Am I the only one who thinks some of you are just as bad as the women you call out?

Thats_arguable · 2021-03-03T16:30:38+00:00

From a moral viewpoint, you are correct. But most people here have abandoned their morality for better or worse.

phisch13 · 2021-03-03T16:38:19+00:00

Anyone who follows every rp principle to a T is going to die miserable, unhappy, and alone. This is because like almost everything in life, there are no absolutes.

Most of the principles are guidelines, not rules. The more you follow them and act regarding them, the more you realize which work for you and which need to be tweaked.

A lot of people post some really stupid questions here. Worst of all, if somebody else asked it, they’d view it clearly and know the answer because 99% of this crap is common sense. They get too blinded by their own situations to realize they’re doing something stupid.

BlondeHornyElf · 2021-03-03T16:45:05+00:00

i used to think like you, but after being cheated on and fucked over enough times, i've become cautious in dealing with people as a matter of survival. and no i'm not talking about gutter sluts, i'm talking about "educated" professionals and socially mobile women (and people in general) who can turn on you if it's a better deal for them or if you hit a roadblock in life as a man.

on Monday you will literally be her whole world and she's having dreams of the future, and then on Wednesday she's plotting against you with her girlfriends and orbiters.

and when women turn on you, they wont care if you fucking dropped dead... even if all you did was call them out on shit or were having problems in the relationship... there is no justice when dealing with the majority of women, and i don't care that you still believe in unicorns.

so ya... treat women well and don't have ridiculous expectations, but only overlook red flags and shady behavior at your own discretion.

BarcaLiverpool · 2021-03-03T16:37:51+00:00

You’re not the only one that thinks like this.

Unfortunately a lot of people here have never experienced being loved by someone other than their mother, some not even by their mother (that’s too bad)

They create this inaccurate view of woman and the world and this influences what they decide to believe in. I’ve noticed a lot of people here have anger towards woman. Either because they feel they’ve been wronged by them and or have never felt reciprocated love from them.

Practice TRP principles but take everything you see here lightly.

A lot of people here will never find what they’re looking for with their negative view of the world

PippiDeLena · 2021-03-03T17:07:53+00:00

Why? Because some of you are expecting this perfect person to come in and never annoy you or displease you, fuck you like a god, bend to your every whim and just generally be a "green flag

Yes. And if they don't like it they can leave.

usr000nm · 2021-03-03T17:08:12+00:00

Maybe you are in the wrong sub? You said the guys are going to end up single, but they are trying to get as many lays as possible and not officially commit - they want to be single, not in a monogamous relationship. It's easier to get more sex that way, and if sex makes you happy...

akihonj · 2021-03-03T16:46:46+00:00

First you actually don't have a point other than to say to everyone, hey I'm red pilled but also blue pilled as fuck.

Listen dude nobody cares, the red pill with regards to relationships isn't to get the best woman and lock her down, it's to play the game and not get caught with skanky Julie when you should be banging hot sweet Melissa, what you do after that is down to you.

To do it for as long as possible before you grow the hell up and take responsibility for your life and decide what you actually want to do with it. While at the same time not getting caught for somebody else's kids, and not picking up some STI that's going to rot your dick.

The red pill with regards to relationships came about because of the dual mating strategy of women, it's a reaction an effect in response to a cause.

Men use it because they find it works or have no choice because of the way relationships are and the way women behave today, stop their behaviour and red pill vanishes. As simple as that.

So in truth then most men have to radically change themselves, their looks, body and mindset to even get a date today let alone get laid, a large portion of them actually don't like the games and would be much happier not having to play them but we are where we are and as men we have to either play the game or see the futility of it and walk away.

Regardless of that it doesn't mean we don't want things, nor does it mean that we are finger pointing simply because we are finger pointing, it's happening with the implied knowledge that if one side didn't create the cause the other side wouldn't have the effect.

BPasFuck · 2021-03-03T16:48:51+00:00

Some of the responses have already said or echoed this, but I'm going to put a big underlining mark on it:

Not all advice, and not all posters here are equal. And if some advice here smells bad to you, maybe it's because it IS bad.

