 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Used to hang out with a lot gay guys when I was in college theater. They too often had horrible oneitis whenever they got into a relationship and it usually ended with them getting heart broken as the alpha of the relationship moved on and kept fucking other dudes.

[–]Kronouranos 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow. The author thinks something is more true than 2+2=4. They're in for a harsh reality. Nothing's more true than that.

[–]AlwaysLateToThreads 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I thought I had it bad.

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

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[–]IntangiablePleasure 11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Because the ideology here isn't widely accepted. We could all go in there, and tell him to hit the gym, ETC,ETC, but no one would listen to us.

TRP is something that isn't told, but experienced. Once you ingest it, that's when you look for additional help.

[–]Netlinfo 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We could all go in there, and tell him to hit the gym, ETC,ETC, but no one would listen to us.

On the contrary, I think that if we start posting in these threads and give advice, we'd attract some passing-by lurkers who'd benefit from this. It's not in vain.

[–]W-Z-R 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah, it would turn this subreddit into /r/seduction and we wouldn't want that.

[–]chegothy 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, this guy is beyond anyone's help I think. He's just gonna have to learn the hard way.

[–]RedSunBlue 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There's a reason why intra-reddit links are NP'd

[–]Honduran -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wasn't aware of this. Thanks!

[–]djonmaya 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

you can ride your high horse right out the door.

[–]Honduran -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Not a high-horse. I'm new to this and I guess I see a little bit of myself from the past in that guy's post.

[–]djonmaya 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

then feel free to help him. im not a missionary. if people want to swallow the red pill, then fine, but im not gonna go out and try to help every chump who cant get it right.

[–]Honduran -4 points-3 points-2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

My comment was never about you. I don't see why you made this personal.

[–]djonmaya 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

it was about trp subscribers. of which i am one. your comment came across as somewhat concern trollish

[–]Mizzet 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Then who is it about? There is no 'you guys' entity out there that is going to be able to respond to your statement.

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