Please don’t post here looking for advice. I know this sounds mean and insensitive but hear me out!

When I first saw FDS I was shocked and not ready to embrace what this sub was about. It’s a tough pill to swallow as it challenges everything you’ve been told about dating. But once you understand FDS, it’s so freeing!

Lately with the influx of subscribers, it’s clear the side bar is not being read and the essence of the group is not understood. This is not the relationship advice sub. This is a sub for getting women ahead and prioritizing WOMEN. The strategies are “controversial” and “unconventional”. Why do you think everyone on reddit is so mad?

When you ask for relationship advice or how to respond to your couch creature, the answer is easy and could be found on the side bar. Now I understand that people may still have questions or would like to discuss the topic further. However, if you get FDS advice, don’t be a Pickmeisha about it.

Yes the advice is ruthless, hence “ruthless strategist” flair on the mods. Yes it involves lots of ghosting, blocking and deleting and no second chances. Once you get a response, this is not the place to debate or argue the advice. Most advice I see is in line with what this sub is, so don’t get mad when you get the advice you asked for.

No we won’t gather around and sing Kumbaya and tell you everything will be ok. That’s not the style of this sub. It’s female dating strategy. How to maximize your time and dating benefits, how to play the game and get the best results. No, your couch creature is not the exception, no we don’t want to hear you excusing his behaviors.