How. Do. I. Stop. Caring. About. Getting. A. Girlfriend.

aerial_coitus · 2021-01-13T00:38:04+00:00

I was the same way many years ago. We all go thru that phase. I know it sounds cliche but you really do just need to stop giving a shit about girls and go find a hobby or get involved with something that you genuinely enjoy (not as an excuse to meet more girls). When you do that your perspective will shift and you will realize there is alot more to life than just getting a girl.

External-Can-7839 · 2021-01-13T00:32:58+00:00

It's natural. Hell, I went after the poon for 30 years.

Don't bang yourself up about it. Date if you must but know that the odds are stacked against you. Technology and the culture have made the playing field so uneven to such a degree that you're almost certainly in for a world of pain if you do though.

2021-01-13T06:19:24+00:00

There’s no shame in dating when you’re young and full of hormones. Speaking from experience, the biggest red pills were fed to me by my long term girlfriends.

Just don’t get someone pregnant or marry.

abc69a · 2021-01-13T00:43:21+00:00

The things that you think you know what they are thinking and caring about. They are cute to look at, they will make you feel like a part of something more.They will tale up your downtime and your highes will feel higher. Now that's the best parts generally at start of things.

So... now for what its really like. They are generally narsessistic, they will spend hours and thousands on their look (it' not for you, just because it's their hobby). They know best and they will tell you all the mistakes and faults that are with you. They have strange diets and workout routines that are ptoven by populistic doctors. So will force you to wake up early or go to bed late... They will at seemingly random times be angry, disappointed and frustrated at the same time. Some will fuck guys cus you did something or didnt.. serial relationanship girls will slowly freeze you out and make you feel like shit and you will try to maintain it until you burn out.

All of them will want your money one way or another. Some are clever about it others others will drive you to insanity with it.

My one and only advice when looking for a mate is: Look at their habits( these wont change). Listen to what they say and believe that it is what they want. Look at what they do for it is wgo they are. Liars lie. Neither you or her will change your personality. If it doesn't fit, it will not fit down the line. Sex is important, if it wasn't you would be getting a friend not a lover. Money is important because our lives revolve around it.

Miserable-Lemon · 2021-01-13T00:53:38+00:00

Just ask yourself why the fuck you should have one in the first place. YOU are the prize.

ActOutside4853 · 2021-01-13T01:14:38+00:00

Its the toxic hormones. Gonna suck for decades..

The good news, is the bad news, we have way worse problems coming at us now.

Its starting to feel alot like the late thirties.... gonna be millions sacrificed for the good of societies that are no longer good societies.

And this group realizes they have no friends. Neither left nor right gave a shit about what was done to us.

So its like being on a war front, as a neutral entity. Need to focus on getting out of the area ASAP, before things blow up, and partying with the enemy will just hold you there, perhaps literally to your death.

Love is a fairy tale... not the hill to die on.

Better to work towards getting out of that environment.

All Social environments suck.

And if you get trapped by a woman, you will live to regret it profoundly.

This is not a happy time in history.

Alexius_von_Meinong · 2021-01-13T02:12:44+00:00

There is an important distinction to be made here, which is not fully explicit in your description of your experiences, and that is the difference between wanting sex and wanting a girlfriend.

So you went to a hooker, and the experience didn't go all that well, but sex isn't a total mystery to you. If the only way for you to get sex at this time is to go to a hooker, then get a job, save up some money, and patronize more hookers. Save up a bundle and then blow it on a crazy weekend of non-stop booze and hookers. You need to get it out of your system, and get sexually exhausted until you literally couldn't get it up again even if a girl is sucking your dick. Since you're quite young, it takes a lot of sex to get to the stage, but it is possible.

Now, wanting a girlfriend is something very different. For starters, having a girlfriend does not mean sex on tap. It means having a pouting princess in your life who will expect you to perform like a trained monkey. This is not a pleasant experience. So when you pass all these girls in the street and think you're attracted to them and want them for a girlfriend, what you really mean is that you want sex on tap from them. That's why you need an experience like what I wrote about above, because you need to understand that being sexually satisfied is very different from having a girlfriend in your life. Keep the two separate in your mind.

