I feel like this is grounds for block, delete, move on, am I being too harsh?

Ms_Tilly · 2020-08-01T02:47:46+00:00

If I had dumped a guy for doing this shit to me, I wouldn't have ended up in an abusive relationship. Tread carefully.

EyezOnFyre · 2020-08-01T02:37:33+00:00

In addition to what others said on here I also want to point out that he is insinuating that starting a movie with his sister is more exciting than calling you. Since apparently he “forgot” in all of the “excitement”. Next.

2020-08-01T02:27:00+00:00

You are 100% correct.

painmakesyoustronger · 2020-08-01T02:27:43+00:00

BS

Block delete and smile to yourself

bonenecklace · 2020-08-01T02:30:51+00:00

So we had one date, we talked about expectations, our exes, I told him about my ex who cheated on me with a threesome, then he said something along the lines of "I don't know if I could turn that down in the moment either" so I immediately called him out & he backtracked HARD. This should've probably been my first red flag, but being a recovering pick-me I just let it slide. Then he does this, which I feel like was a test of boundaries & a bit manipulative. I feel like he chose not to call me to see if I would chase him, I'm basing that on the "you can always call me" comment.. like no dude, you are chasing me.. I haven't responded & he has tried calling twice (which I ignored). Should I just move on? He's not even that cute, just has good interests & taste in music & style.. maybe I already answered my own question..

Rebirthed_Queen · 2020-08-01T02:36:26+00:00

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crazycraftylady · 2020-08-01T02:26:56+00:00

I think you’re being too harsh. I mean it wasn’t like he bailed on meeting up for a date. I have forgotten to call people back plenty of times

Title	I feel like this is grounds for block, delete, move on, am I being too harsh?
Author	bonenecklace
Upvotes	9
Comments	24
Date	August 1, 2020 2:23 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/i1kka4/i_feel_like_this_is_grounds_for_block_delete_move/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/i-feel-like-this-is-grounds-for-block-delete-move.720156 https://theredarchive.com/post/720156

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