This guy is too afraid to ask

Zealousideal_Solid57 · 2021-02-24T16:56:11+00:00

jesus what kind of father raised a man like this my guess is an absent one

FairlyWhelmed · 2021-02-24T16:55:53+00:00

she says it doesn't mean anything. she insists that it's something she will not stop doing regardless of how I feel about it.

Uh huh.

How does he believe anything she says, then?

If he were to behave similarly then she would call it "cruel" or "abusive", I'm sure.

CoinSwapTrader · 2021-02-24T16:56:19+00:00

women always keep a male friend on the side to keep the husband mule in check

antiSJW_Mongoose · 2021-02-24T17:23:45+00:00

dude needs to bounce.... like YESTERDAY.

Dadeh · 2021-02-24T17:36:52+00:00

A form of shit testing and a definite sign that he needs to get his paperwork in order for the oncoming divorce. No self-respecting man would put up with this and you can tell by her lack of respect that he lost his spine a long time ago.

Any of us can see the writing on the wall here when it comes to this monkey branching harpy. I'm sure some of us have been put through similar shit test in the bluest of our days. If he's below the 10 year life-time alimony payment threshold, he needs to file ASAP.

As mentioned before this is a man that probably didn't have a real father figure in his life and unfortunately it's all too common nowadays for boys to be raised by single mothers. They come in unprepared and are conditioned to project/emulate the emotional engagements that he learned from watching his mother - not knowing that the game is different for men/boys. They are set up to fail at this point and it's like walking into the lions den with a steak covered suit expecting not to get devoured. It's a fools game and an all too common one.

Hopefully he follows his gut for the first time in a long time, seeks out some solutions, and finds his way here to have his stomach turned over and detach from the blue pill world.

rayedward363 · 2021-02-24T20:08:52+00:00

A week later you'll see, "My wife has sex with her male best friend every night. She says it doesn't mean anything. I told her I'm not comfortable with it but she told me that she won't stop. Should I feel bad about being not okay with it?"

alienmuseum · 2021-02-24T18:04:41+00:00

Him: My wife!

Her Best Friend: Our wife.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2021-02-24T17:46:36+00:00

Jesus, what has happened to guys these days.

kashmokash · 2021-02-24T18:46:26+00:00

Iis, is he married to me ex? Lol. I dropped her so fast after she pulled this with me. Took a few weeks of suicide threats but finally got free.

These women can make you feel very bad about yourself, attack your self esteem, your start doubting your entire worldview. I've had 3 extreme low points in life, all courtesy of women, starting with my mother.

rebuildingMyself · 2021-02-24T19:00:15+00:00

she will not stop doing regardless of how I feel about it

That's marriage for you. The husband has zero leverage because to walk away means he suffers, not her. She's basically just doing whatever she wants with no restraint, which is act like a whore. No doubt she pulled similar shit before marriage and since the guy didn't walk away then she knew she had him by the balls.

Walespro · 2021-02-24T18:15:24+00:00

hehehehe somebody is a cuck hehehehe

2021-02-24T18:48:31+00:00

Imagine being this cucked

In egypt the guy would probably track down whoever's texting his harm him

Red_Liner740 · 2021-02-24T17:57:25+00:00

“It doesn’t mean anything...but fuck you for trying to make me stop by telling me it hurts your feelings. Fuck your feelings!!”

There would be outline of me am immediately after that sentence. Just wind noise as I burn rubber and screech my ass out of that place.

Maybe your best friend can help you pay for the bills too. Tell him I love him for me. Cunt

cjohn3b · 2021-02-24T20:59:41+00:00

I just feel sad for him. The programming runs deep

mgtowthroww · 2021-02-24T22:55:58+00:00

When a man has no say/rights in a relationship, this is what happens.

100 years ago, a man could slap the woman.

Now, a woman can slap a man, accuse him of rape, and still walk away with 50% of his assets, his kids, his home. This is what happened to me.

