So I know this guy, on the outside of my social circle. He's got a nice job, weightlifts almost every day of the week, has a bunch of hobbies and what have you, but he lacks any interest in women, or sex. I've asked what his deal is, since he seems quite "high value" (for a guy), but his friends have never seen him with a girl, or even a guy.

So, do asexual guys exist? I've always been of the impression that dudes are pretty much always after one thing only, but this guy seems to actively dodge attention from both women and men. Help me make sense of this dude for me? Can guys even be asexual, or is that just something lonely incels tell themselves?