Strategy for bumble?

sweatydeath · 2019-12-06T19:57:46+00:00

Bumble is a haven for low-effort men (with VERY few exceptions). In my experience, they put less effort into upholding a conversation and almost expect YOU to ask THEM out. I suspect the woman initiating messages makes some men think that they can sit back, make mediocre attempts at conversation, and somehow magically land a date. I ultimately dropped it in favor of Hinge, OkCupid, Tinder, and Match.

lawlessesq · 2019-12-06T19:48:48+00:00

I send a hello gif (super low effort), then let them take over.

AstridRavenGrae · 2019-12-06T23:51:05+00:00

Bumble is a no-go 🙅🏻‍♀️ also any profiles on other platforms where the guy says ‘can’t see likes’ (bullshit), or ‘I’m not here much, message me and I’ll reply’ (nah, I’ll pass)

husheveryone · 2019-12-07T13:08:47+00:00

Get off the stupid Bumble! A man always has to approach you first.

suaveagave · 2019-12-06T21:48:55+00:00

Send a super low effort “hi” or “hey” but if you want my honest advice, quit online dating. All the platforms attract mostly LVMs. HVMs aren’t sitting at home mindlessly swiping on women like products.

stacciw · 2019-12-06T21:05:07+00:00

I send “Hello insert their name!”, if I get a typical hello or hey response I unmatch. If they send a question or make a comment about something on my profile that gets a conversation going I continue it.

I consider this an extra step for the matching process and a filter to get rid of low effort men.

Title	Strategy for bumble?
Author	GroundbreakingPilot2
Upvotes	9
Comments	10
Date	December 6, 2019 7:24 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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