Random post but here goes:

From an evolutionary standpoint, people will always be physically and or emotionally attracted to others, even when they are in a happy committed relationship.

Some me. deem their partners as jealous/controlling/insecure, when they express their discomfort at staring or complementing others in an almost sexual nature, for example, “They’re soooo hot/sexy/gorgeous.”

And a lot of woman who will point out attractive women to their partners in public or even happily acknowledge their crushes on others because they feel secure in their relationship and are certain that their partners won’t cheat. Of course, there are many men that appreciate this attitude.

Do you feel as if this is a healthy normal part of relationship, or is this a ploy to continue the objectification of women? What would a HVM/HVW do in this scenario?