Used up Skank tries to lock down Nice Guy while hiding her nasty past. Gets found out, shamed, ghosted. Posts on Reddit about how unfair it is.

emperorisnaked7 · 2017-09-08T15:11:19+00:00

Wait, so she conforms to the party scene but it's not her, then she conforms to being what Mark wanted, but of course that's who she is! This idiot doesn't know what she wants or who she is. That's her major problem, and she needs to stop expecting a long term relationship or a short term one if she has no idea who she is.

2QuietDude · 2017-09-08T15:17:05+00:00

slow clap for Mark everybody

BloodyNightWing · 2017-09-08T14:19:25+00:00

Lol at the comments defending the older parent-wall- hitters because NOW they have different priorities since they have children to take care of.

Nope. Not falling for that one. If they had no kids they'd still be hoeing around, no doubt. It's obvious that NOW they need a beta buck to take care of them before they hit the wall and can't find a man.

This is why China calls them 'Left-over women' if they surpass the age of 30.

Tyler789228 · 2017-09-08T15:17:47+00:00

He is a really wholesome guy, and I morphed myself to be more of what he would want in a woman.

Female=chameleon

aanarchist · 2017-09-08T14:08:35+00:00

it's a great example of that you can be a man of value without being a pushover. she's pining after him because she knows she won't find better, she understands her worth and truly understands that he can and should do better than her. she went as far as to say that she can't bring herself to hate him for it. he's a good example of how you can be a quality dude without being a 'red pill' sociopathic degenerate. she's a good example of a woman that can share her story with other women as a cautionary tale.

fearganfadhb · 2017-09-08T17:00:44+00:00

Mark ended up finding out about my past. We had a talk he told me to be honest about everything, he told me that he believes women can do whatever they want, but they can't expect guys like him to be there for them when they are done sleeping around. He told me that I didn't even left the party scene, I was kicked out because I got replaced by prettier and younger girls. His words made me cry not just then, but long after too.

Mark you beautiful man.

secret626 · 2017-09-08T14:24:41+00:00

"Used up Skank". Hahaha. I love MGTOW men, they know how to label these whores.

burningrangers · 2017-09-08T14:48:04+00:00

He saved himself a lot of heartache in the future. She realized he was smart and successful (wholesome or otherwise) and wanted to lock him in.

Bet the farm within 10 years of them getting married she'd have wanted to go back her CC ways because he and married life were not longer "exciting" for her and she would have divorced him and tried to take half his shit.

slothsenpai · 2017-09-08T16:09:25+00:00

I'm not even mad that mad at OP, I'd probably do the same tbf if I was that desperate to lock someone down. I'm just mad at the comment section that's chewing the guy down as some vile sexist piece of shit just for having standards and wanting someone who's views on sex is compatible with his.

I hate this whole shit how not loving someone unconditionally makes you a "fake nice guy". The only one's who display the sense of entitlement or who do the lashing out when they don't get accepted are those women, not the "nice guys" they chew out.

PinHunter65 · 2017-09-08T15:12:27+00:00

I was worried that Mark would look down on me and think of me as a (word that means promiscuous woman).

The word you're looking for is slut, or whore, or used up goods. Although I think the use of promiscuous works perfectly well here. God women are dumb.

lostapwbm · 2017-09-08T17:19:01+00:00

/u/brok422 Slut Psychology 101:

when me and Mark got together I wasn't exactly forthcoming about my past.

You ask for the CarFax when you buy a car. There needs to be a PussyFax for females just to find out what the real mileage is and how many times its changed hands.

I slept around with a lot of the hot guys. It wasn't really who I was about, it just seemed like the whole scene and everyone involved was like that. It wasn't who I was, I just tried to conform to everyone else.

Classic slut defense. The slut will refuse to take ownership of her sexual preferences and attempt to disown any agency she had in the choices she made. She fucked a lot of hot guys. I'm guessing beta-bucks Mark is NOT a hot guy, at least compared to guys who banged her out at the club. It wasn't what she was about, she just wanted to conform. Well, unless someone threw a bag over your head, stuffed you in the trunk of the car, drove you to the club, carried you into the club, and dropped you on some Chad's erect dick, you had the free option to not participate.

