I feel like this needs to be said...

For those of you who are confused about how you should be treated or spoken to, esp. on online dating,

talk to a guy you don't find attractive like at all. And one you know no one else would. See how fast he responds, or how patient he is with you, how he won't bring up certain things, etc.

Not ALL of them will be that way but a majority would because they don't want to ruin their chances.

You don't have to date them just compare and contrast. Then, when you talk to a man you do like, see if he does the same things. If he doesn't (patient, responds quick, doesn't bring up sex), then he is not that into you.