Women dropping red-pills on you before you knew about MGTOW?

1UPZ_ · 2017-11-21T18:24:15+00:00

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redchords · 2017-11-21T19:00:01+00:00

I'll drop 2.

1) my grandma says "you should grow your hair out, you've got such lovely curly hair. You've got the 'good hair' in the family.

"But grandma, my gf says she likes my head buzzed" "She's only saying that so other women won't look at you as much. Don't tell her I said that."

2) I'm like 16 or 17 I can't remember. One of my best friends who was like a year older gets a girl pregnant. Totally fucked his life up. When talking about this with my mother she says to me and I quote: "That's why I'm glad you're short, if you were as tall as him, you'd probably have a cpl girls pregnant by now". I took it like a G.

Uic8rkkduwi84ifnnve · 2017-11-21T19:04:17+00:00

Back in India we had a maid who used to narrate stories of how her husband comes home drunk every evening and beats her up. She wasnt alone, her other women neighbors had similar tales. These women were primary bread-winners of the household. After listening to her stories for a while, I asked her why doesn't she and other women like her simply leave the husbands? Was it that she was scared he'd follow and hurt her? Her answer had and continues to have a deep impact on how I view the world.

Her answer to my question was, "We don't feel like he's a man unless he beats us."

I spent my youth trying to analyze her statement through a rational lens. The blue piller in me tried to paint her as an outlier in the human psychological spectrum. But the pithy statement of our seemingly uneducated maid kept resonating in my mind. It was the only thing that explained the behavior of women I saw in the society (albeit at a metaphorical level). "We dont feel like he's a man unless he beats us"

Disclaimer: This is a personal anecdote. In no way does it advocate violence of any sort. If you're too stupid to understand this, you should get off the internet and probably surrender your drivers license.

Salvador66 · 2017-11-21T19:16:19+00:00

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CadeyrnDragheim · 2017-11-21T19:21:12+00:00

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DJGrom · 2017-11-21T21:32:00+00:00

My sister: if you can get a girl to day the words "You're such an Asshole", shell sleep with you

throwaway_worthaway · 2017-11-21T20:31:58+00:00

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Salvador66 · 2017-11-21T20:09:45+00:00

Being 5'2 was the only red pill I needed growing up, and not just when it comes to women.

manthrowingmyownway · 2017-11-21T21:40:56+00:00

Was told a fair bit, especially how many guys she slept with and so forth.

She cheated on her bf with me.

Told me to never disclose all feelings to girls. To always have more options. To not care so much about stuff and never ever ever put hobbies or interests aside for a girl.

"any girl will fuck you up, make you boring and then leave you. That's what we do"

She was the one showing me the first trail to the rabbit hole.

dot_dot_beep · 2017-11-21T19:48:46+00:00

Back in my romantic bp days I had a girl tell me that I'm sweet, that I shouldn't trust most women, and not to worry about them because they're nasty creatures.

Skyhawk_And_Skyhead · 2017-11-21T21:53:35+00:00

I've heard a girl say "why do I want a work in progress when I can have the finished product."

2017-11-21T20:24:16+00:00

Girl got mad at me for not wanting to take a cab to my car from a restaurant when the car was 4 blocks away in downtown, the weather was 70F and clear. After I bought her dinner. She never had a job in her life and had no idea how to manage money. Noped out of that shit so fast

SorryAssCuck · 2017-11-22T00:01:23+00:00

I was part of a two month travel group. We were all early 20s.

The girls voted me 'best future husband', and I was confused when none of them had any interest.

Still took me 10 more years to swallow the red pill.

I saw one girl a couple years ago. Single mother at this point. It felt really good rejecting her advances.

SorryAssCuck · 2017-11-22T02:15:30+00:00

Nothing will redpill you more than being married. I was deployed with the National Guard when she told me over the phone that she wanted a divorce and that she will be moving out of our apartment. I get back and find out that she did a branch swing to another guy while I was gone. She took my son and moved in with this guy while I was serving Uncle Sam. He was older and was making significantly more money than me at the time.

