33/F: Why am I invisible to older men? Is it my education? I bet it's because of my education.

I-am-the-lul · 2020-08-12T21:45:04+00:00

People say I looked 18 in my late 20s, but that ended in my 30s...

She must have hit the wall extra hard.

Cristoff13 · 2020-08-12T22:25:12+00:00

"I never get matched with guys older than 37". Yes she does. She means she doesn't get matched guys older than 37 who she is attracted to and who met her demands.

mustangfrank · 2020-08-12T21:50:14+00:00

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KlayThompsons_Weed · 2020-08-12T22:33:55+00:00

Women who say they prefer older men are full of shit. They know that older men typically have their shit together (financially), so they’ll have plenty of security if they bag one.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2020-08-12T21:26:22+00:00

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NickTesla2018 · 2020-08-12T22:18:16+00:00

Someone looking to mooch off them? For women, that's called... DATING!

I seriously doubt any single successful man in his late 40s wants kids. Plan an early retirement instead.

shrinkshooter · 2020-08-12T22:36:07+00:00

Most guys in their 40s won't be using dating apps (especially if you're using Tinder, it's not a "dating app" you cock gargling retards). The few who are will be doing so because they can likely get results they want, which are going to be chicks in their 20s. The dudes in their 40s who aren't married and/or have kids and care about using dating apps on their phones are unlikely to be looking for someone to build a life with.

The younger guys are going to match with her because they suspect she's an easy lay. Post wall woman looking to settle down, but still hungry for any attention she can get because she's realized she's losing that by the day. Few of the younger guys are going to be looking for real long term stuff either.

DangZagnut · 2020-08-12T22:11:32+00:00

Anyone want to tell her? I'm shocked women continue to not figure it out.

mr_kuk · 2020-08-12T21:49:51+00:00

Come on guys, man up. You won't have to pay her tuition, only half of it and later half your everything. Don't be scared of a strong independent woman that doesn't need a man, only half his money.

2020-08-12T22:13:28+00:00

I like how she knows that she has hit the wall after 30.

TXJohn83 · 2020-08-12T21:50:36+00:00

Wow, so she has smacked into the wall(30-year-old), and is wondering why guys are only messaging her for an ONS? I mean sure guys in there late 30's-40's are just lining up to have their first child with a woman who does not have a job and is about to crash into the second wall(baby bearing) at 35.

For christ's sake, no one is going to want to breed a 35-year-old without a job, or career, she seems to have wasted her youth chasing low-end jobs and the cock train, and now is looking for commitment after her assets have expired.

Jake-Orion · 2020-08-12T22:39:05+00:00

Those 40s men she's looking for are banging 20 somethings. Those men don't have time for you, especially after you claim the wall hit you earlier than anticipated. The 20s have (mostly) less n-counts, simply hotter and less maintenance. Enjoy your grad degree with your cats, cause nobody else gives a shit.

throwawayindisbelief · 2020-08-12T22:54:17+00:00

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MikepGrey · 2020-08-12T23:10:50+00:00

Self correcting problem, shes not having kids so wont pass on her bad genes and ideas : )

Swipe left and move on.

the40yearoldincel · 2020-08-13T00:44:57+00:00

Because more men are walking away, swearing off dating and even short-term relationships. It's too dangerous, and it's simply too much work to even bother anymore.

Mundane_Worldliness7 · 2020-08-12T23:44:11+00:00

Am I being to cynical when I assume that by older she means financially more established? If shes gonna be an adjunct or something like that after graduation , it’d be dope to have a husband at home bringing in six figures. I recall one particular adjunct professor of womens studies at my university who was very open about how her husbands job was the only reason she wasn’t in poverty.

3HardWay · 2020-08-13T02:43:36+00:00

Yeah, I was in graduate school too.... when I was 25.

And when you were in your late 20s, people didn't "think" you were 18, they told you that because it worked to get into your pants.

Overkillengine · 2020-08-13T07:00:27+00:00

Men in their 40's who are successful and attractive enough to get her attention (and still want a relationship and/or children) have learned some things in their time.

1) It takes several years (at least 4-5) to reliably vet a woman for issues that are contrary to a man's interests and welfare. Eventually the mask slips, so they have to give it the time to do so instead of foolishly signing their assets away immediately.

2) If he wants kids, the female fertility window already put a upper limit on the age of women he will consider for relationships.

Those two things combined, absent other considerations, already means that they will not see any woman over 30 as a good prospect. And they are successful enough to get the interest of women under 30, so that's who they are investing their attention into.

loneliness-inc · 2020-08-12T23:10:00+00:00

Edgemacashin.

OMGAWD! Guys who fit into my perfect little box aren't biting my perfect little bait.

Dolosmendacium · 2020-08-13T00:07:11+00:00

To be honest I can’t imagine I will want to date once I’m in my 40s. My children will be almost adults, my finances will hopefully be better than they are now, I’ll hopefully have a much bigger and nicer house. I’ll be looking forward to living more life. Maybe if I found a woman with similar interest, assets and success I’ll date but I’m not gonna wanna date someone whose going back to school at such a late age

5gil135 · 2020-08-13T01:32:39+00:00

A very large number of us men in our 40s are struggling after being divorce raped. No interest at all in doing that crap again.

Massacher · 2020-08-13T03:29:11+00:00

I'm a guy in his 40s. I don't know what other men look for in a REAL woman. But for me

Is she pretty (not a thot)
Can I stand her for more than 30 seconds?
Does she have any skills that would make my life easier and complement the missing parts of me?

She has to meet all three. If not, next!

2020-08-13T06:48:47+00:00

the other question is: do men in their late 40s actually mean it when they ~~say~~ day they want kids "someday?"

Yeah, probably. They're men, they can put off having children well into their 40s. You can't, though. Lol.

jfsargentIII · 2020-08-13T01:42:51+00:00

For all that rambling nonsense she wants people to read, I don’t believe most of what she’s attempting to communicate.

Massacher · 2020-08-13T04:10:27+00:00

She thinks she's sugar baby material? 😂😂😂😂 She is well past that age.

xkulp8 · 2020-08-13T04:14:37+00:00

It's been said before, but it's because the men you want have far better options. Including not needing to go online in the first place.

panzer22222 · 2020-08-13T03:38:55+00:00

do men in their late 40s actually mean they want kids someday

NO

Its a BS line used to get easy fucks from 30s women

1st10Amendments · 2020-08-13T04:15:51+00:00

I am nearing 60, and would be ecstatics become a father (if it happened, it would be for the first time). I can’t do it sooner because sooner is already over.

Since I want children (and always have), peri-menopausal women and menopausal women are off the list of qualities I would want in a spouse.

reallymental · 2020-08-13T12:57:07+00:00

What she means by 'older' is a dude who is more financially stable since most men in their 30s are still paying off their mortgages so she can divorce rape him, empty his wallet and take possession of his house, or possibly even cuck him by getting bred by a younger chad.

SafeBendyStraw · 2020-08-14T05:55:32+00:00

Graduate women are the worst. I've dealt with a few in my single travels and they're full of themselves in the worst way. Good for conversation (banter), bad for literally everything else.

lorum_ipsum_dolor · 2020-08-14T16:26:06+00:00

"It's never because of your education" -- Men

sleepyweaselisawake · 2020-08-13T01:10:11+00:00

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Title	33/F: Why am I invisible to older men? Is it my education? I bet it's because of my education.
Author	sleepyweaselisawake
Upvotes	197
Comments	77
Date	August 12, 2020 9:20 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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