Once guys feel confident that you're only pursuing them/talking to them they start taking you for granted and all the chasing/attention goes away.

And then you're the only one making the effort and trying to get things back to how they were and it should never be like that. I'm afraid of getting married for that reason too.

So I've learnt to never wear your feelings on your sleeve. Let him confess first. Let him say he's in love with you first. With men its never a good idea to initiate, instead we should just reciprocate once they make the first move.

Men are abundant and replaceable. Don't forget that ladies