Fast forward a few years, and the recession hit this guy hard and all of a sudden he couldn’t get a job to save his life. Also, I started hearing from reliable sources that she was cucking this fool left and right, and was running up his credit cards to the point where this poor cuck had to file BK.

Well, my ex was seriously mentally ill and ended up suiciding with the cucks diabetes meds. I attended the funeral only as emotional support to my son, and during the service my ex’s second husband told the story of how and when they met. Mothers Day of 2005. A day that I specifically remember having sent her flowers and having called her and wished her a Happy Mothers Day.

We were both cucks that day.

Oro_077 · 2017-11-21T19:54:35+00:00

I have meet wonderful women that haven´t try to take advantage of me, and one of them told me an advice (while jocking) about choosing between saying the truth or flattering: "You should lie".

orphancrippla · 2017-11-22T02:55:09+00:00

Tangentially red pilled from my mom. Paraphrasing here:

-If a woman wants to be a stay at home wife, she damn well better cook, clean, stay thin, and fuck. Being stay at home doesn't mean being unemployed, it just means a different kind of job.

Pretty shocking to hear my "strong wimen" single mother who has always worked say that. I guess some women see the obvious.

ChrisBrownApologist · 2017-11-21T18:35:43+00:00

I've personally known a hooker and a stripper.

Crimson pill

mediumwaffle · 2017-11-21T23:30:21+00:00

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mrk68 · 2017-11-21T23:28:20+00:00

(Her) “Of course I want to date a man out of my league. If he’s rich that’s even better!”

(Me) “So you embrace hypergamy huh?”

(Her) “What’s that mean? Multiple wives?”

2017-11-22T07:14:45+00:00

Breaking up with my gf, mostly amicable split, she starts crying, I feel rotten and cruel. I tell her:

"Hey, it's ok, maybe we can work this out when we have a bit more stability in our careers"

Her response: "It's not that...it's just that now I'm the only one of my sisters without a boyfriend..."

Sobered me up real quick!

shockinghillaryquote · 2017-11-22T01:52:06+00:00

My ex said, when things ended, "I'm upset because plans changed."

PLANS. You're just part of her plan.

1UPZ_ · 2017-11-21T22:54:03+00:00

its true though.

Women are like men in regards to looking after themselves foremost... these days, its financial and resources.

Even if a woman or man loves you but she/he is with someone with a steady financial status and resources... she will not leave her/him unless she/he is sure you can match or improved upon her/his current/previous state.

OldRoad · 2017-11-22T01:08:13+00:00

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batfish55 · 2017-11-21T23:23:53+00:00

WOW. But no, nothing THAT blatant.

KaitouNala · 2017-11-22T00:12:13+00:00

holy shit so many redpills in this post, my stomach is churning atm x.x

2017-11-22T03:57:05+00:00

Very few women verbally told me the truth, but all their actions and also the movies/stories they liked and the culture was a big red pill I wouldn't swallow. I remember those 80s movies where the jock gets the sweet girl and the deserving nerd eats his tears. I would watch that shit and be devastated and just male hamster it not being true.

frankmarlowe · 2017-11-22T11:40:08+00:00

As a former "nice guy" and unwitting orbieter, women never dropped the red pills for me. Their husbands and boyfriends did all the red pill dropping, even if unintentionally. The ladies only confirmed it through their actions.

2017-11-22T00:43:06+00:00

I have zero attraction to women at all. Never have any girlfriends. An incel-type guy out there.

That's the ultimate red pill on how merciless they are.

1UPZ_ · 2017-11-22T03:08:56+00:00

My wife tells me that she'll jump me much more often if I get tattoos on my arms. So I'm a bit cautious with introducing my wife to smart, educated, tallish muscular men that have buzz hair cut, tanned and with tattoos...

saruin · 2017-11-22T05:49:16+00:00

When she decided to start going out on her own, guys were suddenly part of our inner circle which was never the case for years. She would of course end up sleeping with a few (that I know of). I didn't know why at the time that I decided to drop her, but it was the best (in retrospect) and most difficult thing I've ever done.

bannerlord · 2017-11-22T07:22:18+00:00

I've experienced women(even single moms)
ask me what's my job and what's my car

Jason_Bornagain · 2017-11-22T02:09:11+00:00

That time my ex told me about how unmarried men back in her hometown of NY would wear wedding rings because it was easier to attract and lay women.

jlunr · 2017-11-22T02:28:45+00:00

Thank goodness I had red pill experiences back in high school. I’m truly grateful that I saw how women are at that age. I went to a small Christian school but that doesn’t change how women are very much if at all.

