This is to all my FDS ladies who are intelligent and work hard to get this fcking far and have to dumb down to find a person on the same level as you.

I love intelligent discussions and debating and these are some observations I have made: This stands for academic, philosophical, political, personal and everyday life stuff.

Avoid like the plague (maybe, Corona virus rn)

A Scrote who is

  1. intimated by a women when she knows more.

Will try to sabotage your freedom and chances of success - Retort to you are too good for me Or bring down your confidence, self-esteem horribly. He'll drag you down.

2.Refuses to acknowledge the other side of the argument. Some LVM assume authority by age or position.

This kind of person has a one track mind and will start negging if you ever fail in your approach.

They are supremely toxic to your growth. It's always okay to be wrong and learn but not okay to be disparage and infer superiority over someone through their low point.

At this point, if you have to deal with them, do not open your future plans and try to stay low key. Do not debate or have an emotional reaction to it. It is not personal. Do not chose them as mentors, ever.

4.Afraid to admit he doesn't know.

Super insecure. Fixed mindset. Won't ever level up. Generally either inflated sense of self-worth or needs therapy. You'll be too good for them and they don't want to ruin their facade of being worth your time. Generally liars.

5.Starts shouting/hurling personal abuse/lying/swearing at the first sight of being stood up against.
Can't take a no. Very abusive. Never engage in any sort of contact or even negative attention. "If a scrote raises his voice. He'll surely raise his hand."

Other side: Look for these.

I have a few good men as friends 1.who are ready to take your counsel. 2. will update you if they don't know - (updation really means they thought about the discussion and they remember, they put effort into it). 3.Will correct you in a way that feels uplifting and will ask for your opinion. 4. Won't ever say that you are 100% wrong. They drive you to the newer conclusion and not disparage you. Inorder to get an upper hand. 5. Listen to you attentively and then explain their points. 6. Do not wait to have the last laugh in the argument. 7.Do not make it personal, hold a grudge against, pull it out in the future. 8. Never raise their voices in an argument even when you are raging like crazy. (Yes, I have a lot of pent up rage since fifth grade. 🤣)

Never be afraid to be smarter than a man and try to hide it. Be upfront and don't try to avoid conflict when they arise, it'll help you in vetting. Always know when to engage and when to stay silent and plan an escape.

What do you think, Ladies? Your observations and opinions?