There's no curation here-- not really. Any old troll and asshole can post whatever they like, and I've seen some ridiculous shit get upvotes, because people stupid.

It's on the reader to be able to critically consider and apply what they're taking in around here.

That said-- I personally give a lot of advice on the basis of the person asking. If a guy is that hung up and insecure about his girl's texting, he might as well dump her and keep it moving.

Why? Not because she's a mess-- but because HE is a mess.

And he's not going to be able to get over his insecurity with this chick. Nope. He needs to date some more girls and get a real idea of what's reasonable and what's unreasonable.

I and others can tell him until we're blue in the face-- giving nuanced advice, and watch retards get retarded every time. Skip it.

You seem to have a decent handle on this shit. I invite you to spend some time giving your best advice to the posters here at AskTRP and see how you feel after 3-6 months.

The best advice is never about the woman. It's about the man-- and correcting for the bullshit in his head and his behavior.

UEMcGill · 2021-03-03T17:17:24+00:00

What the fuck? Am I the only one who thinks this is one big fucking concern troll?

Rule zero, and fuck off.

TheDeadlyZebra · 2021-03-03T17:32:05+00:00

Most men that frequent TRP aren't looking for a monogamous solution to their problems.

Regarding your double-standards complaint: yes, there are different standards that I apply to myself and to women. You can choose to seek "equality" but personally, and TRP users would agree with this: you should be the "King" of your relationships.

To me, it sounds like you simply have low standards and/or you're focusing too much on pursuing marriage. You're kind of projecting this onto the community like we all want the same thing from women when we don't.

About your example from some guy breaking up with his LTR over innocent texts, I'd like to see a link to the original post.

SenorTonto · 2021-03-03T17:48:19+00:00

Guys need to assess each woman and situation uniquely. A lot of questions on here seek answers to situations that we arent observing and with that comes difficulty in offerring any sort of solution or solid advice. That is why guys should play the field and interact with a lot of people in general to develop common sense within the social realm so that they themselves can determine what actions they need to take.

The guys that Op is referring to are men who have no value system thus they adopt the Trp ideology rigidly.

OneTrueQ · 2021-03-03T16:46:23+00:00

I agree 100% that someone who does everything this sub says is wrong. However in terms of me I am a high-empathy guy to a fault so I engage with this sub and overall redpill stuff that encourages less empathy so I can operate better in sexual relationship dynamics. You gotta figure out what you can take from this red pill shit. People on the sub call people weak bitch and beta cuck because they are supposed to. Cuz we gotta sack up and nobody else is gotta encourage us to do so like we will here.

tiverma · 2021-03-03T16:56:54+00:00

Yeah a lot of people are too quick to next. Nothing wrong with keeping people around but just in a reduced capacity. I wouldn't worry too much OP

Usmc5523 · 2021-03-03T16:43:49+00:00

There’s always going to be people who take whatever they believe in too seriously and become fanatical about it. You can say this regarding basically any group of people and it will be applicable. I personally don’t notice an excess of ridiculous comments that I wouldn’t see on any other subreddit about whatever that sub may be pertaining to. It can be annoying to read ridiculous comments made by uninformed people who sound ridiculous but you’re going to be doing that on any sub you go to because a lot of people in general are ignorant. I do want to address what you said about having high expectations of a woman. There is a difference between a very high value man that is following the red pill having very high expectations of a potential LTR/ girlfriend/wife, than some thot that isn’t doing anything with her life and is not bringing anything to the table expecting to be able to lock up a mega chad. I don’t have a problem with a high value woman expecting a high value man. It is just generally the women that think this way are not high enough value to be asking for these things.

pyth0ns · 2021-03-03T17:06:34+00:00

The current issue with this forum is that of those commenting/offering advice/claiming to be RP Gods (case in point with your post example) have not even glanced at the sidebar, let alone read it.