Mind-Front · 2021-02-24T18:28:17+00:00

The feminine betrayals almost always begins by the feeling like something "without wickedness" and not for the carnal desire, which is for them complement and not the central ingredient of love. For this reason, it is very easy for them to defend themselves when we caught them in suspicious behavior saying things like, “You are evil, evil only exists in your head”, etc. They usually camouflage their affairs or flirtations in friendships and even unite both, which is why we should be alert and distrustful of courtesies, admirations, cares and attentions that they give to certain men that they choose.

Glittering-Meat3088 · 2021-02-24T20:54:41+00:00

He's in for some hard times.

Miserable-Lemon · 2021-02-24T23:52:57+00:00

That guy was raised by a single mom, 100% guaranteed

realChebz · 2021-02-24T20:53:59+00:00

If you have to ask reddit...

vivab0rg · 2021-02-24T22:06:10+00:00

When you're a Cuck and you don't even know it.

EjakeJ · 2021-02-24T23:35:39+00:00

It’s fine he’s just being jealous, the other dude has the best intentions

2021-02-25T00:04:35+00:00

What a bitch, not the woman - him. Well her too, but more him.

Whirly-Curd · 2021-02-25T10:20:41+00:00

If she doesn't need to respect your boundaries, you're under no obligation to respect hers. Start a close relationship with a female colleague with "I love you" and heart emojis. I'm sure she'll be fine with it.

1Joker10 · 2021-02-24T21:02:12+00:00

Thanks God I'm MGTOW pumb and dumb, I will never put myself in this bs and I will never go to this road.

SlainFunicle · 2021-02-24T23:28:34+00:00

I wonder what advice they give him lol.

Aussie_Chart_Trader · 2021-02-24T23:49:05+00:00

Cuckholdry is a sin.

Thinkingman21 · 2021-02-25T03:06:32+00:00

My thought when I read this;

"Oh, so you don't take it in the ass already from your wives boyfriend?"

alienninja1 · 2021-02-25T03:07:43+00:00

Wow.. sorry but she's screwing him and probably others. Been cheated on in a 15 year marriage. NEVER had obviously signs like that! Holy smokes!! She thinks so little of you she's doing in front of you. Didn't want to believe it. Thought she would never. Time to get out. She doesn't love you. Take her to court if she demands alimony. She's using you 💯 %

Get a good lawyer. She will try to take everything

TheRiseAndFall · 2021-02-25T04:54:09+00:00

He's just being insecure. I've been banging my female best friend for years and her husband is totally cool with it. I have no intention to steal her away. We're just friends!

WentHisOwnWay · 2021-02-25T06:23:16+00:00

Cuckeeeedddd

justadude713 · 2021-02-25T06:27:30+00:00

what i'm wondering is, how is it that her best friend is ok with it??? one of my best friends happens to be female, but never did she ever text me "goodnight, i love you" with heart emojis ... just in typing that out for this post, the thought of it alone is making my face go beet red out of embarrassment. i swear to god if she ever did that shit my immediate reply would be "are you high?"

beardedbliss · 2021-02-25T12:23:45+00:00

Uuuhhhh...you guys want to tell him that isn't a "Best Friend" and that she is cucking him, or should I?

stevey1912 · 2021-02-25T13:43:26+00:00

100% she is shagging the "friend"

Ok-Wolverine-6660 · 2021-02-25T14:47:17+00:00

He fucked!

drmangrum · 2021-02-25T15:38:33+00:00

Start texting a female friend the same thing and watch her attitude change.

IceyBear988 · 2021-02-26T01:26:10+00:00

Wife and too afraid to ask. Well he's brave enough to get married and yet lack the courage to do so it's disturbing. Can't blame all on him, it was the social norm that made "marriage" okay and calling out "bullshit" not okay.

Title	This guy is too afraid to ask
Author	Marfi09
Upvotes	261
Comments	53
Date	February 24, 2021 4:49 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/lrhc32/this_guy_is_too_afraid_to_ask/
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