So I’ve seen this discussed some here (I’ve been following this sub about a week or so) - with the advice of “cut him off”, “block/delete”, “next him”...but what is the consensus of practicing FDS techniques with men you know you aren’t interested in long term? Are you devaluing yourself and wasting your time when you could be leveling yourself up? Is it better to stay on the shelf and work on yourself?
My line of thought here, is I am new to FDS and while I’m trying to put the reading and techniques into practice, I’d like to do that with men I don’t place a ton of value on, so when HVM comes along I feel more prepared to do things “right”.
Thoughts?
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Love this! I am definitely gonna change my OLD strategy. I’m only doing a portion of this.
I am on Bumble which requires me to act first, which I thought was a good way to filter out the fuckboys and dick pics - but I’ve found that the dudes on Bumble treat it just like Tinder except they have to put in less work, since the woman has to initiate. 🙄
I’ve actually gotten 2 dudes to transition from the app to live dates and both were only interested in sex (even though they initially claimed they weren’t). Suffice it to say I’m pretty unimpressed so far. So that’s why I’m wanting to try some new strategies with the dudes I’m still chatting with and have yet to meet in person.
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