My ex wasn’t aggressive and on the surface he looked like such a good person. Doesn’t shout and always remains his calm. But he was so passive aggressive. But in the end, I learned so much from him. After that when I date a guy I’m always passive aggressive. I agree to everything but go my own way. I listen to him, but doesn’t really pay attention if the convo is too long. On the surface I seem like a nice girl, but in truth, I’m not. Guys always complain how women’s are too aggressive, and voice their opinion, so I stay quiet while I do my own thing. It’s also better as this method helps you see the truth of the LVM.