Boyfriend has mgtow/redpill think, what to do? I am starting to see a-lot of posts like this, girls complaining about their boyfriends being influenced by mgtow. It spreading gentlemen.

secant128 · 2020-06-15T06:39:00+00:00

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lastminutedash · 2020-06-15T07:31:42+00:00

Honestly he sounds like an asshole. I can sort of see where he's coming from, but I don't believe in being a piece of shit. I agree with the girl about him potentially having a mental illness as well.

However, you have to bear in mind this is a very one sided view from a woman where only the bad stuff is talked about. Without seeing the other side of it, I can't make a decision.

Just play it cool, and don't put yourself in a position where women can take advantage of you.

Ody_ssey · 2020-06-15T07:19:13+00:00

Tbh that guy is adopting mgtow in difficult way. First, you don't talk about mgtow with anyone. Second, now you know mgtow, you don't cohabitate and plan to have a son. He broke the only 2 principles this philosophy asks to adopt.

No marriage
No live-in

Rest is upto you how you want to shape your life. You are not mgtow if you are expressing mgtow rules with your partner. If you are following redPill rules, you don't talk about redPill. You just draw your boundaries and let your partner know what immoral behaviour you don't tolerate in a relationship.

nhsiotis · 2020-06-15T08:30:12+00:00

We don't recruit, we just watch them arrive

honda_vfr · 2020-06-15T07:40:31+00:00

Yes he has a mental illness. She should dump him ! /s

It's very dangerous to let him watch guy videos.

But she will not break up with him because it would shame her to her friends. Without a good reason it would be to embarrassing.

z31fanatic · 2020-06-15T09:45:22+00:00

Yet the leech doesn't leave him. That's only because she hasn't monkey branched on to the next victim.

phfenix · 2020-06-15T07:21:57+00:00

Its only natural when you start to consider an alternative to just taking whatever you can find, that you dont necessarily have to suffer bullshit least of all being a toxic womans punching bag.

The bottom line is women fuel red pill ideologies of any kind, not men. A man who is happy and fulfilled in his relationship, who is mentally healthy and capable of both of those emotions, will not be concerned over her bullshit. A woman who doesnt cause problems and finds a mentally healthy man(not a sociopath or psychopath), and treats him well, wont have to worry about mgtow convincing him to leave her. He wouldnt leave if there wasnt a problem to begin with, a recurring one he seems irreconcilable. The ideas only point towards alternatives to shut up and take it, like walk away.

kayfab · 2020-06-15T07:49:05+00:00

Going on stupid date is such a waste of fucking time.

SteelerKing · 2020-06-15T10:00:11+00:00

Wait, who do incels hurt mentally and physically? Aren't they the guys that get rejected? Or does she mean when a man says something mean over being rejected?

Well the guy she speaks about is not wrong. But he made the mistake to think a woman will tolerate self-respect in a man.

Notice how she does not even entertain the thought that other women may not be like her? She circles around the conclusion that something must be wrong with his views because what he says is outside of her world view.

jhooperp · 2020-06-15T13:21:19+00:00

I think this is all exaggerated. I’m the main thing is she hates that she can’t control him and that he’s not providing for her. She mentions all this be about “his views” clearly to set up for people to side with her before she gets into the real issue she has which is that he used to be a hard worker and now isn’t and she hates that. Take everything here with a grain of salt. Even down to the incel talk like who the fuck even talks about incels. They are a small stupid group that is blown way out of proportion. I’ve never heard anyone say women owe them sex and whatever else PC narrative states of this nonexistent group.

MrGordija · 2020-06-15T10:12:15+00:00

Funny how when he acts like an "asshole", she goes and makes a post asking for advice to "save" the relationship, because she's still into him for having his integrity and respecting himself above her.

If it were the contrary, we would have instead him posting, talking about how he did everything right like she wanted and still got coldy dumped. Wich just goes to prove how woman aren't congruent with their actions, wich then proves how MGTOW was and will always be right about them.

Hope he keeps on the right path, get over the redpillrage AND her to live an awesome life.

someevilwhitemen · 2020-06-15T09:31:30+00:00

seriously , dont tell me to break up with because during the next year we will live close by and i dont want drama in my life

Hopefully , this guy know she is not his its just his turn

Thinkingman21 · 2020-06-15T10:25:47+00:00

For a future complaints from women discovering their guy is mgtow or redpilled, I predict women who bring their complaint to others socially like Reddit will do so for comfort in agreement and in hopes of community despise.

Do you know why?

Because women cant defeat an idea, especially one that strips the man of his inclination to automatically behave as a human doing for her.

Beyond looks and male sexual instinct, the female has never had to justify herself as a worthy investment or deal. With mgtow, they have to prove they are a worthy option and that task cannot be done by the female.

Even after colossal bitching from endless arenas of women, no solution will be offered by them for their problems. Moving on to the next potential Human doing will be their only course until every male is aware of his own humanity and value, or is a mgtow.

GimmeDaScoobySnacks · 2020-06-15T12:22:12+00:00

Afterall that she`s still hanging around with him, what does that tell you?

user_miki · 2020-06-15T12:30:41+00:00

He still in red pill rage.And he leaks it out to people.We should accept that MGTOW is not an easy path fro everybody and are guys struggling with the new information.

Gn0meRat · 2020-06-15T14:11:42+00:00

You know what really kills all arguments and bullshit conversation? Just point blank tell them you don't believe in equality.

God I love the face melt.

