Why is virginity so important anyway?

lurkerhasarisen · 2021-05-10T20:44:15+00:00

I've said this before: the problem a lot of women have after having ridden the carousel is that she creates an ideal man in her mind that no flesh-and-blood man can match. He'll be a romanticized amalgamation of the most desirable traits from all of those men. As rich as the richest guy, as funny as the funniest guy, as driven as the hardest-charging guy, as attentive as the guy who made the grandest gestures, as exciting as the most impulsive guy, and as steady as the most serious guy.

The fact that no one man can be all of those is of little significance... indeed, the fact that some of those traits directly contradict each other is of little consequence. Why? Because feminism is based on the idea that whatever a woman perceives to be in her immediate interest is all that matters. We see it in the demand to be simultaneously treated like an equal and treated like a lady. Insisting on the right to vote but without the obligations of military service or even taxation is a macro example.

At the micro level, a woman who has extensive experience (especially intimate experience) with many men will find herself unable to be content with any one man. It's not because any one man is inadequate, or that men are intimidated by "strong" women... it's that trying to please such a woman is a fool's errand. The "man" he's competing against isn't even real. Hes a mind-reading, idealized, ever-changing-but-never-aging mishmash of the best traits of every man she's ever been with.

Nobody tells women that they need to be the best at everything to be worthy of a man. In fact, women are generally told that all they need is a pulse. If that were not true we wouldn't see so many average and below-average women convinced that they deserve men with traits that only a tiny subset of men possess. If you look at the list of requirements women routinely put in their dating profiles, it's not at all unusual to see them eliminate upwards of 99% of men, with some profiles eliminating literally every man on Earth.

It's the paradox of choice: endless options and extensive sexual experience makes them miserable.

Temur-Temujin · 2021-05-10T20:19:54+00:00

As Patrice O'Neal used to say, men and women deal with 2 different kinds of rejection. Men get rejected on the front end and women get rejected at the back end. Meaning, if a guy goes up to 30 women and none of them agree to "go on a date/have sex" with him, that's front end rejection. For the average woman, getting a date or finding sex is trivially easy. What's difficult for them is to keep a man around and extract resources through commitment. So if a woman dates 30 men and there is a breakup, regardless of who initiates it, that's an example of a woman getting rejected at the back end, and the implications are endless. Even if 30 men were all bad, abusive, that still shows bad judgement on her part. Well if the 30 men were all solid dudes all around, that just makes it even worse.

Not to mention, another comedian Chris Rock used to say, women can't go back in lifestyle. If one man in her life, took her to vacations, had his own place, had a car etc or even one of those, she'll find it nearly impossible to go back to dudes who have less, or if she does, the next guy won't be able to get the same enthusiasm, submissiveness, cooperativeness out of her. Add to this the fact, that women get emotionally traumatized easier, the odds of which only increases by dating and exposing herself to more men. Fact of the matter is, with women's hypergamous nature, it'll be increasingly impossible to please her and she'll be unhappier, that's without mentioning the potential of her becoming alpha-widowed.

All those factors being added up, it'd be best if a woman stayed virgin and bargained it into marriage by demanding huge upfront commitment like large wedding and an expensive ring to filter out the sleazy fake losers. Conversely a man would also get a solid deal by getting together with a virgin woman. She'd have no previous partners to compare her current man, they'd explore all kinds of sexual positions, life experiences together for the first time with wonder in their eyes, instead of the non-virgin woman being unimpressed with a resting bitch face aura on her, because she'd have experienced better days in the past with other men

Right_Hand_Of_Kurze · 2021-05-13T03:01:58+00:00

Had to explain this to a very nasty bitter 32 year old. Squaking about why do Muslims make such a 'big deal about virgins. (She took it upon herself to look stuff up and get angry) Told her...it's not just Muslims and it isn't even necessarily about virginity...except that lack there of is a decent indicator of some very big problems that may be there...where as virginity shows a better chance of a successful match and lack of problems that many women with lots of negative experiences are likely to drag into a marriage or relationship.

sisima_sharazd · 2021-05-10T21:36:40+00:00

I am a lesbian and i feel the same way.

why would I pay (engagement rings, gifts trips,...) and commit for a vagina she gave it fir to someone else

Devilsgun · 2021-05-15T20:37:50+00:00

Women that fuck a lot of dudes end up seeking a Perfect Chad that's her own special 'composite' of the good qualities of her fuckherd without any of the bad ones, and she will never really settle for less than Him after years of having a small taste of Him from each fuck toy boy.

Gaiinahat · 2021-05-10T23:09:51+00:00

"Dad, what's a woman's virginity?"

I dunno, son. Never heard of it...

Ok-Adeptness4906 · 2021-05-11T17:32:14+00:00

I knew a woman who had an intact hymen after having a baby.

PrincessaRusalka · 2021-07-04T20:38:02+00:00

Virgin, my friends are aghast I did not ride the carousel! 😱

flowerwoven · 2021-05-14T23:50:06+00:00

Virginity is so simple it's disturbing that there is anyone out there who can't understand it. When you are in love with someone you don't want them to have had sex with other people. When you love someone you would never do that to them. You would only have sex with them. If you do it before you meet you already ruined your ability to truly love them.

2021-06-24T07:16:00+00:00

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Why is virginity so important anyway?

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