Yes, I already know what some of you will say: “But men need sex, and without sex we feel like crap.” “Having sex with a woman shows you have value.” “Humans are sexual by nature. It’s impossible to live life without sex.” “You’ll end up feeling lonely.” First of, I’m in my 20s and I never had sex, had my first kiss, or been in a relationship? Am I proud of it? no. Do I feel bad about it from time to time? maybe but I got over it. If you ask me, being single comes with it’s pros and cons as well as being in a relationship. Plus even in relationships, people can change overtime so what’s the point? Your girlfriend can cheat, lie, abuse, manipulate and basically make your life into a living hell. Marriage? Women most likely to initiate divorce and no, I’m not planning to lose most of my earned cash and possessions just because I wanted some p**sy. Plus, my life goals lie somewhere else besides money and women. Loneliness? well, drink your poison. Would you rather spend your time alone doing the stuff that makes you happy or with a woman that you have to sacrifice your time, money, hobbies, and happiness just for a moment of sex? Choose wisely fellas. Plus, I have my friends and family who I know I can count on. We all have to make choices in life and so do I. Do I hope to be in a relationship one day? Of course but I’m not going to continue to beat myself up over it. Life seems too short to worry about such nonsense. So yeah, I truly believe a man doesn’t need a woman to be happy and vice versa.