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[–][deleted] 40 points41 points42 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I thought being alone was rlly hard but I realize taking someone’s shit in order to not be alone is just not worth it
[–]CassieGreen85FDS Apprentice24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Pfffttt being alone is the best! You can keep your place exactly as you want, nobody will make a mess, you spend the money exactly on what you'd love/need, can set time aside for your hobbies or to hang out with friends...
Possibilities are endless!
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I realize that now, but I lacked a strong support system before when I had that afraid of being alone mentality. I realized you can be alone and be ok even if you don’t have a support system in place yet
[–]CassieGreen85FDS Apprentice5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Absolutely, there's nothing wrong with not being in that place mentally, and it's definitely good that you're there now!
During my 20s I had a lot of anxiety and depression episodes because I was just starting my program at uni, and thought I had to "find a boyfriend, marry, have 2 kids, before I turn 35" which looking back I never looked forward to, it was just what I had to do to make my parents proud, reach life goals, etc.
It's really hard to shake off the feeling that you're supposed to do this or that thing, and how we're supposed to be fulfilled. Us women are told that the worst thing we can be is "alone/single" with "no man," all bullshit of course, but it's hard to get out of that mindset, especially if everyone around you pushes/follows those BS narratives.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very true 💜
[–]chateauduchatFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I needed this mentally tattooed on my forehead.
[–]AfraidofFollowersFDS Apprentice8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is why I leave men so fast. I can’t hold onto bullshit anymore.
[–]missmelissa187FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oooh I love this
[–]InayahDaneenFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is my new motto now 🙏🏻
[–]WildUnitFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
God I needed to see this today. I just potentially cut someone out of my life that I have known for 30 years for treating me like an afterthought.
[–]heyitssuhani1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
:( damn i needed this
[–]candigumFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Can I have a shirt with this printed on?
[–]royaldetourFDS Newbie[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol or embroidered on a pillow please!
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