My personal problem is texting...and its getting extra good when I want to fix stuff over texting. Ive done it countless times and it failed everytime. I actually see that texting like an asshole is working better, but still, I get like a tunnel vision and feel the need to be gentle to her and cringy-funny....

And then I do it most of the times. The last time I did it was tunnel vision at its best, she double texted me when I didn't reply inidicating that her attraction was in check. And what did I do? I sent her the beta text wall anyway WTF

It's REALLY hard not to do it...I feel like I have to and that there is no other option in these moments...I basically go borderline crazy...also fun when I need to apply dread, I think its harder for me than for her lol.

Another problem is that I like to adore her, not with every girl, but when she is a little chubby and looks a bit wild preferably with no makeup I drool...all over her...and of course tell her that often. This is not so hard not to do, but still...

Other beta instincts I can happily ignore...like the need to initiate everything from texting to sex or prolong the conversation or the need to put myself beneath her.

What are your beta insticts you can't act upon and it's hard for you? I Guess this is more of a beginner thread.