So you need some kind of social outlet in your life, which is admittedly difficult today in the midst of the shutdowns. But it can still be done. Find groups that share your interests. Become involved. Like an alcoholic needs someone to talk to when he is about the take a drink again and fall off the wagon, you just need ordinary social interaction. You're going to have to invest effort into this, just like you'd have to get a job and earn some money if you want to be able to experience sexual satisfaction (i.e., exhaustion).

Think of school as your job, as something that you have to do, but not as a social community. Find your social community elsewhere, preferably in multiple groups of individuals who share your interests. Check out Meetup. Start a group yourself. Socialization will make a contribution to ending your feeling that "I can't get a girlfriend," because some of that is just about wanting interaction with other human beings. If you need to feel the touch of another human being on the regular, without running the legal risk of hookers, get massages. Do it on the up and up; don't go to a sleazy massage parlor hoping for a happy ending (although that can be an outlet too). Just get a job, earn some money, and plunk it down at a legit masssage place, and every week or two you can experience human touch and interaction.

Sal_Yodada6502 · 2021-01-13T02:14:57+00:00

Stop giving a shit about conformity and consensus.

Jadedoldman65 · 2021-01-13T02:35:22+00:00

Young man, you're not going to get much in the way of 'how to get a girlfriend' advice here. Understand that what you're going through is normal, your hormones are demanding that you not only mate, but that you find a woman and settle down. I'm not going to tell you to deny them, I'm simply going to tell you to approach this with a rational mind.

Should you wind up with a girlfriend, protect yourself. No impregnation, no cohabitation. It's going to feel so right to be with her, but that's going to be your emotions and hormones talking to you. Be careful and think of what you're giving up for her. Set the price you're wiling to pay ahead of time and don't exceed it.

Sans_Senpai · 2021-01-13T01:23:18+00:00

Trust me, a lot of us in this subreddit were all like that. Instead of actually living in the present, depressed how you want to get a girlfriend appreciate every little thing without one. You save a lot of money in the longer run, buy whatever shit you want, eat what the hell you want, go where the hell you want. Do the hell, you want. Hell, you want a buy a body pillow, a sex doll/toy, you can do that too. I’m almost the same age as you actually. A couple of year older. You don’t get any one to constantly bash/complain to you either. Hell, some of us had even went through shit when having to deal with a woman too. And besides when you start dating you lose contact with some of your closer friends too. As cliche it may sound, all of those women WILL hit a wall regardless how attractive they are.

RocketDick5000 · 2021-01-13T04:20:06+00:00

Young man, would you drink poison just because you're thirsty? Don't enter into a relationship just because you're lonely mate. Now more than ever it is imperative that you learn to become a Grey Man and weigh up what you want vs what you need. You're at the point in your life where decisions made now can have an effect on the rest of your life so be calculating and take care of yourself!

fractal97 · 2021-01-13T02:14:12+00:00

I think, since you were never in a relationship, you should experience how it is. I would not stop trying in your situation. You already learned here what happens in the long run, so you are well equiped to gard against that as opposed to us who didn't have a clue and as a result lost 20 years of our life on psychopaths. Once you have some relationship and learn how it is, you'll move on forward on your own without thinking about girlfriends, fwb will be ok if you can find some as it is a mutually respectable arraignment. Just don't have kids with women. Risk of loosing them is the risk of divorce. For kids collect money for donors and surrogates, it's less expensive and you'll never lose your children. The first relationship will fall apart as 99% of them do and that will be a significant pain for you. There is no way around it. But once that is over, you are all set. Concentrate on your career and kids through IVF if you choose to have them, but about romantic love from a woman you can pretty much forget. It happens, but to find that you'll have to go through tons of personality disordered which is why we are all here since we said NO to it.

mrmister5417 · 2021-01-13T06:42:07+00:00

It’s easy, get a gf. After that you will agree that women are worthless

baulrog76 · 2021-01-13T00:53:22+00:00

You just got to learn to enjoy this alone time with yourself and realize these women today don't care about nothing but your looks and your money.

It's probably cold and dark out where you live idk but whatever go outside look up and breathe.

That air is the air of freedom learn to love it.

talus_slope · 2021-01-13T01:08:13+00:00

It is very tough for all men, but especially at your age. The hormones are raging and Nature is telling you to reproduce (or at least have sex).

