Couple loses their baby. Man shows signs that he's grieving just ONCE and the wife loses it on him for 'Not being a man and supporting her'.

TerdBrgler · 2020-07-22T05:51:44+00:00

He should be glad about this, so he can get away from her and find someone better. If possible.

rocko20002 · 2020-07-22T06:27:35+00:00

Women complain that men aren't concerned about babies. This man sure is and he gets labeled as selfish.

Peroxidekid · 2020-07-22T07:13:03+00:00

It's okay to cry.

Man up. Don't be a pussy.

Choose one, bitches.

As for that guy and his girl, I honestly couldn't give a fuck. If that dude has a brain, he'd get away from her. What kind of sick mentality does she have? Stupid bitch, men have feelings too. And, he's the fucking father. It's not like you fucked yourself.

Dadeh · 2020-07-22T06:15:33+00:00

Pure selfishness - I have a lot more to say but words are escaping me. As a father of two boys, this hits me to my core and I can empathize with this man. Apparently he cannot get that same respect from the woman that decided to project and make it "all about her" instead. I can't imagine the pain that father is going through losing his child and I frankly don't want to be in his shoes.

Not being able to vent or express his sadness could be a one way ticket to an early grave. I think that he should see the overarching reality here that his wife doesn't respect nor care about him whatsoever. He needs to pack his bags, get that divorce before they "try again", and maybe seek some therapy because he won't be able to heal for as long as he's with that wench.

StingRayFins · 2020-07-22T06:37:24+00:00

Good example that she doesn't see the dad as a human.

ur8moms · 2020-07-22T06:47:34+00:00

Smallest of caskets are the heaviest to carry...

I would be concerned if he DIDNT cry in such a time. Wtf

nakari821 · 2020-07-22T07:58:23+00:00

Its at that point where you need to leave this chick, and go mourn over the lost of your child alone. Trust me it may hurt for a while. But if you stay with this female. She will not allow you to have any emotions. Feelings, or even opinions. So ask your self, would you rather be free to feel how you want, or cut off all your emotions all feelings and everything you hold dear and just slave away for her happiness, and completely forget about your own.

Revorob · 2020-07-22T08:10:52+00:00

Sounds like the wife is trying to make it all about her.

Kooky_Air · 2020-07-22T09:39:42+00:00

Grief is a competition apparently. What a sick cunt she is.

sootlord · 2020-07-22T09:35:32+00:00

Fuck his Wife. Hate this clownworld, why is it such an issue when Men need to vent their feelings.

sootlord · 2020-07-22T09:52:53+00:00

If this isnt a clear cut example about how women feel towards men then I dont know what is. Never show weakness, dont be anything but a slave/tool.

"You dont have a right to be upset about losing our child"

Idgaf what anyone says, thats some ice cold shit right there kids

king_of_mgtow · 2020-07-22T10:09:12+00:00

"surprise baby"+"didn't want to rush into having a child"+"you're not allowed to mourn that baby"= not his baby

Jakesteroz · 2020-07-22T11:15:30+00:00

I have nothing positive to say about this situation.

This is unforgivable major red flag. If she did that to me she'd be instantly dead for me for eternity.

So she gets the "right" to grief? Trying to make it a one upmanship narcissistic contest of who had it worse like her carrying etc? The audacity of this cunt of a woman, the gaslighting (she's the one who makes it about herself and has no soul to even reciprocate), the belittling of my genuine feelings... those are major signs of narcissist. That woman should never ever have kids.

I'd have to hold myself real hard to not snap her in half but for sure I'd file for divorce next day.

richasalannister · 2020-07-22T07:36:59+00:00

And now I'm crying

2020-07-22T07:47:17+00:00

That last paragraph is pretty bad dude is ready to just take her verbal beating and apologize

Chakra_Devourer · 2020-07-22T12:09:03+00:00

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yakubmademedoit · 2020-07-22T12:28:45+00:00

He needs to pack it up and leave ASAP. She's a psycho who's unable to empathize with his pain. It's all about her.

Reading this hits me in the feels. My daughter was pulled out and rushed to a ventilator while her mother was sedated to finish closing her up from the C-section. The staff stuck me in a room and I was completely distraught not knowing what was going on. I vowed to never have another child because the pain of thinking she was dead or suffering was un-fucking-believable.

Epilogue: She made it and is finishing her BS in 2021.

NBFHoxton · 2020-07-22T08:23:04+00:00

Jesus fucking christ. I cant imagine the pain, that he's forced to go through ALONE.

