What are your sex tips?

Tequila_Fridaze · 2019-10-28T21:39:12+00:00

Don’t be afraid to vocalize what you like and don’t like. Most guys appreciate when you give a little direction when needed. Also, be sure to tell them when something feels good, too! Enjoy and use a condom!

Confusedgirl5445 · 2019-10-28T22:12:24+00:00

Stop trying to perform for men.

lyricthesecond · 2019-10-29T00:28:15+00:00

Don't stay in a relationship with a man who -

*Tampers with your birth control in any way, shape or form.

*Regards your sexual pleasure as a chore.

*Gets offended when you correct his sexual technique or ask him for what you want in bed.

*Has erectile dysfunction that he refuses to acknowledge or treat.

*Guilts and shames you for wanting (or not wanting) sex.

*Compares you sexually to his exes.

ManchurianCantaloupe · 2019-10-28T21:36:16+00:00

Enjoy yourself.

ino_y · 2019-10-29T03:41:01+00:00

Figure out how you orgasm.

Tell him "this is how I orgasm"

If he starts fucking around with some other nonsense, walk.

JupiterThunderCrash · 2019-10-28T23:45:34+00:00

I keep things really sweet and don't act like a porn star to impress a guy. Two of the last guys I dated thanked me for no fake moans and gently stroking their hair/back/arms. Kissing them all over. Light scratches. I make love to a guy like how I would to a girl (trying to keep things soft or fun and trying to not overthink things).

Hellboundclown · 2019-10-29T13:20:19+00:00

I have to say do what you need to be focusing on your own pleasure. He's a man, he should just feel happy being involved. Be specific if you need to, tell him what he needs to do for you to be satisfied. Any man who will get angry or frustrated with you for trying to get what you need is too immature for you to be banging anyway and is a man you don't need to be involved with. Sex is a two person act and both people should feel satisfied afterwards. I don't understand why so many men feel so entitled in the bedroom, much like every other aspect of any relationship there needs to be mutual give and take. If he wants a blowjob, make him go down on you first, if he wants to role play you take turns setting the fantasy. The whole act of sex should be mutual enjoyment and if you're not enjoying yourself, why even waste your time with it?

2019-10-29T16:29:00+00:00

Start going to the gym. Yes a physical improvement is an obvious change but besides that I notice that I have a lot more confidence and also a lot more energy, lol

siddmartha · 2019-10-28T21:27:41+00:00

I'd say, know your body and what you like well enough to be able to communicate it to a partner. Also toys are fun!

Title	What are your sex tips?
Author	twopeas3296
Upvotes	0
Comments	14
Date	October 28, 2019 8:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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