There isn't really a "solution" because it's just the way nature works.

But you can up your game - see the advice in the other responses. And you can remain aware of feminine nature, so you don't get trapped into marriage or a LTR.

glass_tumbler · 2021-01-13T03:17:53+00:00

unfortunately the only thing that made me calm down was turning 30

my twenties were fueled by chasing p sleeve and I wasted a ton of money

I wish I could have channeled that energy into something more productive I'd be a decade closer to retirement

kyledontcare · 2021-01-13T06:58:03+00:00

The grass isn't green on the other side of the fence.

2021-01-13T09:17:04+00:00

Love doesn't exists. It's hypothetical and a product of degenerated Hollywood. So, stop thinking about getting a girlfriend.

liaizon · 2021-01-13T03:49:26+00:00

Love isn't real.

But if you must put your hand in the fire, go right ahead, we can't stop you, just know we won't have sympathy when you get burned, and since you're (somewhat) red pilled, you're going to start seeing different signs and flags as the 'relationship' progresses.

The seed has been planted, and it will not be ignored.

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Legs2big · 2021-01-13T08:12:02+00:00

It’s the hormonal cocktail running through you that does this ✋😂 Nothing out of the ordinary. Perhaps you should give it a go once, at your peril, knowing fully well that women can turn on you at any moment. You get burned, you learn that it is all an illusion: the urge fades.

mohardflip · 2021-01-13T08:33:01+00:00

I never had a good working relationship, i can tell you how i felt: 1. My thoughts were always twisted by her. I spend way to much time thinking about her. It's annoying 2. I always had the fear that she cheat on me or leave me, because that's what usually happen 3. It actually happened, some leaved me, 2 cheated on me. And i'm still kinda virgin 4. after that i always was VERY angry or depressed

Now i'm here hoping to find my own way, Telling you that this love shit ain't worth anything. Sometimes it feels good because somebody care about you. But as soon as they leave it hurts the same amount

My advice: learn how to love yourself, be your best friend You will become confident. And if you're happy with yourself someday, women will come from alone. Wouldn't recommend to go in relationship, but dating and fucking them could also be nice.

OnceAHermit · 2021-01-13T12:06:31+00:00

I was in exactly your situation - desperate to find a girlfriend, felt incomplete without one. Well, I found one alright. Fast forward 20 years and two kids, my life is an empty shell. So my advice would be - careful what you wish for.

9trogenta · 2021-01-13T13:02:30+00:00

My advice is counterintuitive for a MGTOW: Go out and get a girlfriend.

Now, your rational brain can understand what we're talking about on this forum. But the knowledge hasn't got through your whole being. Get a girlfriend. You'll get rejected. You'll get abused. You'll jump hoops for days just so a woman gives you access to her pussy. Then you'll feel for real if it's worth it or not.

Just don't be stupid about it: No cohabitation, no marriage, use protection.

The_Advocate_Devil · 2021-01-13T16:20:03+00:00

They probably don't find you attractive. now with apps and thirsty guys that have the looks, girls can have the cream of the crop.

RangoDj · 2021-01-13T04:47:26+00:00

Be like a temple so that everybody comes to you. Keep yourself busy all the time and this thought will go. Not stopping you from getting a girl but I think most of us know that it's not worth.

BlackPillPusher · 2021-01-13T05:35:03+00:00

Go get one and see for yourself the sorts of "benefits" such an association brings into your being.

markelonn · 2021-01-13T05:57:45+00:00

Talk to girls first and make a friend with no intention of sex or love. Just observe through your friendship, the behaviour of a female - what she does, who she fucks, where does she want to travel, who she bitches about etc and pretty soon you'll find out that modern dating mechanism is broken. Don't do this if you're a simp though, you'll end up getting weaker and more soy.

iwillandican · 2021-01-13T08:49:33+00:00

Watch catch a cheater or cheater lie detector test on YouTube if that doesn't open your eyes you're fucked.

Isshindoutai28 · 2021-01-13T10:25:07+00:00

Tbh thing that stopped me was actually getting one lmao. Truly loved her and was thinking of marriage, got cheated on. That was enough to emotionally sterilise me to the point of not caring anymore

Also what do you get out of a relationship? Sex? Can buy that. What else? Don't fall for the lie of female "love". Women don't love you like you love them and never will. So yeah what do you get out of it?

