/r/LegalAdvice: If your cheating ex-wife threatens to kill you, she's the victim

DesignRed · 2018-03-13T19:05:27+00:00

I want to point out that what you did is classic parental alienation.

I don't care if she banged every pizza boy for 10 zip codes. You need to separate her actions against you, with her rights and duties as a parent to her children. Using your issues with her (however valid) to drive a wedge between her and her kids is not only wrong, but she could absolutely take you to court over it and possibly win.

You have violated her parental rights. You need to make some amends.

One of the top comments in the thread, echoed by many others. This is how our legal system makes sure all women are protected from consequences of their actions, at the expense of men.

UniversalLight2 · 2018-03-13T19:51:10+00:00

One of the commenters on there said that the wife’s infidelity wasn’t any business of the teens and another one said that men are family annihilators 95%of the time. That sub is absolutely toxic. And people wonder why we say the courts are biased against men.....

pleasantlyplumpy · 2018-03-13T20:23:40+00:00

Imagine getting cheated on, then being open and honest about the situation only to be attacked by SJW reddit:

You have violated her parental rights. You need to make some amends.

Fucking seriously.. lol

ExDragontamerThazok · 2018-03-13T19:33:09+00:00

Oh man imagine if it was a guy cheating and the wife

"Revealed her pain through her sweet tears"

All the jackasses on that thread would make a 180

"You were right those kids deserve to know their REAL father" blah blah

Dwarf90 · 2018-03-13T19:33:49+00:00

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2018-03-13T22:20:09+00:00

Infidelity doesn't equal being a bad parent.

um yes it does. it's destructive to the family.

Deltawon · 2018-03-13T20:46:13+00:00

I get it that you might want to tone down your wife's cock gobbling in front of your kids--makes sense. But would a woman ever not take every possible opportunity to complain to her kids about how bad their father was if he cheated ? No fucking way. So fuck it! Kids are game!

Mgtow_Maester · 2018-03-13T21:34:16+00:00

Cheating makes her a bad spouse. Not a bad parent

67 upvotes -- what the fuck.

DangZagnut · 2018-03-13T19:20:43+00:00

Reverse the genders and lets see what happens.

Also, there was one bit of legal advice, the rest was /r/divorce

ListenUpMuthaFucka · 2018-03-13T23:22:37+00:00

When you're married and cheat on your partner you are a bad parent.

The best thing for a child is to grow up in a stable family unit with two parents. When you commit infidelity you are selfishly putting your own loiny desires above what is best for your children.

When you act like a slutty teenager and put your own impulse wants above what is best for your children you are being a shitty parent.

You have a responsibility as a husband and wife to hold your shit together and keep a stable home life for them. Was she thinking of her kids when she was bent over a table at the office?

If your parter doesn't tick your boxes and you want to fuck other people, don't marry them and have kids with them. You don't get to have it both ways. But as fucking usual society shows its hand at raising yet another generation of fucking degenerate, hedonistic children who take no responsibility for their actions and face no consequences.

She didn't just betray her husband.

She betrayed them all.

Her getting a fresh cut of salami meant more to her than her husband and her children combined.

Fuck her. She made her bed. He should have to point blank lie to his own children's faces to keep her whore nature under wraps.

Ramasama · 2018-03-13T21:24:19+00:00

95% of what is on that sub has absolutely no relation to how the law actually works.

Fabianstrategy1 · 2018-03-13T21:10:33+00:00

I would absolutely tell my kids if their mother (who has threatened to harm me, and a few women I've slept with) had threatened to kill me, if I felt the threat was genuine. He did nothing wrong. I'd also wear a bullet proof vest during drop offs.

2018-03-13T22:28:57+00:00

So, in summary: the woman cheats and then makes a death threat. The man simply tells the truth about all this. He's being shitty though guys, don't forget!!!

Reading through those comments.....no wonder my dog and I get along so well <hugs dog and gives him a small bite of steak>.

Besides reversing the genders, here's another way to fuck up those female worshiping comments:

What is your stopping criterion for when your argument is wrong and it is okay for a man to tell his kids what their mom did? Come up with an extreme enough example of the mom's wrongdoing and they'll relent and say "ok, they should know that, even if it doesn't directly have to do with their parent child relationship". They just don't think a woman sucking some cock and then threatening to hurt a big tough man is so bad, in their subjective opinion.

rzr_cl · 2018-03-13T23:56:20+00:00

So, let me get this straight, her ex wife cheated on him, divorced him, threatened to kill him, yet somehow it’s his fault???

