Me: I'm 5'10" and go to the gym 5 days a week, I make 6 figures and am an expat (US citizen). I'm in tears, and lost.
I met a girl on Tinder in my visiting country. We went out twice, once doing a workout class, once going to a nice dinner (she paid for one, I paid for the next). She invited me to a party. Everyone drank, we laughed, I won at the popular card game we played.
She said, "Do you want to leave?" I said, "Yes." We went to her place and kissed. She said, "I'm not going to sleep with you." I said, "I don't care." I went to bed in her spare bedroom. She came in to "Tuck me in." I said, "Why?" She mumbled some bulllshit and we made out for a bit. She again said, "I won't sleep with you tonight." My last GF was more attractive, this girl is a tad bit overweight, but whatever. I still rolled over, and she went to her room while I stayed in the adjacent guest room. Thirty minutes go by, and there is a knock on the door. At first, I thought it was her ex. I said fuck off, and opened it. It was her friend and friend's husband (not married, but different SO's). They said, "You need to leave." I'm confused as fuck, I'm literally in a different bedroom, and have only kissed this fucking girl.
I knock on her door and say, "Please explain what is going on!" She says, "I don't know, but leave." SHE IS IN A DIFFERENT ROOM AND NOTHING HAPPENED, I SAID OK WHEN SHE SAID NO. The girl I kissed and met on Tinder CALLED ME A CAB. I said, "Stay away, I don't feel comfortable around you. " Leave me alone!," I said. She stayed around, and said, "No, I'll wait for the cab." WTF?
The cab took me home. Again, I'm not ugly by ANY STRETCH. I am by all means, the 1% in this country. I did NOTHING WRONG. IF IT CAN HAPPEN TO ME, IT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.
I've NEVER posted in this subreddit. (DOM REDDIT?). I've had numerous girlfriends (all way hotter). If something so fucking petty can happen to ME (they know my job and my hypothetical salary), then it can happen to YOU. I'm 100% FUCKING SERIOUS.
I'm in tears... nothing like this has ever happened in my life. Am I being accused of rape? No penetration, even with my fingers. Only kissing. WTF did I do? Please help. I'm literally in tears, I'm so scared.
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