GoodMan_Gone · 2021-01-13T14:09:04+00:00

"So the problem is I for the love of God can not stop caring about what it's like to get a girlfriend."

In general? It's very nice for the first 3 weeks to 3 months tops. After that she'll get dissatisfied and start to sabotage the whole thing.

"My problem is much worse in that the curiosity of knowing what it's like to experience love is literally killing me."

She can't. Women don't love you as you love them. They love what you can provide for them.

What I'm saying is there is nothing there which is worth for you to, metaphorically speaking, kill yourself over. The "true love" you see in movies/ read in books with women doesn't exist. It's a fairy tale. Harsh words? Perhaps but I don't see any other way to put it. Women rely on men for their survival. They carry the young and the men provide with resources. It's just nature. Now that "caring and providing" instinct is hardwired with men. Female validation is one of the best experiences imaginable. I won't lie over that. My advice is to approach it as a inherited addiction. All substance addicted people will say the same: the rush of getting the substance is great. But you don't need it for your survival. So is female validation. Yes it's a great feeling but it is not necessary for your own well being and survival. You don't need women. They rely on men but are in the delusion they aren't. But that's not our problem.

GamerRabbit6464 · 2021-01-13T17:29:54+00:00

The only way through is exposure. Talk to every girl you like, just as you are. Take them out, have sex with them. Have some relationships. Be careful of course and take precaution against pregnancy and false allegations.

For one thing, it will quench that thirst. For another, you’ll get some experience with women to realize how not worthy pussy is of that pedestal your hormones are putting it on.

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2021-01-13T03:12:29+00:00

I'd advise you to read experiences of other male students on campuses. Title IX is a contract of slavery. Have you read about Paul Ngusser? His girlfriend falsely accused him of raping her, and she received international fame and sympathy, while the guy was branded for life. I'd rather not experience love than destroy my future for a momentary stupidity. I'm not saying that all girls are the same, but there is always a possibility, and rational people never make decisions without taking the risks into account. Think about that.

EpicNotes · 2021-01-13T04:22:06+00:00

Just ask yourself why you're not just approaching a female you like and get her contact. Perhaps you need an experience to break the ice. Ask yourself what you will lose if she wouldn't want a date ? You should be confident and block out any external illusive judgements and just get some experience with women. Just know that women are just temporarily, it'll be your turn. But don't let falling in love delude you. It'll just be your turn bro.

ReyesCTM · 2021-01-13T06:21:42+00:00

Workout? Keep busy by doing some workouts. You’ll be initially busy and could be too tired or exhausted to give a shit.

jhooperp · 2021-01-13T06:37:20+00:00

Dude I guess the old saying is true about people have to experience it instead of listening to the warning. “Don’t touch the stove it’s hot”. The kid touches the stove then learns.

Difference is that the touching the stove will heal fast whereas what a girlfriend will do will take years to get over.

So I need to tell you “Don’t touch the stove!”

But since you will let me try to help: the thing is getting a girlfriend is very easy. The problem you’re having, and most young men and men in general who want a girlfriend, is that you have standards. You don’t want the 4 or 5 you want the 10, the hot sexy one. Thing is they are all the same girlfriend wise.

And since you said it’s not about sex, then try again the dating apps and meet up with a few (make sure you don’t pay and go Dutch). Out of a few there will be at least one who is better than the rest and would be interested and I’d say give her a chance. After the sex and few months you’ll see her real self and that’s when you’ll see what having a girlfriend is really like. And all I can say is that it’ll be the exact same way if she was the hottest girl ever. Girlfriends end up all being the same.

Either way you’ve been warned. “DON’T TOUCH THE STOVE”!