Have not understood the sidebar, let alone asked questions about it in terms of what does this mean and that (like a good student would at University/taking courses)

Have not lived a minimal of 2 years of the way of RP (where you’ll go through all your phases, grow as an individual and further understand not only RP, but life in general)

So case in point... If the question asked and advice being given seems ludicrous (which the majority has become) - the above mentioned are the reasons why...

You, however, should be smart enough to know who is a nincompoop and who/what is actually sound advice.

Edit add: There is also nothing wrong with being single and alone, through your own choices... That’s your brainwashing talking that YOU MUST find a partner to ‘settle’ with.

RisingTigre · 2021-03-03T17:17:22+00:00

Imagine trying to preserve a relationship instead of your own mental and emotional health. “Red Pilled” my ass

PopePalpatineTheWise · 2021-03-03T17:27:57+00:00

You say "single and alone" as if it's a bad thing.

PopePalpatineTheWise · 2021-03-03T17:28:33+00:00

Also this is breaking asktrp rules. This should be posted on the TheRedPill sub

Mustbeaight · 2021-03-03T17:41:20+00:00

When did this sub turn into FDS? This is asktrp not moan about Trp.. get lost ..trying to be a good person and do “the right thing” has never worked with women so they adapted.. if you don’t have something to ask to Trp ... SHUT THE FUCK UP

AlphaletePornstar · 2021-03-03T16:56:52+00:00

That’s the dark side of trp- it’s mostly a bunch of mentally ill incels who are able and even have the motivation to put sexual strategy into words and dish out advice, which is usually highly unempathatic / low EQ advice (which is ironically why they are or were incels in the first place) that aligns with the trp values. If they tackled the core issue of their EQ/empathy then they would solve a lot of their social problems.

I know this from experience. Was a low EQ TRPer for a while and met a few people irl exactly like me who were closet TRPers as well. We all had initial success until people catch on and/or we sabotage ourselves. Literally the main issue with this forum is ignoring the important on EQ/Empathy. It’s probably why we have such a shit reputation

Parkin_Wafer · 2021-03-03T17:35:33+00:00

You are brave for posting this. I was thinking this too. TRP is turning into this ugly thing. It was originally about breaking the norm to create an ideal life but now it’s filled with resentful arrogant men who want others to be miserable.

Nighthawk_Black_ · 2021-03-03T16:48:49+00:00

It's been said before but this sub is full of butt hurt autists.

z2a1-9 · 2021-03-03T17:01:11+00:00

I see it as a tool box and use it as needed. Simple, nothing more nothing less. Don't be retards, and get yours broskys.

catsdontsmile · 2021-03-03T17:01:42+00:00

There are a lot of keyboard warriors here who seem to be high on the autistic spectrum, but also people with useful feedback. You just gotta know who to read.

SublimePimp · 2021-03-03T16:25:37+00:00

shut the fuck up, meat curtain

PhaedrusHunt · 2021-03-03T17:51:38+00:00

This is the most beta cuck post ever bro.

Lol. You make good points. At the end of the day TRP is just an idea

JayDMoos · 2021-03-03T16:34:06+00:00

Do you sincerely think that men and women should be texting alone by themselves and that that tends to lend itself to the best outcomes?

Pepsterreddit · 2021-03-03T16:55:51+00:00

“Incel” is a term for people who can’t get any and are so pathetic they call themselves “victims” and “incels”. I feel some serious second hand embarrassment for these so-called “incels”. Incels come across as extremely sex-obsessed and off balance mentally. I think the whole “incel” thing is just a symptom of a deeper, underlying mental illness/instability.

InevitableWasabi69 · 2021-03-03T16:57:14+00:00

It’s one instance dude don’t paint everyone here with the same brush just cause of one bad apple.

Jason_Knight1991 · 2021-03-03T17:21:53+00:00

I once heard it explained as a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you go in assuming every woman is going to cheat, that's how you're going to treat them. As the Red Pill states, women are receptive to your emotions. If you treat everything here as an absolute rule then women will get the hint, and they're going to act the way you expect them to.

Try a little optimism, and bring a woman into a more traditional worldview. You might be surprised.

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