I met my abusive ex on tinder when I was 23.
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Sure, if you’re looking for guys from different backgrounds and culture you can find plenty of your choice right on the tip of your hands on OLD. But let’s get into initially why they join tinder. Literally 99% of the guys on tinder join it after they get burned by their ex or broken up. So there’s very high chance that you’re rebound to them. And what do they look for ? Quick sex.

And ofc, it’s the picture game, so you have to be pretty but most of the good looking guys I met even though they’re well educated, I met tons of guys who went to ivy or Oxbridge, they’re mostly LVM.

My ex was very very good looking and well educated. He was doing his masters in University college of London in UK and he was still manchineel. He was eating like couch potato never knew how to do chores. But he abused me so severely even after years I have panic attach when I come across similar situations or things that remind me of the situations I had with him.

Another guy I met tinder is consultant. We didn’t date but we only met twice. He was 38 and he’s busy fucking girls on his business trip and claims he’s in open relationship.

And I had 50 other dates but are they in my contact now ? No

So all in all, I just deleted every thing. You don’t know the person is abusive until few months in or years which could damage your life. Karma ? I hope it exists. And how could you know if the person is LVM or HVM from early on ? Most guys don’t take girls they met online seriously. Even if the girl is well educated or not or pretty, they just don’t. They have Madonna whore complex so they think women they meet online is low tier girls.

Meeting guys online is buying something online. It looks good in the photos but when you receive it, it doesn’t justify the price at all and you realize it’s all hype.