Makonar · 2021-01-13T07:02:17+00:00

It's natural, you are young, your body is still full of energy, hormones and your hormones are telling your brain to search for a mate, that is a natural thing. But you need to realize, these feelings you have that you "need" to get a gf are nothing more than your own biology.
If you have any friends in long time relationships, spends some time with them and observe if they are really happy together. Do your parents hold hands, cuddle constantly, kiss each other and giggle all the time, calling each other sweet names etc? Most likely they are the opposite.
A GF does not automatically mean you are loved. It can be a one way relationship, when you are the provider and she is only using you for your money and a source of food - it's quite common actually these days, so you'd never know if she acts like she loves you or actually does.
Finally, take if from people who have been in long time relationships. There is nothing a long time GF provides that you cannot provide for yourself and with less of an effort or cost. I don't know what you are after, but being in college - you should focus on getting the best education you can, getting a degree, getting into a profitable field of work - that's what you should be doing right now. If you have money, girls will come to you like bees to honey, you need to masturbate more if you get constantly aroused by girls around you and focus on your school - because it's costing you or your parents money to be there. If you have too much free time - just get a job to fill the void - it will give you something else to do, and provide you with a steady income. Also, you sound desperate - that is most likely why girls don't want you, seriously, being unavailable and cold towards them is the best way of getting their attention, so for your own interest - you should stop being interested in them.
Finally, what are your hobbies? What is it that you like to do ? What do you want to achieve? Think about it, and find a way to achieve it. Life is very short, although it may not seem like this right now, but believe me, you'll be 30 in no time at all, and then you should be already making a lot of money and focusing on securing your future... a GF right now, will mostly cost you money and time, both of things that you don't have right now (you should be learning right now and studying like crazy, if you have time, you are either doing a shitty job, or being lazy - get off your but and open some books) so it's no wonder you don't have anything to offer that they require - girlfriends don't like dates at McDonalds and gifts are expensive... believe me.
If you don't want to masturbate - go to the gym, it's the best way to improve your chances of getting laid, nothing drops womens panties like a six pack - so go to the gym, and spend your free time there. After a few hours of treadmill, lifting weights etc, you won't give a rats ass about a gf, and your body will thank you in the future - take if from people who are older than you and wish nothing more that when they were 20, they focused their efforts on getting a job, making money and getting in shape.

six-twosix · 2021-01-13T09:10:05+00:00

There is only one solution... hentai.

In all seriousness though this isn't a chastity sub. You can get a girlfriend if you want, as long as you know the risks go for it and protect yourself. However, everyday it becomes harder for men to prove their innocence so, do keep that in mind.

But seriously... hentai.

JohnnyQuest94 · 2021-01-13T11:46:23+00:00

I just hit this wall, there comes a point where you keep getting played and wake up one day like I’d rather die alone then put up with this BS anymore.

Kihikiki · 2021-01-13T12:01:30+00:00

You can't. There's no shame to want a gf. It's just how it is

Tell_me_to_die · 2021-01-13T12:28:40+00:00

I will be 22 in 6 days and never had a girlfriend either. I have never cried about not having a girlfriend not even once. Just remember, one. This is not the type of thing you can force. Two. Having a stable relationship formed in your 30's is much better than having a toxic relationship in your 20's. Three. YOU REALLY AREN'T MISSING OUT ON ANYTHING SPECIAL (this is coming from the guy who has been living 200 meters away from the courthouse) and four. If it helps, spend time with your mates who are in a relationship and you'll find out that most of them are dissatisfied

Ihatethisshitplanet · 2021-01-13T12:50:08+00:00

Their bodies are first-rate but their minds are low-value.

lenvastra · 2021-01-13T13:33:47+00:00

My recommendation is to enter one and see for yourself. The repercussions on relationships isn't as worse and long term as marriage. As they say "Experience is the best teacher"

2021-01-13T13:39:42+00:00

You can’t, its a biological need for intimacy thats been ingrained into our brains over the course of 1000 years, you cant run or hide from it. It sucks.

rusticoaf · 2021-01-13T14:04:02+00:00

Some people have to touch the stove to believe it's hot. You can learn a lesson or you can be taught a lesson. If the stories in this place don't change the way you look at women and relationships, I have bad news for you.

Chakra_Devourer · 2021-01-13T15:54:56+00:00

It looks like we have a serious case of blue-pillititus. He needs a serious case of a red pill in the form of a suppository. Whatever you do be sure to always remember it's not your girlfriend. At any given moment, your girlfriend can date/fuck other men without consequences. Why don't you try out more escorts if you have money to spare. Soon you'll get tired of it.

