Wife reaching out to my ex GF

LightskinLenny · 2021-02-14T14:21:25+00:00

Never. Major red flag if any woman I'm with reaches out to one of my exes. Your wife clearly has no respect for you, where are your boundaries man? You sound like the "wife" in this situation, she has full power over you. Hit the side bar, focus on some things outside of your wife, disappear for a bit, amused mastery.

Fookin_Crispy · 2021-02-14T15:14:14+00:00

Breh wtf ? She doesn’t wanna have sex ?

When they start weaponizing sex is when it’s time to make your exit. It’s over

adam-l · 2021-02-14T15:10:52+00:00

Got any kids?

If no, maybe this is your chance (edit for clarity: to bail!)

Hellsteelz · 2021-02-14T15:57:28+00:00

That's weird behaviour from the wife. You should fuck her ex to show dominance.

Don_Draper27 · 2021-02-14T16:09:25+00:00

She might be getting to the point where she's more amused belittling you than enjoying you as her husband. So maybe reaching out to the ex to gossip and find new things to castrate you with.

voluntarygang · 2021-02-14T16:26:35+00:00

She is searching for more evidence material against you why you wanting sex is the problem and not her not wanting it so when you again fight about it she can go "..no wonder your ex thinks this and that of you and is now happier". She will then try to portray herself as the bigger person and also higher value i.e. she's is willing to put up with you and your problem. She will act like you don't have other options because if you leave you are the toxic bad guy no other woman will want.

Anyway even if I'm wrong I really can't see how this can be anything good for you since it's not a step in the direction of fixing the problem of her refusing sex.

boardrider73 · 2021-02-14T17:06:57+00:00

As someone divorced, and who has seen a lot of failed marriages, let me tell you..your marriage is in trouble man!

rawed_steel · 2021-02-14T18:50:53+00:00

Any way indicating that sex is transactional or that she can just withdraw sex to punish you is a major Soviet army red flag in a relationship. Instant next in my book. Or just go and fuck other women while she cooks dinner and watches TV

VasiliyZaitzev · 2021-02-14T15:18:34+00:00

You need to turn this into a three-way

RStonePT · 2021-02-14T18:40:58+00:00

theres a 100 things leading up to this moment. if you can't pick out where the errors were in them an answer to this question won't help you

TravisScottNL · 2021-02-14T18:06:29+00:00

Major red flag , hard next.

- Disrespect & Manipulation

Edit: Oh wait you're married. Lmao , rip

redvelvet_oreo · 2021-02-14T17:03:54+00:00

Withdraw attention.

Dread game.

Only options here.

It would be helpful to know why you think she shit tested you in the first place. Maybe you haven’t been playing your cards right ?

Maybe you have shown too little attention to her. You’re married remember being too Alpha will deteriorate your relationship.

No way to know what you did to make you go wrong.

Not enough information here.

2021-02-14T14:14:31+00:00

She's manipulating you. Tell her you'll contact her ex too. See how she takes.

You need stronger frame, how long have you been married? If you go to the main red pill sub there's a wealth of info there on how to game in marriage etc.

SeasonedRP · 2021-02-14T20:40:52+00:00

That's a new one to me. I'm wondering if she is planning something legally and is going to tell a story and looking for backup, to show you have a pattern of acting a certain way. I'd be very cautious here.

StackRedemption · 2021-02-14T21:40:42+00:00

You are very savvy to have noticed such a thing and taken steps to enquire about it. Generally speaking, it is a very bad thing. There could be no good outcome from this because your wife has no reason to contact your ex. If she does, then she is trying to get some dirt on you which she will later on use against you.

r3art · 2021-02-14T17:53:56+00:00

This HAS to be a troll post, right? It just has to be. I can't believe it.

4Y4ChctXyXwX5AVwNMk9 · 2021-02-14T19:11:40+00:00

"Wife"

You already failed, brother.

saiyantmr · 2021-02-14T22:16:45+00:00

DS_1900 · 2021-02-15T15:45:43+00:00

Vet the next one better

Title	Wife reaching out to my ex GF
Author	RedCoquette
Upvotes	10
Comments	38
Date	February 14, 2021 2:08 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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