You are not too pure for this sinful Earth and your friends did not overwhelm your natural female goodness. You had a choice, you made a choice. Own it as a bad choice.

When I met Mark, I didn't tell him about the stuff I did, I told him I was busy with long hours. I was worried that Mark would look down on me and think of me as a (word that means promiscuous woman). He is a really wholesome guy, and I morphed myself to be more of what he would want in a woman.

My dear, that's the label of the mini-course today: Slut Psychology. It's okay. You can say it. SLUT. And there's nothing wrong with being a slut, as long as you do it in an honest way. But she didn't deal with Mark honestly. Instead, she lied to him by omission. More importantly, she deprived him of the ability to make an informed decision about whether he wanted to be with a female who was in the club catching two dicks at a time in the bathroom (I exaggerate for effect. I do not know whether or not she got DP'd in the club).

At the outset, she placed her desires above his and decided she would get this "wholesome guy" by presenting herself as what she imagined he wanted, but never allowed him to freely reject her.

Mark ended up finding out about my past. We had a talk he told me to be honest about everything, he told me that he believes women can do whatever they want, but they can't expect guys like him to be there for them when they are done sleeping around. He told me that I didn't even left the party scene, I was kicked out because I got replaced by prettier and younger girls. His words made me cry not just then, but long after too.

Mark! My nigga! I rescind the earlier Beta Bucks comment! Mark has taken the red pill and knows what the fuck is going on!

Today I went out to contact him and he had me blocked on all social media. When I called him his phone went straight to voice mail. I knew my actions made him upset but I didn't think I would be kicked out this fast.

Translation: She thought she would be able to manipulate or negotiate her way back into his good graces. She did not suspect that her credibility was completely gone and that he had enough self-respect to cut her off.

I feel so hurt, of all the guys I have been with Mark treated me the best, he was the guy I saw a future with.

Slut psychology: It's all about her feelings and what he did for her and what she wanted, never mind that she made a fool of him and cared very little about what he wanted (a wholesome woman) or how he would look in public unwittingly walking around with a "reformed" slut on his arm.

I really want him back, I don't know what to do. Is this just a lost cause?

More slut psychology: I want. Me. Me. Me. Now. Now. Now. If you actually gave a damn about this man, you would leave him alone and let him actually find what wants in a woman instead of trying to fool yourself and him into believing that you are what he wants.

And Mark had a handle on this. He knew that he was on the clock until some "hot guy" came across her path and reverted to type, or she found another scene to "conform" to and it would be back to business-as-usual.

VoxVirilis · 2017-09-08T17:54:15+00:00

My favorite comment:

What i found out from this thread, if you're a guy and bitter, you lose every argument. The lying emotionally manipulative woman wins because she cried

Teflon0819 · 2017-09-08T17:03:19+00:00

And I slept around with a lot of the hot guys. It wasn't really who I was about, it just seemed like the whole scene and everyone involved was like that. It wasn't who I was, I just tried to conform to everyone else.

Ah yes, the standard "I was a slut, but that's not who I am, I was just trying to fit in!" defense.

He is a really wholesome guy, and I morphed myself to be more of what he would want in a woman.

Chameleon behavior right from the horse's mouth.

he told me that he believes women can do whatever they want, but they can't expect guys like him to be there for them when they are done sleeping around

Mark is a wise man. Women can decide to do whatever the hell they want to do with their lives but they better be prepared to live with the consequences.

Look at all of those comments that basically boil down to "Somebody might not be interested in dating me due to my past life choices?! HOW DARE THEY!!" It's like they are desperate to prove to themselves that sleeping around doesn't shut some doors for them. Well it does, and their indignation about it won't change it.

