Ok so full disclosure I’m a failed FDS. I made every mistake. Over invested. Made compromises he would never. Cried to him like he gave a shit he had hurt me. Acted like his mom and tried to improve him.

What I’m writing about today is how I gave up hobbies for him. I love to go to the gym. Love. Gym rat here! He went with me- for a while. Then it became, Skip a day! Spend time with me! So I did. When I did this he didn’t treat me better or stop lying to me. He treated me worse.

I love going to museums and concerts. Him not so much. So I stopped going to make him comfortable. I don’t like sports games. He dragged me to three baseball games. I looked like boo boo the fool accommodating him when he didn’t me.

Don’t be like me. Maintain your own life and hobbies, if he wants to tag along he can! We’re over now by the way, I’m free to go to museums and the gym and concerts and the beach.