TieranCollide · 2020-07-22T08:51:08+00:00

He made another update post on the same page defending her even more. What a poor weak man.

SheerSocialSuicide · 2020-07-22T09:41:29+00:00

The best thing to do is to tell her to shut up and you can cry if you want until you get over it.

She needs him to be a solid rock to help her through her feelz.

If he does that she'll recognise that he's still a strong man and won't lose her tingles.

What he'll probably actually do is apologise, console her, and appear even more beta and pathetic than she suspects he might be after his crying.

Their relationship will go downhill and she'll get a divorce/cheat on him. I would bet money on this happening unless he mans up.

Delifier · 2020-07-22T08:36:59+00:00

The clock just started ticking. At least it started ticking faster. He should get out of there before it reaches 0.

diffeqs88 · 2020-07-22T09:51:01+00:00

Doesnt he know it's all about her? The entire world rotated around her and her needs and desires?

SilverNargacuga · 2020-07-22T12:42:02+00:00

It’s like women don’t understand we are human beings too and not sentry robots with an ATM feature.

febreezing_hobos · 2020-07-22T17:05:44+00:00

It wasn't his kid.

bfte2 · 2020-07-22T08:44:48+00:00

Let me guess... reddit piled on and called him every name under the sun.

tehpanda64 · 2020-07-22T14:44:17+00:00

What a tragic double standard, one of the only guys out there who wants to care for a child and she only lets it be about her.

Unit614 · 2020-07-22T14:53:13+00:00

Just another "Me me me me me" case.

Women are so fucked in the head.

2020-07-22T08:47:52+00:00

It's fucking disgusting

EL10RUB · 2020-07-22T12:47:07+00:00

Simptastic. No sympathy. Pathetic.

bajasauce07 · 2020-07-22T13:50:25+00:00

F that hoe

o0shad0o · 2020-07-22T14:04:21+00:00

This could be a red flag, but it's just one. She's upset too. IMO it's forgivable, taken by itself.

HungryBrain1 · 2020-07-22T15:45:15+00:00

She’s a selfish lunatic.

jbruce75 · 2020-07-22T15:25:11+00:00

This nearly exact scenario happened to me. The only difference is years later I find out she had aborted the baby. 6 months ago the divorce was finalized from a 16 year marriage.

When I confronted her about it, the lasting quote that I will never forget is her telling me that it was her body her decision.

TigPlaze · 2020-07-22T15:49:21+00:00

Same old shit. If you're not even allowed to express grief when YOUR CHILD FUCKING DIES, you're not even regarded as a human being. I remember when I was in grade school, a kid who wore glasses, got hit in the side of the head with a football in a way that smashed the classes against his nose really hard. I wear glasses, and trust me that shit HURTS! Instead of "OMG, are you okay," people made fun of his as "weak little four eyes." Feminists claim they're for allowing men to express our pain, but they're by far the worst offenders in mocking men who are suffering. So it doesn't surprise me that a man gets belittled as weak even when he's in deep grief over the death of a child. This is one of the many reasons why feminists deserve their reputation as a hate group. How could you possibly be so full of hate that you would put down a grieving parent, someone who's suffering the death of a child?

We're not allowed to be human. We're not allowed to express human emotions. So we hold it inside. Then when it inevitably comes spewing out at some point, we're blamed for that. That's "toxic masculinity" after all. But if you cry when your child dies, you're a fragile male.

Any questions? Is it now clear why I have nothing but contempt for feminism? It's the feminists who have been destroying what little compassion that exists for men, and they've been doing so for years.

edgysecularist · 2020-07-22T16:00:25+00:00

She carried death this is the result of the cock carousel fuck that walking cemetery old hag

PotentialBattle · 2020-07-22T16:12:23+00:00

Run! Brother please get away from her. I'm sure the daughter's soul would understand.

GoodBoi_JStack · 2020-07-22T19:30:59+00:00

Imagine being so selfish that you disallow anyone else from feeling emotion...while ALSO accusing someone else of making it all about themselves.

Unbelievable.

Treeclimber4 · 2020-07-22T20:29:18+00:00

Even in grief they can't stop the shit tests.

jws755 · 2020-07-23T18:46:48+00:00

I have seen this situation before. Ends in divorce in my experiences.

screeching-tard · 2020-07-22T16:20:12+00:00

Well she is dealing with the fact that her poison womb has gone sour and only pops out stillbirths. LOL . She wouldn't have had this problem in her 20's and 1000 cocks ago. This dude should leave but he won't

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