Zombocom1911 · 2017-09-08T16:38:09+00:00

why do they assume they get to tell us when to settle down, and we will be waiting holding our breath to listen to their demands? bitch you played the lottery and lost, i'm not the clean up crew

Strella10m · 2017-09-08T16:49:41+00:00

i actually kind of like mark, he stands by his character and doesnt take no shit, kudos to him.

she on the other hand is complaining because she lied to her partner about her lifestyle and has been found out.

boo fucking hoo.

no sympathy for her, props to mark

probablybluepill · 2017-09-08T16:07:24+00:00

Doesn't matter what they do, just go your own way

mdcrubengonza · 2017-09-08T13:51:10+00:00

Reads fake.

raisins3142 · 2017-09-08T18:29:21+00:00

A moment of silence for all Marks out there who never find out the real N-count of their girls.

Press F to pay respects.

Cunt_Robber · 2017-09-08T17:23:15+00:00

In a man's eyes, the value of a woman is in her chastity.

If she has a ONS with some dude (or several) but asks you to wait till the 3rd date, youre getting a shit deal. You know her value from the number of dudes she slept with and how quickly they went from introductions to sex. Women's liberation has lowered the value of women and consequently the value of men (lets face it, it also allowed men to be pussies). Men can bounce back easily though but women, once over 30, only depreciate in value.

tamass18 · 2017-09-08T18:27:22+00:00

"Guys I'm not a slut. I didn't want to sleep with hot guys. Peer pressure made me do it. I was raped!"

StrongAffordance · 2017-09-08T18:33:58+00:00

Why the hell is it so difficult for these women to understand that just like they don't OWE anyone anything, men also don't OWE them the acceptance of their pasts? Why is it so hard to understand that we are all allowed to have our preferences and if we don't want used up women, that's our prerogative, we don't have to accept it just because it's "past". Unbelievable.

muscacavalcade · 2017-09-08T17:30:38+00:00

Should all men that want a family and aren't desperate do what mark did, these bitches will think twice before sluting around.

justkoln · 2017-09-08T17:35:40+00:00

Fake as fuck. A mgtow or redpiller wrote it.

No hamstering. No twisting the story. Red pill truths from top to bottom.

rebuildingMyself · 2017-09-08T17:14:36+00:00

If he wants a traditional woman, why is he dating women that are soon hitting the wall??? Only has himself to blame I think.

karmawrite · 2017-09-08T17:49:34+00:00

Your sexual "liberation" has consequences. A promiscuous woman cannot reasonably expect commitment from anyone worth committing to.

Even if you're finished with treating sex like a meaningless, recreational activity, the damage is already done.

Secret_Combo · 2017-09-08T16:36:17+00:00

Man, after reading this, it's hard not to want to be full on MGTOW now.

92317 · 2017-09-08T16:55:21+00:00

He told me that I didn't even left the party scene, I was kicked out because I got replaced by prettier and younger girls.

Exactly.

rtmlex · 2017-09-08T17:30:22+00:00

This guy is redpilled as fuck. Props to him for standing up to this bullshit.

iamlikethewindbaby · 2017-09-08T17:34:44+00:00

" I morphed myself to be more of what he would want in a woman."

Cristoff13 · 2017-09-08T18:40:58+00:00

I don't think he "ghosted" her. Ghosting is when, rather than announcing they want to break up, one person just disappears. He told her he wanted to break up, told her why, then blocked her and stopped talking to her. I think this is more accurately called the "Nuclear Breakup Option". Which was probably necessary. Anyhow, she should be glad he did, right? I mean according to many comments there he's just an immature misogynistic shitlord.

ThunderNecklace · 2017-09-08T17:03:02+00:00

I'm confused why none of the responses are talking about the most important line in the entire post "He told me I didn't even left the party scene"

So what's going on here? She's putting herself out there for support, portraying some kind of lost sheep who's luckily managed to find someone to be with her and then she just doesn't care about understanding his opinion at all?

Either I'm perplexed at how stupid and immature this woman is or I'm not seeing something here. Also why would her boyfriend be upset at her being ashamed of her past behaviour? If she just didn't mention it I don't understand how that would invoke anger, but if she explicitly lied about it then why didn't she write about to clarify in her post?

mswilso · 2017-09-08T18:17:39+00:00

I was worried that Mark would look down on me and think of me as a (word that means promiscuous woman).

