I have no desire to act on my attraction to girls anymore.

mr_pro_con · 2021-04-03T18:20:26+00:00

Same. They can be quite attractive but their worst instincts are encouraged everywhere in western culture. They just look like a lot of work for very little reward.

m8Nhm93WMGwC · 2021-04-03T20:27:29+00:00

When I see a nice girl I actually see her whole team- three cops, two lawyers and a judge.

No, thanks, nice girl.

free_mind_free_life · 2021-04-03T20:34:53+00:00

Yep, their behaviour has made me uninterested towards them. After 15 years of pursuing what should come natural, my enthusiasm has disappeared.

I used to have a female friend who kept saying "You just gotta keep trying! Try harder! Some girl will like you eventually!"
And I asked her: "You quit your study after you kept failing re-exams, didn't you?"
Her answer: "Yes, but..."
I: "Why did that make you quit?"
Her answer: "Because I couldn't win, and it made me feel depressed. I was better off spending my time on different things."
I: "Exactly. Now change 'study' with 'women'."

BobbingForBunions · 2021-04-03T23:51:12+00:00

When I see a girl I find attractive, is not really feel the need to talk to her and get to know her because I know that apart from how she looks, there really isnt much else that's beautiful about her.

Take the next step.

Recognize that a girl's beauty is largely manufactured. Makeup, hair color, breast implants (or push-up bras), etc. You get the picture.

There are few naturally-beautiful women out there. They exist. But they're rare.

So now that we've essentially removed a girl's beauty, what else does she offer?

Principles? Unlikely.

Intelligent conversation? Unlikely.

Wealth? Unlikely.

Domestic talent (cooking, cleaning, etc.)? Unlikely.

Loyalty and fidelity? Unlikely.

We've oddly sexualized the button-tipped bags of fat and tissue that hang off the front of the female body. And we treat the vagina as if it's the endgame. So we pursue women.

But post-nut clarity reveals the truth. The pursuit isn't worthwhile.

Pass on socializing with girls. If you need to nut, get an escort, a Fleshlight, or some Astroglide.

Glittering-Meat3088 · 2021-04-03T20:35:39+00:00

Sexbots are the future.

Unshack · 2021-04-03T23:48:16+00:00

I have the desire, but then I remember that its gonna cost a fortune and I'll be stuck with her at some point when I want to leave and cant. Then i nut in a paper towel and wonder WTF was I thinking and go back to developing my apps.

_Fireside_ · 2021-04-03T18:39:10+00:00

Self control is important.

polemicist1 · 2021-04-03T19:53:15+00:00

Congratulations. You'll save yourself a lot of trouble.

SilentMayority · 2021-04-03T20:15:34+00:00

being sexually attracted to women is ok and completely natural, thanks to our frontal lobe we can control our urges and understand why they happen.

with that being said I think we should aspire to experience the emotions and know why they happen like monks do, I don't think mentally castrating yourself is the way to go if you want to keep normal testosterone levels

RedditSucksss1 · 2021-04-03T23:33:12+00:00

Same. I imagine sex to be good, but then I also imagine having to carry the convo forever and getting bored to death.

Heavy_Sir_7034 · 2021-04-04T03:46:44+00:00

Hah! I'm not even attracted to women anymore. I look at their inside too, not just the external side. and overall not attractive

Volentimeh · 2021-04-04T09:09:16+00:00

I desire the sex and intimacy, but am utterly repulsed by the rest of the package.

A bear trap hidden by rose petals.

supsurfdonkey · 2021-04-04T01:20:04+00:00

Sometimes it just little posts like this that get me thinking about the future. The women of today are not worth the trouble. Sex is always nice but the amount of problems that comes with it is overwhelming. The next 5 to 10 years will be interesting to say the least. As more men walk away and refuse to play the game how will the female population adapt to this new reality. Marriage as an institution is declining fast. How will these females survive on their own? Will there be enough thirst simps to fill the void? It's going to be fun to watch, none the less...GYOW my friends.

kevin_tanjaya · 2021-04-04T02:29:13+00:00

You are not the only one bro, me too.

I see a lot of attractive girl but their behaviour is kinda bad, damaged person, which it make me lose interest to them instantly.

Canute87 · 2021-04-04T00:48:29+00:00

If you pick the flower it will wilt away pretty quickly. Then you're just left with mulch.

ulgulanoth · 2021-04-04T09:24:30+00:00

Kind of funny, this reminds me of the last time I was in a bar (which sadly was over a year ago due to rona lockdowns). Well the girl working the bar is what you'd call a great catch. In fact she was the reason the bar was popular everyone wanted to talk to her, get her number ect. I went there on a whim, so I found this afterwards talking to my buddies. Well I sit at the bar, order a beer, order a burger and... kept to my self. Not once did I hit on her, hell I didn't even as much gave her a look after my food got there. Fast forward when I was talking to my buddy, the only thing that kept running in my mind was "yea she was pretty hot, but I much rather eat the burger and drink the beer in peace that try to strike up a conversation".

talus_slope · 2021-04-04T17:40:02+00:00

Animal instincts cause us to be attracted to women. Intelligence tells us to avoid predators and parasites.

MGTOWers choose intelligence.

Beneficial_Garage · 2021-04-04T02:33:13+00:00

They are definitely not worth the time or effort now. Just when you think they can't be any worse. They dig a basement under rock bottom. And dig it deeper everyday. Keep on with your flow. And ignore them.

theaceupmysleeve · 2021-04-04T07:10:52+00:00

Unfortunately most men won’t ever leave the simp plantation.

hondamike12345 · 2021-04-04T08:29:56+00:00

Preach, brother! Met a woman briefly at a friends house tonight and she was very attractive. My buddy even noted how she seems to be flirtatious with me, which maybe she was? I could tell by the way she talked about stuff with the other women there.. 1. This woman is materialistic af and 2. She’s for sure been run through by god knows how many guys because she “was a cheerleader for the ______”

So yeah, I’m with ya bro. I’m sure the pussy would be fantastic, but as the saying goes “the juice aint worth the squeeze” and that’s still a hard fact. If I want stimulating convo? I talk to one of my dude friends. Fuck it.

MetamorphosisSilver · 2021-04-04T19:24:46+00:00

Amen to that brother. I find that an attractive woman is just like any other object of beauty in the environment. Simply a moment to be enjoyed but with no desire to possess. More importantly, once many of us have lost this desire to "possess beauty" (aka dating, marriage, LTR) we find that this applies to so many other aspects our life. I find myself smiling more every day because I am more open to experiencing the good moments in life but not wanting to "make them my own." It allows you to find joy and satisfaction in even the smallest of things.

denchbench666 · 2021-04-05T11:38:12+00:00

Also add in, a lot of these women feel as though they are being sexually assaulted for just so much as staring at them for too long, or saying hello to them (if you are not who they deem as attractive).

Too many of them are extremely disingenuous and dangerous individuals, behave too much like men, or are perpetual victims. Walk away from them - pay no attention to them. If you still want to sleep with a woman or be with a woman, only interact with women who approach you first, or who show you mad interest, but don't stick your neck out for them, because this isn't the 1980s and women don't get sprung like they used to.

Common-Eye-7594 · 2021-04-08T02:50:20+00:00

Treat her like you would treat a male person

Title	I have no desire to act on my attraction to girls anymore.
Author	Jax_Gatsby
Upvotes	139
Comments	38
Date	April 3, 2021 6:18 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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