I had a crush on two girls who were friends. I would say they were maybe 7/10 at the time in looks (back then). I never asked them out since I was more introverted back then and kinda too nervous to do it. Anyways one of them (who I will call girl #1) had a crush on a guy who was a popular jock. He was dating a girl 2 years older than him who was in college and an alumni. Girl #1 knew the other girl well because she was the cheerleading coach but didn’t care and she still would hook up with him. The relationship obviously fell apart.

After high school, girl #1 only dated tall chad type guys even though she was barely 5ft tall. One time I made a joke on Facebook about her and girl #2 being Lesbians. (They would joke about it too even though they probably just kissed one time) This was back 10 years ago when everyone on Facebook was mostly college students. She freaked out on me and dropped all sorts of horrible language in a Facebook message since she thought that it could mean that some guy she liked wouldn’t like her anymore if he thought she was a lesbian. I never talked to her again after that. The funny thing is the guy liked my Facebook post and thought it was funny haha. She is approaching 30 with no kids and never married.

When Girl #2 was a senior in college and she wanted chad dick so bad that she dated a guy in high school that was barely 18. Since this was a Christian school some students got married young. She wanted to become serious with him and lock down chad but the guy dumped her because he was barely an adult in no way ready to be in a serious relationship. Apparently he just wanted more time to spend with his friends and play video games lol. Makes perfect sense to me. This same girl is also approaching 30 and has rarely dated and never married or had kids. I took her out one time in the past when we were both 25 but she told me she just wanted to be friends. I don’t fall for that stuff anymore and I cut off contact. Most men are not good enough for her and she only wants really tall ripped men. Obviously these type of men aren’t interested in her anymore.

Bonus story- girl #2 told me she doesn’t like girl #1 anymore since she would constantly stab her in the back and try to get with any guy she likes. She also said girl #2 loves to try to break up relationships because it’s a challenge and rewarding to her. What a psycho.

Bonus story 2- another girl in my high school was one of the supposedly “innocent well behaved church girls.” She was actually really stuck up and a giant slut.

Gaullic · 2017-11-22T04:30:30+00:00

The biggest redpill was that even though I am good looking and buff, I've never had a girlfriend because I'm not rich enough and my social skills aren't good enough. I've taken to just jacking off to myself in the mirror now.

Blogginginvicecity · 2017-11-22T08:54:34+00:00

Shit tests, not knowing what kind of gender roles or men she wants, and the pursuit of victimhood. I had a supremely "free thinking" "feminist" gf. It was to be great, because equality and shit, right? LOL it was the bastard child of equality. Her lust for a man like her former-gangbanger, angry, inferiority-complex-macho dad was increasingly apparent towards the end of our relationship.

Oh, and of course she was a "strong woman" who would put herself in reckless situations I had to rescue her from, because "that's what dudes are supposed to do." So many notions of what a boyfriend SHOULD DO (especially PDA, which I found was disrespectful to incels like my old self ). The best part was when she wanted to break up after SHE went psycho on ME; I respected her wishes as I was a nice believer in equality and respect. So I lived my quiet, historically solitary life, then BOOM her telecommunications served to show that I failed a shit test of having to woo her back. She starts telling me that my lack of chase means i must NEVER have cared about her, and am thus am a lying, manipulative, hurtful person. And this was from a girl who was my unicorn for years. Oh and of course her stereotypical sjw friends tried to convince her she was raped 3 years prior, when apparently SHE thought I would leave her if we didn't have sex by a certain date.

Title	Women dropping red-pills on you before you knew about MGTOW?
Author	Uic8rkkduwi84ifnnve
Upvotes	182
Comments	109
Date	November 21, 2017 6:00 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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