My impulse is no; however, I'm a 29 yr old blue piller living in a tight-nit rural city of about 75,000 people. My time, career and life experiences have been well spent, so I don't have any regrets for those. My sex life is good, abundant and frequent; but all of these encounters lack soul or meaning, in fact, I find that they are actually starting to degrade me.

In anycase, there is a girl who is still a virgin at 21. We've been getting along though I have a question if there is a socially acceptable age to not deflower a virgin? How do I not mess her up? I have never done this before, lost my virginity to an older woman and my military upbringing kept me moving around a lot during my teens.

When I'm around her she makes me feel like I've never wanted anything so badly before, even, dare I say Mary the Virgin.

tl;dr old man and the virgin, y or n?