My ex dumped me a little while ago. I started the relationship pretty red pilled but over time I reverted back to blue. Good reminder to keep refreshing yourself with the RP mindset.
Made so many classic mistakes its actually laughable.
The only good thing is I am in therapy now and have really discovered a lot about myself and why I do certain things. I feel more in control and deliberate now.
Anyways super painful was monkey branched yadda yadda same story every fucking guy has expect my girl was different (lol kidding).
Anyways, I noted some typical red flags but just ignored them (No father, fucked her first date, many ex bfs). One of which was mirroring. We had such similar senses of humor and "goofyness". At one point I even asked her and made a subtle suggestion she was mirroring.
Thats one thing that made the breakup hard. All the times we spend laughing in bed being ridiculous. I think this is the type of thing that really feels special to guys and stings the most (at least it was true for me).
There is no way im going to find a girl with such similarities.
And then I realized there is damn good chance she was just mirroring me. She's likely just an empty person who fills herself up with whoever shes with at any given time.
If I was a fly on the wall now in her new relationship she would be unrecognizable to me for that very reason.