Caljerome · 2021-01-13T15:56:31+00:00

I personally think it’s okay to have one, just don’t be taken advantage of.

spacemangoes · 2021-01-13T16:28:04+00:00

Learn some game and approach in real life. Don't use dating apps. You need some first hand experience on how it's like to be with a girl. Only then you'll find the true essence of a man's rational mind. Just a word of advice. Be cautious.

Reddit1984Censorship · 2021-01-13T16:34:50+00:00

Just realize that is not worth it, like for example eating junk food, you might have a hard crave for it but that doesnt mean its worth it or a good thing to do, it will make your life worse guaranteed.

1lust · 2021-01-13T18:33:45+00:00

Post nut clarity is nice. It is going to be hard for a while.

ncrnewbie · 2021-01-13T21:16:42+00:00

Start lifting seriously and eating properly.

For short term dating this will improve your success rate with women

Big_Goosh · 2021-01-13T21:57:38+00:00

Cuddling, making out, sex, and someone to talk to is really all there is to it. It's like being friends but being able to have sex with them.

Those are the pros.

The cons? The effort. The juice ain't worth the squeeze. Relationships can be fun, but the time, effort,, and lack of privacy aren't worth it to me. I've had my fair share of gfs, and I've got a few good friends as well. This might be unique to me, but as an introverted guy I rarely hang out with friends. If I'm with a friend for more than two hours at a time I get really burnt out. I still chat with them every day, but I REALLY value my time and it's hard for me to "sacrifice" my time for somebody else. And pretty much all girls just want to hang out and be around you. Doesn't matter if you're going shopping, out to dinner, or staying in and doing nothing. They really like spending their time with other people.

Relationships don't mesh well with me. Other than that there's also the constant mind games/shit tests. Everything could be going perfectly fine, yet you say one thing that she doesn't like, and instead of her explaining why she's upset she will ignore you and start acting cold; wants you to fix problems that you aren't even aware of. Oh, and the risk of them being unfaithful. Few relationships last, and most of the ones that do, they're not truly happy together.

We do not live in a culture where monogamous relationships can thrive.

Puzzleheaded-Shop-53 · 2021-01-14T08:35:15+00:00

Sure it sounds good but it really aint. With all that lovedovey crap which lasts maybe a month comes the drudgery. They stop smiling, talking, listening and you notice shit that you find grating. Then they start giving you shit about you that they find grating. Then the silence sets in and you see that they are on the phone all the time even in bed. And when you try to initiate something they still staring at the phone screen says "Not today I got a headache/mood/period/tired" some nights with that and it suddenly turns into an argument and she gets all upset and frumpy.

Then suddenly the coming weekend she wants to go out with the girls cause that friend of hers she hasnt seen since college is in town (Her bestie usually). Next day you meet the bartender who is in the same boxing club as you and he informs you that he saw your girlfriend face deep into some guy and just happened to go to the bar toilet at the same time as the guy. And from the moment you notice she is on the phone that little voice in your head screams "I fucking told you she was cheating"

Rexai03 · 2021-01-14T09:53:23+00:00

Interact. More. With. Women. You'll. Get. It. Out. Of. Your. System. And. Be. Wiser. For. It.

Also: Prepare. For. Suffering. :)

greyman0425 · 2021-01-14T15:22:44+00:00

How do you not care, get a girlfriend and marry her. You won't want one again.

The reality of that cliche is true, women are not attracted to you unless you make yourself interesting. You make yourself interesting. Funny thing, by building yourself up you become happy with yourself and your self confidence grows. You won't care if there is a girlfriend or not.

Here comes the irony, once you are happy with yourself, women start sniffing around and wreck that happy life you have built for yourself.

QuickDrawDinoHunter · 2021-01-14T15:29:33+00:00

TURN. OFF. THE. SOCIAL. MEDIA. &. GO. OUTSIDE.

nekomeowster · 2021-01-13T03:03:10+00:00

I had that shortly after I got out of a relationship (tone that didn't go well). I had some less than favorable interactions with girls and I started to ask myself if it was really worth it. I concluded it wasn't.

After that, I became a bit of a weeb and now all I want is my waifu. But that's not for everyone.

Title	How. Do. I. Stop. Caring. About. Getting. A. Girlfriend.
Author	LatterLoss
Upvotes	62
Comments	82
Date	January 13, 2021 12:23 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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