Yes, a Whore. That's a woman who sleeps with anything that has a penis. Sad that, even though that is her behavior, she doesn't have the balls to even say the word.

Because ladies don't talk that way.

raisins3142 · 2017-09-08T18:10:56+00:00

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kyledontcare · 2017-09-08T20:39:44+00:00

"You were replaced by younger and prettier girls." The best part. :)

Starter91 · 2017-09-08T18:08:58+00:00

Holy molly they really can validate everything, "healthy sexual past" what the fucking fuck? One guy every 2 days, what the fuck is it ? Come on get real .

Jcart105 · 2017-09-09T00:18:33+00:00

My default opinion of any woman I meet is 'worthless, used-up whore' until proven otherwise, and it's posts like these which make me understand that I am being rational rather than paranoid.

MRALawyer · 2017-09-08T16:37:28+00:00

As the great poet Ludacris said, “Yous a hoe!”

5pecial · 2017-09-08T20:19:52+00:00

It warms my heart seeing posts like this. If more girls knew that self-respecting guys don't want anything to do with a used up slut, maybe their priorities in life would change. I'm getting to the point that I don't see myself ever getting married because I can't find a single girl with a respectable past.

Idiodyssey87 · 2017-09-08T16:32:43+00:00

After I stopped with that whole scene I wanted to put things behind me. I didn't want those couple years to define who I was.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zm91odWVDG4

krik81 · 2017-09-08T18:56:40+00:00

Any woman who has been with multiple men makes me want to vomit, every time a woman tells me I literally turn green and get sick, then the std paranoia kicks in, I don't have any clue why they would think giving up their virtue for sexual liberation is a good idea, who the fuck in there right mind wants the town bike GROSS!

Shnook82 · 2017-09-08T21:04:11+00:00

Also, that (godawful) sub needs a thread where a girl asks for advice after finding out her high-flying catch of a boyfriend who told her he works as a lawyer and earns $150k a year is actually a plumber earning $60k. I think the tune would change somewhat...

Reptilesblade · 2017-09-08T22:12:26+00:00

I can completely understand where Mark is coming from. I also am named Mark (not OP's) and have always exclusively looked for long term compatibility in my sexual partners. I am 35 and can count on one hand how many sexual partners I have had. My first was to the woman I eventually married and the only reason I have had others since is because she cheated on me with her old high school boyfriend and threw away our relationship to get back together with him. OP's Mark absolutely nailed it when he told her "women can do whatever they want, but they can't expect guys like him to be there for them when they are done sleeping around."

And this is why I am not a believer in the lies of feminist. They think they can have whatever kind of fun they want with whoever they want and when they get tired of Pleasure Island the perfect husband will just be waiting to take care of them whenever they wish. I am sorry but no, reality isn't like that. There are consequences for your actions. And they are your actions. You are to blame for your behavior, not the crowd of people who you were with.

Men age like wine and women age like milk. You young ladies need to understand that. Every year you spend partying your value as someone's future wife goes down dramatically. The choice is yours, I just want you to make an informed one.

And before you think I am some forever alone pussy that can't get women think again. I have a live in girlfriend I have been with for 9 months now. So let's just head that argument off to begin with.

This bitch lied to him, pretended to be something that she was not, and wasted 8 months of his life. She didn't even tell him, he discovered her deception and acted accordingly. The second he learned of her lying to him she immediately went from possible marriage material to a maybe being worth fucking for a week until he finds someone better.

boogalordy · 2017-09-08T22:25:13+00:00

Play slutty games, win shameful prizes.

raisins3142 · 2017-09-09T01:02:00+00:00

I dated two girls that I would wager were sluts. I could get over it for the most part IF they would've acted correctly in the present and not done things regarding other men that made me insecure and just generally been good girlfriends. But they weren't. So, when I was fed up with this shit, I was basically like "you know what? fuck this dumb disordered slut. I can't believe I ever dated this dumb slut". And then my disgust was greatly magnified. Now, in my heads, they are just crazy sluts on the loose somewhere that I can't stand.

So, the way sluts continue to fuck up is to continue to behave slutty and not be good girlfriends to the present guy.

