No, we don’t want to take advantage of men, least of all “beta men”, we want to weed out the men from the boys.

We want what is best for us. If that’s not you — BYE!

We want bodily autonomy, including the right to decide sex (if ANY) on our terms. If you can’t respect that — BYE!

We want to know you don’t think we’re a waste of your money. Can’t spend money on us (basically saying we are not worth it) — BYE!

We want to know you have the ability to spend money on us. Can’t afford to treat us? Work on this aspect until you can. IF there is a woman you really want, you know you will better yourself, men. If you haven’t found any woman you want to do this for, then she’s not the right woman for you.

We want you to take charge of dates. Can’t plan — BYE!

This isn’t a “We Hate Men” sub, this is a “We Love Women” sub. We want what’s best for women (and let’s face it, men) because there’s a lot of hurt in this world.

“wHaT aBoUt ThE mAkInG a MaN pAy FoR yOuR mEaLs PoSt?” What about it? We are to determine who is best for us. Are you taking us out? GREAT! You will be judged on appearance (how you dress), ability to converse, how you treat others, if you’re pushy, etc. Think of it as a pageant and you’re trying to win the title. If you want to take us out, there must be a reason. Is that reason because you want to get to know us better? GREAT! Maybe we can see what we have in common. Is that reason because you want to get us into bed? That’s going to be expensive for you and maybe result in nothing but free meals for her. If you don’t want to get to know a woman, it’s better for everybody’s time to not pursue a relationship. Maybe you want to get to know each other better but one or both of you, after doing so, sees it’s not going to work. Be adults and graciously move on. Do not reconnect.

There is nothing wrong with women trying to vet men to get the best guy. There is nothing wrong with not having sex for months, if not years, even if a guy is paying for all the dates (it’s your body, your permission). There’s nothing wrong with giving a guy a chance and then leaving because it’s not worth it. There’s nothing wrong with not getting with every guy. There’s nothing wrong with putting yourself first when talking about your time and energy in determining the rest of your life.

TL;DR: we want Kings, not Jokers.

EDIT: As one of the commenters has mentioned (and I will add), Men: be chaste in the relationship. No sex and no porn.

I would also like to thank the mods for all the deletions going on with this thread. I get notices that there have been replies, but I can’t read them because they’re already deleted. Thank you Mods!!