_MCMXCVI_ · 2020-06-15T13:51:59+00:00

I see whats going on here. This is a woman who is experiencing what its like dealing with a man going through red pill rage. He still seems like he's coming to terms with all of this. Soon enough he'll learn to keep it on the DL and not be so outwardly red pilled. Being red pilled is good, but in society, sometimes its best to let people think youre blue pill in order to avoid stigma and social shaming. Besides, why should the have any interest in what we believe?

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2020-06-15T14:14:26+00:00

He has revealed too much of his thoughts, that never works out well when dating. Keep that shit to yourself. And if you are going to date then why be an asshole? You see people here bitch about how women are a PITA when dating but he is doing the same thing, date or don't date but don't be a dick about it if you are gonna date someone.

Be aware of the dangers but the fact is if you keep acting like an asshole then for sure everything MGTOW predicts will happen because he has made it into a self-fulfilling prophecy. Being MGTOW is not a license to be an asshole, you are free to act however you want of course , but being an asshole is not a MGTOW thing it is just being an asshole. Hopefully this guy gets past this stage to a better place.

drpr0ctr · 2020-06-15T14:32:19+00:00

I mean obviously he’s just figuring this out, because he sounds like a fucking asshole. He’s gonna get in some kind of trouble, mostly self inflicted

Cultural_Area · 2020-06-15T14:36:24+00:00

If he has a GF he is not a MGTOW, please don't confuse the terms.

GoatKnows · 2020-06-15T14:54:01+00:00

He is evolving and she is as dumb as a monkey applying for a zoo keeper job, women are equal to men when women's rights are allowed by men haha. If only women new that this is the process of elimination of weakness, give women the same rights as men push that they are equal so men can see them in a negative light then, men will seek to replace them.

MGTOW is only the beginning, when men finally can reproduce without women it's over

bieberblows · 2020-06-15T18:15:09+00:00

He sees & knows the truth but won't embrace it. He is still holding on to false hope. I think we've all been there.

42252252 · 2020-06-15T21:31:32+00:00

Sounds fake, like someone who wants to point to a synthetic boogeyman to show how terrible those awful, awful redpillers are. He ticks off too many boxes of what a redditor would THINK dudes here would do, but seeing all those things are just too weird all at once. It's like a charicature.

We're supposed to be smarter than this. Acting like this douche may be emotionally understandable but it does much more harm than good. Listening to his GF ramble on about the mainstream narratives has got to be tough but he deserves that since he won't just break it off with her. I have a deep dislike for those who hate their life but do nothing to change it.

My litmus test for idiots is their perception of 'incels'. A sane person would see an underclass of undateable, worthless men constantly being shit on by society, which further allows normies to demonize them and make them the scapegoat for a number of social ills. In reality they don't have the tool kits to thrive in this world, and instead of at least feeling empathy, everyone here dumps on them for being lumpy, angry rejects.

R_Hak · 2020-06-15T10:01:41+00:00

This cant be true. Either he is just starting to learn about the red pill and is experiencing the red pill rage, the truth rage, or she doesnt have a bf like that and she is exagerating how much of those sentiments he expresses.

What I mean is this: either that is a fake post, or he is expressing something but not to the degree she is saying otherwise she would have dumped him already.

EddardNedStark · 2020-06-15T14:37:02+00:00

A lot of that isn’t MGTOW, it’s just being an asshole

Wooden_Distance · 2020-06-15T14:43:15+00:00

Why would they meet on tinder if they go to the same school? What happened to approaching someone in person.

ThePrinceOfShadows · 2020-06-15T15:36:56+00:00

"Concerning views about women"="Accurate views about women"="Help! I won't be able to manipulate him into marriage, slaving away at a 9-5 job for a few years, divorce raping him, and drawing a good 18 years of child support and/or alimony"

2020-06-15T15:55:18+00:00

...she's going to be soon shocked that shes just a P&D.

tubra · 2020-06-15T16:20:44+00:00

Red pill rage. He'll settle down and balance out if he's a rational guy. It's a tough phase.

ClitRingInNose · 2020-06-15T17:31:00+00:00

This sounds like a load of horseshit to me. Come on, really? We're supposed to just believe this shit just sprung up in the last few months, he's still into dating you, wants to have sons, but just openly expresses that "Men are better than women"? Really? Hey lady, are you, by any chance, doing that thing women do where they purposely misconstrue some things people have said by dropping all context and then putting HIS words into YOUR own language then quoting YOUR version of HIS words? I bet you are.

2020-06-15T18:17:58+00:00

Her entire point is that he's not a model victim. Fuck this female and any other that thinks like her.

The_2nd_Bob · 2020-06-16T04:07:07+00:00

Why do I get the feeling this is all BS and just a cloak and dagger way to bitch.

cycloneous · 2020-06-16T04:24:48+00:00

She writes, "he has a repulsion of older women." Yes, in man-speak, they're called standards!

The_Whorror_Show · 2020-06-16T06:01:55+00:00

These bitches act like FDS slags and expect men to stay traditional?

2020-06-15T13:01:09+00:00

Lol! You are with a bum And now trying to find excuses as to why he’s the ass hole and why you’re not at fault for dating a piece of shit. Smh

Title	Boyfriend has mgtow/redpill think, what to do? I am starting to see a-lot of posts like this, girls complaining about their boyfriends being influenced by mgtow. It spreading gentlemen.
Author	Mg70w
Upvotes	232
Comments	69
Date	June 15, 2020 6:09 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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