So I've been seeing this guy for about 3-4 months casually. I won't deny that there have been some feelings developing lately, but I've read enough on here to keep my head cool about it. Basically, since we're not official, I decided to enforce some boundaries.

Basically, I've made it known that as an attractive woman I have better options, should he slip up. Honestly though, he really was the one I wanted, but I'm not gonna give myself up without a fight.

So, I decided to casually bring up a guy in my class that I find really cute, while we were hanging out. He immediately went stiff, and kinda ignored my words. He only started engaging with the conversation once I moved on to another topic. I could tell from the moment I brought up another guy, his view of me completely changed.

After this night, nothing. He sent some memes, just bare minimum effort, and barely responded to my texts. He finally asks to hang out again, and I mention that guy again, just to check that it wasn't anything else. He basically stopped talking to me the rest of the day.

Come to find, 2 days later I'm blocked everywhere, and today, not even a week later I go to the coffee shop and find him chatting up some girls in my year. I have a moment of weakness and ask him what the fuck. He just gives me a nasty look and goes back to chatting up the 2 girls I mentioned. Fuck him.

So in conclusion, FDS may have ruined my relationship with this guy, but it saved me from a jealous fuckhead. Thank you! Dating as a 17-yo isn't the easiest! I kinda mourn for the loss of a guy I had feelings for, but on the other hand, he showed himself to be a jealous fucking asshole, and FDS was the one that made him show his hand. Thanks again!