I'm still a boy.

MikeAlphaGolf · 2016-11-09T01:47:28+00:00

Good on you for achieving financial success at a young age. You are obviously talented. Keep going.

Spend the next few months maxing out your physical appearance. Bigger, stronger. Fitness and fashion. Work towards a harder, edgier look. Avoid being preppy. People will begin to treat you differently as you look better making your social gains easier.

You've got to be comfortable being uncomfortable in social situations. You don't sound retarded so get out there and push yourself. Also get on tinder. Get on a few dates starting with whoever you can get and working up the SMV ladder as you gain confidence and realise your value.

Enjoy it. I feel you're at the beginning of some of the best years of your life.

empatheticapathetic · 2016-11-09T00:24:35+00:00

I was having similar thoughts last night. My conclusion was "take more risks". Do more things out of your comfort zone, things you don't want to do. It's the same mentality as pushing your body to places you don't want to go.

More social situations. More approaching. Giving less fucks. More bold actions (within reason). And most importantly, realise it will take a long fucking time.

I'm the same age as you and also Asian. I need to meditate more, focus on my important goals followed by my more trivial goals and stop giving so much of a fuck about pointless and emotional/inadequacy bullshit.

Good luck

Arschrapine · 2016-11-09T08:30:33+00:00

Fuck prostitutes. Lots of them. The best looking ones you can find. All colors and styles so long as they are good looking.

Men are improved by every woman they fuck (fucks that they feel positively about).

Unlike women who are damaged by every fuck, more and more, until they become worthless.

hardworkdedication2 · 2016-11-09T14:48:41+00:00

First things first, so many guys would kill to be in the position you are in.

You have half a million dollars, which you made by doing something you like.

You've already done the hard part of life. You're sorted financially and could probably work minimal hours and be financially comfortable. You fucking did it bro. You don't know how much power you have.

Women, relationships, love, these things are all fleeting and they all pass. People don't want to admit this to themselves but it's the truth.

Money, power and investing in your self however are there for as long as you want them to be. They are under your control now. You fucking made it, man.

You're more of a man than 99% of men who are so consumed by pussy that they accomplish nothing in their lives. They live from vice to vice, and believe it or not, many of them are even more empty than you are. They've just deluded themselves into thinking otherwise.

There are women out there who will appreciate your hard work, drive and discipline.

"First you get the money, then you get the power, and then you get the woman" - Tony Montana

Now go out and have some fucking fun.

ExitTheNarrative · 2016-11-09T00:51:42+00:00

you can do what i do.. in any social situation i just imagine the worst outcome and decide if i can live with the worst outcome. you have to really believe that the worst outcome WILL happen. if you can accept this horrible new reality that will be a result of your actions, then take those actions. do it, you know the worst and you can live with the worsylt.

for ex, there's a girl on the bus next to me. do i talk to her or do i stay silent? well if i talk to her the worst that will happen is an awkward bus ride. can i live with that awkwardness? sometimes no, sometimes yes. if i decide i can live with the awkwardness then i have nothing to lose because even before i talk to her i have already accept the awkwardness.

stickfiguresk · 2016-11-09T01:47:13+00:00

Just put hours into organizing, and follow some guides on picking up chicks. There's tons of guides on the main sub and I highly recommend BANG and DAY BANG by Roosh. DAY BANG is particularly effective for the socially anxious.

As for feeling more like a man, either buy a gun and join a gun club or buy an axe and chop down some trees. Or both.

DevilishRogue · 2016-11-09T12:49:57+00:00

You are a man. But it sounds like you are depressed. Look into getting that treated if it turns out to be the case.

TankVet · 2016-11-09T12:53:46+00:00

Dude, you can be the man you want to be. Start today.

Poptart318 · 2016-11-09T20:57:59+00:00

Go to church

desno · 2016-11-09T00:40:07+00:00

Put yourself in uncomfortable situations. You're going through what I was a few months ago also. I'd accepted trp but didn't have the results to show, Give it time. The change doesn't happen overnight. Baby Steps. You've been doing that already.

There will come a time you think you look decent naked, but strive to get the perfect body. You'll look at yourself in well-fitted stylish clothing and think you look good and not feel uncomfortable. Slowly each layer of insecurity peels away until the only one left is becoming more social. The rest will be 2nd nature, so you can put all your energy into this, and when you do, I'm sure you will make rapid improvement. Damn, I just described monk mode and realised that's why it works so well lol.

By the way you've written this, it's clear you've understood the core teachings and can see your shortcomings. As long as you are better than you were yesterday, you will make it

Duchenne4089 · 2016-11-09T07:48:35+00:00

I know how that feels. I can really relate to that quote from the Fight Club: 'I'm just a 30 year old boy'.

Title	I'm still a boy.
Author	nfdnnf
Upvotes	6
Comments	13
Date	November 9, 2016 12:18 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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