Woman here with a question...

notimportantjustme · 2016-11-07T07:57:51+00:00

And you came here to ask that? In the den of "treat women like holes"?

hahaha

foreignergrl · 2016-11-07T20:38:53+00:00

My advice is that you spend a day reading the posts at the Red Pill community, especially the ones calling women dogs, plates and fuck knows what else. Oh, the ones bashing rape victims and glorifying rape are a good read, too. Then rethink asking this type of question here. It's like asking a con man how to invest your money.

Relationships aren't birth rights, OP. Men aren't entitled to them, or to sex, and neither are women. Relationships are built. They require investing both in yourself and in the other. They require getting to know, trust, and respect one another. It's not a game. Don't make anyone wait for sex like it is a cookie that you're offering. Have sex when and with whom you're ready to do so. Take control of your life, and most definitely do not EVER subscribe to the red pill women community. Don't be stupid, OP.

EDIT: If you don't believe me, go to the married red pill community and do a serch for "divorce" and see how many marriages this community have destroyed with its poison. Don't just walk, run away from here.

rpisnotpua · 2016-11-07T03:52:52+00:00

r/redpillwomen

huge_gap · 2016-11-07T02:37:59+00:00

Start taking better care of your appearance (exercise more like aerobic and squats, buy form-fitting clothes that look good, wear make-up, get your nails did etc.). This will attract men. From there, you can choose one who has good masculine traits and solid career prospects. The trick will be finding one who doesnt just want to have sex and leave right away. There are various strategies to help with that.

He'll stick around if you make him happy with being feminine, fun, regular sex, cooking, doing chores, etc. Don't nag, be possessive or bitchy, and try to augment his life instead of taking away from it. This takes practice and experience, so don't get down hearted because you'll probably have to try a couple times with different men before you find a great one. As long as he augments your life too, then you should live happily. Being a virgin makes things a little different. Don't give yourself away to the first guy who seems decent. It's OK to be picky if you can, but if you really like a guy it's going to be difficult keeping him around if you hold out on sex too long.

Also, join the redpillwomen sub.

InBaggingArea · 2016-11-07T03:36:22+00:00

Hourglass figure.

Never had a boyfriend. Men don't approach.

What do I do?

Start by telling us the bit you're not telling us. After that you could do some approaching yourself. Would that be beneath you?

Strange you ask here.

redditatt · 2016-11-07T04:11:47+00:00

Stop being okay with having an okay body. Red Pill is about becoming your best self. Do your part first and the world will follow.

SkorchZang · 2016-11-07T09:00:43+00:00

Pics or it didn't happen.

1v1mebruh · 2016-11-07T22:20:54+00:00

GET IN THE GYM NOW. physical attractiveness is your bottom line, PERIOD.

Mike377774774 · 2016-11-07T03:34:36+00:00

Well, then start going out more. Go to places where you think you'll find a guy that's your type. It'll all work out fine.

Koalasonfire · 2016-11-07T03:37:12+00:00

Don't be so glum, sounds like you have a good, non cock-carouseled situation going on for yourself.

Do what the other guy said, work out, dress for your body, be feminine, etc.

TheInkerman · 2016-11-07T06:09:33+00:00

Well, firstly I would say make sure your physique is right. Even average looking women can get guys, but you want the best guys, right?

Find your body fat %, diet/exercise and maintain 20-22%, as well as making yourself look good through exercise.

Now for clothes you don't 'need to show off' a lot to get guys, in fact the type of clothing you dress in will determine the kind of guys you attract (to some extent). I'm guessing your current dress style is loose and somewhat baggy; one would perhaps describe it as 'mildly frumpy'. How accurate is that assessment? You can dress more attractively by wearing clothing which is tighter and accentuates your body's curves more, without necessarily revealing skin.

The shyness is somewhat of an issue, because guys who do approach you may take your shyness as disinterest. Most guys don't really get subtle hints from women that they're interested (this is where you get the somewhat insulting 'guys are dumb/stupid' trope), you need to be more obvious with your hints without necessarily being direct. It may be easier for you to meet guys if you have a hobby or activity you like, and then you can open up over your common interest, rather than just small talk or whatever.

Being a virgin is a positive and a negative. In some ways it makes you more attractive to guys, but yes, you will also face the issue of not wanting to have sex with a guy because you want it to be 'special' or whatever. Guys will, in general, be more patient about not having sex, especially if you're willing to build up to it with other sex stuff, and if a guy isn't willing to wait at least some time then I would say that's a big red flag. Anecdotally I think you'll also find the guys who are more willing to wait, and are probably less experienced like you are, will also be the guys who are shyer like you are, so unless you find yourself only attracted to the social butterfly Chad Thundercock, maybe consider the shyer guys.

rpisnotpua · 2016-11-08T01:08:40+00:00

Go to the gym, work out. Talk to guys if somehow they don't talk to you first. Smile.

yacht_steve · 2016-11-07T03:25:44+00:00

Pm me let's talk

Title	Woman here with a question...
Author	Nedden94
Upvotes	7
Comments	46
Date	November 7, 2016 2:26 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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