I’m out clubbing with my roommate, and an older man and came to talk to us. Maybe 40/50 years old and we’re both 23. We told him at this first club we couldn’t chat, because we were leaving. And we didn’t tell him where we were going, and I guess it could be a coincidence, but he ended up at the next bar as us and hit us up again, asking if everything was okay.

What do you do in a situation like this? He didn’t flat out so anything wrong- I can’t prove he followed us or whatever, but I’m not alone or anything. What do you do in a situation like this to stay safe? I don’t want to endanger my roommate or myself out of fear of seeming rude. Fuck that.