So, HOW IN THE ACTUAL FUCK is she even able to share custody in the first place? I mean if she went as far as threatening to kill the father of her own children, nothing stops her from potentially harming her kids as well, she’s obviously not capable of rising children anymore.

Perhaps a nuclear fallout ain’t such a bad idea after all.

AntiAbleism · 2018-03-13T21:24:14+00:00

Fuck that shit, ruin her life.

JJHearts · 2018-03-13T23:21:15+00:00

My parents divorced because of my mom's infidelity when I was around 10 years old. If my mother started making threats against my father's life I would really want to know. 16 is old enough to be made aware of the situation. I can understand if the kids were 5 and 6, but at 16 you can understand. The kids should be made aware for their own safety. If she is willing to murder the father, she would be willing to murder the kids as well.

Jonmad17 · 2018-03-14T00:10:00+00:00

I'm angry. I'm fucking fuming reading that. They would rather have his kids perceive him as a deadbeat dad who abandoned them than know the truth. Society takes every opportunity it gets to alienate men, and then wonders why men lash out and commit violence.

2018-03-13T23:05:21+00:00

Life is so much easier without this bullshit. Never marry.

purussa · 2018-03-14T01:42:28+00:00

It's funny how people in that thread are acting like the "children" are young. They are fucking teenagers. Ofc they deserve to know if their mother is a cheathing whore.

2018-03-14T04:04:09+00:00

Muslims would bury his cheating ex-wife in dirt until only her head was visible and then throw huge rocks until her brain was leaking out of her nose. Yet, progressives love Muslims.

The world is fucked, burn it all down.

2018-03-14T02:42:23+00:00

Soooooooo STUPID. Following their logic, he shouldn't tell them that she's stolen cars either because technically that doesn't affect her ability to be motherly. Where does it stop?? "I can't tell you kids about your mother's murders because that would drive a wedge between them and you, and that would be emotionally bad parenting move, right? Let's just not talk about it..." These people... Are they even real? "Your mother is a horrible person, but I can't tell you about it" because her feelings are more important than the kids?? The person who decided to purposefully end the marriage and end it in a BAD way?? These are the kinds of people that provide proof for me that the Nazis definitely existed because people can definitely lose the ability to think for themselves and stupidly adopt the worst morality known to man thus far.

Small_But_Mightyy · 2018-03-14T00:24:45+00:00

Yeah, as a kid in this situation I would want to know.

If she's lying about having an affair then what else might she possibly be lying about? As a matter of fact, I'd argue that I deserve know the truth as I have to spend an enormous amount of time with the person.

Then she reacts by threatening to kill him? Oh yes, fuck this cunt. I would try and tell CPS I didn't feel safe going to her house if they try and force dual custody.

2018-03-14T01:06:02+00:00

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Jcart105 · 2018-03-14T02:01:28+00:00

But... But we live in a patriarchy-normative society and all men are abusers or rapists! /s

Asphyxiem · 2018-03-14T09:27:18+00:00

Ok I had some hope for humanity somewhere in my mind but seriously like WTF is wrong with people. They are saying he deserved to get cheated because he revealed the truth about his cheating wife to his kids...like seriously HOW, WHERE AND WHY IS OKAY in any universe.

FreshNothingBurger · 2018-03-14T00:26:49+00:00

If anybody wants to get a picture of just how retarded legaladvice is, go through the post history of KenPopehat (an actual attorney, former federal prosecutor) and then read through this:

https://np.reddit.com/r/bestoflegaladvice/comments/7xf983/why_are_the_legal_advice_mods_antipopehat/.

SYL3NZR · 2018-03-14T09:03:16+00:00

pointing out to the kids what an awful terrible terrorist this bitch is, is bad?

since when are kids not allowed to hate their parents for legit reasons?

OldTimeyENT · 2018-03-14T09:51:50+00:00

The vile snark. They just want to mob up against him.

the_unseen_one · 2018-03-14T14:43:14+00:00

What the fuck, people are attacking OP for honestly telling them why he and their mom divorced? What kind of fucking insanity is that? If ANYBODY deserves to know the truth here, it's the kids caught in the middle. Good fucking lord, that incenses me. They'll stop at nothing to attack men and defend women no matter the context.

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Title	/r/LegalAdvice: If your cheating ex-wife threatens to kill you, she's the victim
Author	DesignRed
Upvotes	239
Comments	87
Date	March 13, 2018 7:04 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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