Reprogramming_Life · 2017-09-09T01:44:22+00:00

"I was a whore but not anymore, baby, now that I've found you!" *pukes I can't believe I actually kissed that bitch.

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MParry6 · 2017-09-08T17:54:57+00:00

I'm wondering if Mark is a subscribed here?

kyledontcare · 2017-09-08T20:36:21+00:00

Mark is smart. Move along Mark, nothing to see here except what another 93 men have seen. Pictures of her in her birthday suit are probably on men's cell phones all over southern California.

antinatalist-mgtow · 2017-09-08T21:06:44+00:00

If a woman is in her late twenties and is too good to be true, she is! Why anyone would want to marry a woman in her late twenties (or any age) is beyond me because she is so close to hitting 30 when the wall will hit. It's like buying a car and discovering it's a lemon.

SallyxForthx · 2017-09-08T21:26:25+00:00

I'm fucking proud as shit of this dude.

Glocks10mike · 2017-09-09T02:35:47+00:00

I read several of the top comments and they all seemed pretty reasonable. They all basically call her out for lying.

Belrick_NZ · 2017-09-08T20:21:33+00:00

The ability to steal but never consider oneself a thief is intrinsic to females.

Recent headlines. Wymyn stabs husband to death accidentally. Because if she had of done it on purpose that would make her a murderer and she just doesn't see herself that way

JediFapArtist · 2017-09-08T22:33:33+00:00

First of all, when she said “we have our arguments from time to time but we have always been really good at getting over things”, I couldn’t help but think all the arguments are caused by her and resolved by him. My guess is he either caught her in other lies or she was being a dumb bitch. Needless to say, when she says they’re good at “getting over things”, it’s kind of a Freudian slip in a way because she’s kind of admitting that he is good at getting over things. In other words, he probably puts her bullshit to the side after some time because he’s giving her some chances to stop fucking up with him. So it has nothing to do with their ability to resolve issues as a couple (and more importantly, nothing to do with her skills at resolving issues), but his ability to put bullshit behind him.

Secondly, I found it hilarious how the post was originally removed for using the word slut. Yes, r/relationships has literally sunk so low that they’ve banned the word “slut” because it offends the majority of their users. I suppose I can safely assume the majority of the females on that sub are sluts. Makes me think back to that statistic posted a while ago showing that women are more misogynist than men and use shaming words like slut way more than them.

Lastly, good on the guy for peacing out on her. Shows he has a healthy self-esteem and isn’t a complete loser. I have walked away from relationships but I have always been a “fuck me over or lie to me once and you’re gone” kind of guy, and I think women would shape up if more men started allowing women to have consequences for their actions.

realChebz · 2017-09-08T23:49:43+00:00

always gotta love the comments "he's a mysogynist!! Reeee!" "You deserve better girl! You go girl!!". At this point I don't even care to engage with the rest of Reddit.

Darukoaus · 2017-09-09T00:14:45+00:00

The best part is, people are sympathizing with this disgusting sack of shit.

UDT22 · 2017-09-09T02:10:46+00:00

Skank city, all American ho

Enigma221 · 2017-09-09T02:56:46+00:00

Women, just like men, should be able to bed whoever they want when they are singe (or in a relationship that affords this liberty). That being said...Your BF appears to be looking for someone who sees sex as an intimate act between two people who love each other. There is NOTHING wrong with that want. It appears you presented yourself, at least at first, as someone who also has the same belief. That was wrong.

Again, you did NOTHING wrong with regards to your sexually adventurous past. What you did do wrong is not telling him beforehand. I'm sure there are a number of commenters that say that he should just accept your past and deal with it. That's not realistic and sexual anarchy is right up their alley. It's a matter of values. What he values is not what, at least in the past, what you valued. Let him go so both of you can find someone that is a better fit.

So she's basically just telling the stupid slut to hide her past better and not tell her SO's. Fuck women.

apugsthrowaway · 2017-09-09T04:31:11+00:00

It wasn't who I was, I just tried to conform to everyone else.

