Evening from sunny England ladies!

Some of you who have followed my story will know I've recently moved into my own flat after living in a women's refuge. So I've been here just over a month now and I'm decorating. I've spoken to most of the neighbours now, just casually as I don't want to get too involved with anyone. I am chronically ill, waiting for surgery, so do not need the stress. This NVM lives on the ground floor and offered to wallpaper my flat. He is overly friendly which put my guard up immediately. Well on my first night there, him and an alcoholic woman in the block kept me awake by shouting at each other and slamming doors.

My stepfather was an alcoholic and very violent. So I know how they can turn your life upside down.

The woman who lives opposite me told me earlier that this alcoholic NVM who is old enough to be my father, has been telling people in the block that he wants to take me on a date and wants to get it on with me. I am disgusted and pissed. He was fighting with his ex girlfriend in the block a couple of weeks ago and he just grosses me out. I plan to ignore him and carry on with my own business. I've got good locks, key chains etc. This is the first time I've ever lived alone and I hate feeling intimidated. I guess this is just a rant really. Anyone else dealt with similar?