He’s Counting On Your Stupidity

PrettyCicada · 2020-02-22T23:14:58+00:00

There's nothing LVM resent more than a woman who's smart enough to recognize their shit.

boooooooooooooooooo · 2020-02-23T00:32:17+00:00

I always thought I was so smart, but when it comes to men, I've been dumb dumb dumb. Ignored my gut feeling. Permitted them to walk all the way over me. Chased them. Modified my own behavior to suit them. Allowed horrific abuse.

I've been living as prey my entire fucking life and I'm feeling over it. Been lurking in this sub for weeks, reading for hours at a time, soaking it in. My main problem is that I've been way too willing to give people the benefit of the doubt. My belief in people's inherent worth, dignity, equality and so on has put me at a disadvantage because I usually think their intentions are neutral or good, when in retrospect they're obviously bad. I think people are like me, and they are not.

When it comes to men, I especially can't think like that anymore. There are too many predators. Too many guys trying to run game or even just be selfish. Why would I ever entertain that behavior? Why would I let them use me or waste my time? I'm worth more than that.

I want to be able to see through these shitters at a glance. I never want to be manipulated again. I want to finally be a smart woman.

ghygdryhchmmmmjj · 2020-02-23T06:06:30+00:00

Yup. Listen you will get dumped for this. That's a good thing.

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-02-23T03:46:42+00:00

💯 I noticed my most recent ex would get mad mad when I saw through his bullshit - that’s when I knew I was wading through his lies and getting closer to the actual truth. Didn’t take long for him to start discarding me when I didn’t allow him to manipulate me more (and he probably grooming his orbiting pickmeishas more in preparation for the discard).

EJ86 · 2020-02-23T07:24:18+00:00

Had a guy say to me once..." wow you're really smart... maybe even too smart." Not like i have a PhD even , I just like to read and learn. Silly me.

sissysheeps · 2020-02-23T12:29:44+00:00

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_HEDONISM_BOT · 2020-02-23T17:23:31+00:00

"Damn, she's smarter than I told her she was"

~Abusers

Title	He’s Counting On Your Stupidity
Author	CuriousCatNYC777
Upvotes	625
Comments	16
Date	February 22, 2020 10:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f80fiw/hes_counting_on_your_stupidity/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/hes-counting-on-your-stupidity.693575 https://theredarchive.com/post/693575

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