Hmm

[27f]

Hmmmmmmmm

Revorob · 2017-09-09T06:42:07+00:00

he told me that he believes women can do whatever they want, but they can't expect guys like him to be there for them when they are done sleeping around.

Absolutely. I'd like to see a cohesive argument against that.

He told me that I didn't even left the party scene, I was kicked out because I got replaced by prettier and younger girls.

I am dead sure that is what happens in about 99.99% of cases. No woman elects to get off the cock carousel. They always get thrown off.

Temperfuelmma · 2017-09-09T07:39:36+00:00

I know girls like this. Don't live good lives..

Vaginismusfister · 2017-09-09T10:59:21+00:00

At least she is smart enough to feel remorse. The other ones never really "get it"

muscacavalcade · 2017-09-08T19:15:12+00:00

This bitch got what I like to call, the "Shang Tsung" disorder.

kyledontcare · 2017-09-08T20:37:25+00:00

Wholesome has never meant stupid.

Shnook82 · 2017-09-08T20:53:30+00:00

Why do people keep talking about "ghosting" in that thread? Ghosting would be sleeping or dating someone for a while and cutting all contact at some point with no explanation. Hence disappearing into thin air, aka ghosting.

OP just went through the breakup and the reasons why she was being broken up with, then Mark cut off all contact. That's not ghosting, that is moving on with a clean break. He's already lost 8 months and he's decided he's not going to lose another minute.

rayzulathemikerula · 2017-09-08T22:47:20+00:00

She nicknames him mark. Lmao

Aussiewolf82 · 2017-09-09T00:42:47+00:00

The actual chick despite being a liar and not trustworthy at least wishes him a happy life. Doesn't rip him apart etc. The fucking cucks in the comments attacking him are the biggest pieces of shit. White knights are the enablers making things worse. As an ex white knight I know personally what a shitfest it is.

Reprogramming_Life · 2017-09-09T01:58:15+00:00

This guy is really trying to singlehandedly change the negative connotation of being a Mark into a good one. "Be a Mark, don't settle for her used up vagina."

UDT22 · 2017-09-09T07:16:38+00:00

Mark choked on the blue pill

learn2fly77 · 2017-09-09T14:35:18+00:00

From the comments.

Your BF appears to be looking for someone who sees sex as an intimate act between two people who love each other.

Or maybe he's just bitter cuz he never got to sleep around.

Typical shaming tactics at work.

Megghins · 2017-09-08T20:50:59+00:00

Damn, must be hard staying in THE SCENE. lol

NaughtyFred · 2017-09-09T15:38:22+00:00

Normally I don't comment in those thread but I did in this one.

cabay85 · 2017-09-10T04:27:30+00:00

It is barbaric old world garbage when it comes to today's world. Yeah that shit worked back then, but this is a new time period we're living in. Those were tough times to live in that required people to do what they had to do as you said, but that was THEN, this is now. I don't have to follow that barbaric shit because I don't live in those times, and applying that shit to my life in 2017 is unrealistic garbage.

Trust me, I'm not defending the bullshit of today. I hate the way a lot of shit is today. I don't like feminism and all that bullshit either. All I'm saying is this, we don't need to follow some old world way of life to deal with bitches today.

The correct thing to do is exactly what Mark did. He found out his woman was a whore and he said fuck her and left. If we don't like what women do, then say fuck them.

Nothing personal either, we just have different ways of looking at it. I just think what Mark did was good enough.

LenTheListener · 2017-09-08T18:37:20+00:00

I don't really think having been promiscuous (or a SLUT, or a WHORE, for all of you little Orwells here that think we stopped calling spades spades) makes her have any less value now. Seems too bad he does as well.

_speak · 2017-09-08T19:19:30+00:00

Who really gives a fuck about sexual history.. it's fun to fuck around and when you realize it only leads to loneliness and frustration you learn to settle down.. shit happens and people change.

Used up Skank tries to lock down Nice Guy while hiding her nasty past. Gets found out, shamed, ghosted. Posts on Reddit about how unfair it is.

Comments

About the ONLY possibility I see for any "reform/repentance" -- in a subsequent generation -- is due to REBELLION.

IOW "ying" creates "yang"... and vice versa.