Has any of you bisexual ladies been told by a LWM that you are a lesbian if you don't enjoy bad PIV or don't orgasm from PIV at all?

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-04-06T15:05:45+00:00

Men who are terrible at sex and refuse to put in effort will often say dumb shit like this.

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2021-04-06T15:10:01+00:00

Men like that are a dime a dozen. They also are the ones who like to daydream and yank it to the fantasy of turning a lesbian straight. "You're just a lesbian because you haven't found the right man" and all that jazz.

Yeah. Better to not let the cat out of the bag, at least not until you know he's a good egg or not (which should take you a looooong time).

XASTA123 · 2021-04-06T15:56:45+00:00

lesbians can orgasm from penetrative sex?? duh???
I blame porn that shows women moaning like crazy when a guy so much as puts his hand on her arm

2021-04-06T17:28:07+00:00

No, but my incredibly LVX suggested we go to a party and find a drunk girl to have a threesome with. At the time (I was a teen) I just felt off about it because I didn't want my first sexual experience with a woman to be in a threesome. I only later realised he was also basically suggesting sexual assault. Hetero LVM really think that because you're attracted to women that you're also misogynistic like they are. Literally never reveal your bisexuality to men lol.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-04-06T15:47:14+00:00

I have been told this lol. They are so used to us lying to them that if we tell them the truth they really wouldn’t believe it

Platipus6 · 2021-04-06T23:43:03+00:00

I've seen apex redditors boldly claim that if a woman doesn't orgasm from piv, she's broken, and receiving oral is just a fetish.

2021-04-06T17:03:52+00:00

luckily, no. however, there absolutely has been the asking for threesomes bullshit. or they thought it's fine to point out hot ladies because I tHoUgHt YoU'd LiKe It.

2021-04-06T19:58:41+00:00

Found out that my NVX describes any bisexual ex as "a lesbian" and says this to other women rather than admit he dated (and cheated on) them, or uses it as an excuse for his cheating. "Boo hoo she was a lesbian, I was neglected".

Men don't need to know you're bisexual, they'll either try to pressure you into threesomes or use it as a weapon when they cheat.

the-worst- · 2021-04-06T19:44:04+00:00

My husband has accused me of wanting to be a "butch lesbian" because I actually express my thoughts and opinions and he feels I'm trying to take his place as the head of household.

He also gets frustrated if he wakes me up from dead sleep to have sex and I don't orgasm without any forplay or anything.

emziewemziee · 2021-04-06T18:55:44+00:00

i get that for just rejecting men

rereddit852 · 2021-04-06T15:21:11+00:00

Some guys have small dicks which they can’t help.

Others knowingly are bad or are just use to a woman pleasing them.

I personally have better odds when it’s a exclusive committed relationship. I don’t fake an orgasm so a hvm is likely to want to see me have pleasure. He will feel insecure without my sexual approval, because my opinion matters to him.

But I don’t directly say anything. You won’t get what you want that way.

LadyLevelUp · 2021-04-08T01:38:35+00:00

I said this about myself when I was having panic attacks during sex. 🙄

Title	Has any of you bisexual ladies been told by a LWM that you are a lesbian if you don't enjoy bad PIV or don't orgasm from PIV at all?
Author	vcheche
Upvotes	105
Comments	15
Date	April 6, 2021 9:55 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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