Truth

viper8472 · 2019-11-19T01:27:27+00:00

You can't control your feelings. You can't control how much you fall in love.

You can control whether you chase a man who is walking away.

You can control whether you have sex with a man you don't know well enough to commit to.

You can control how much of your life and time you are willing to devote to a man who as not shown consistent interest or commitment.

prettyexcitingnews · 2019-11-18T17:21:45+00:00

Aw it hurts

medeeap · 2019-11-18T20:17:33+00:00

in a relationship, there is the lover and the loved.

saying from somewhere

CSQUITO · 2019-11-18T22:58:31+00:00

Hmm I disagree. You don’t really control the depth of love, and the “until you’re sure they love you back” bit is why so many people are single nowadays. I think don’t devote yourself easily, and definitely don’t commit easily, but let’s not forget love is an emotion

Longirl · 2019-11-18T19:25:05+00:00

Love deeply but always hold back at least 10% for yourself. That way, you can love but be in control.

jazzie831 · 2019-11-18T20:34:01+00:00

I wish I found this thread a few months ago. It would have saved me the worst heartache I’ve ever experienced.

SHEEKOtm · 2019-11-19T01:04:16+00:00

Guys will say they love you the same though ... But will still pull back on you...

2019-11-19T05:31:00+00:00

Shit... too late for this advice.

laughwidmee · 2019-11-18T18:46:57+00:00

oh hello? message noted! I swear God is trying to tell me something

missyou2017 · 2019-11-18T19:13:34+00:00

Limerence :/

ritablueboys1 · 2019-11-18T19:33:11+00:00

You didnt have to come for me like this lol

Vixen-By-Your-Side · 2019-11-19T00:53:30+00:00

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Loiacono3137 · 2019-11-19T00:21:08+00:00

Argghh

MonkiePants · 2019-11-19T02:20:43+00:00

Damn ☹️

MonkiePants · 2019-11-19T02:21:19+00:00

Damn ☹️

beeroqueen · 2019-11-19T03:15:10+00:00

I feel this on a deep level

kcnitte · 2019-11-19T05:06:19+00:00

Ouch. Haha truth hurts.

lasolterita · 2019-11-18T19:09:53+00:00

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Title	Truth
Author	Vixen-By-Your-Side
Upvotes	1065
Comments	35
Date	November 18, 2019 5:13 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dy62pt/truth/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/truth.695268 https://theredarchive.com/post/695268