I keep running into the same cycle. They're super into me then they go cold all of the sudden, no warning. How do I react when they go cold? Is them going cold a shit test?

twocouldneverbethree · 2021-04-08T04:48:50+00:00

Not sure if it’s a shit test or they got dozens of other guys to explore but what I do know is don’t triple/quadruple/quintuple text when they do. Maybe she’ll hit you up again in like a month but you really shouldn’t care, don’t be attached at all. More plates

skyrunner22 · 2021-04-08T05:16:34+00:00

Them going cold is the thousand cock maze they have run thru and them becoming numb to one thousand one.. They become excited again at prospect of one thousand two.. your turn is most likely over, exit stage left..

nillzy · 2021-04-08T06:31:21+00:00

The point is for you to develop an abundance mindset (I.e. more plates on the go) so if one chick ghosts you, you move on and bang one of the other 4 you have on the go

Islandman598 · 2021-04-08T09:47:31+00:00

Happens all the time.. could be for multiple reasons, doesn’t mean it’s always you, honestly they’re led by their emotions and emotions fluctuate, massively. She could sign up for online dating on Tuesday because she wants an LTR and then changes her mind Thursday, guess what happens to everyone she meets from the dating site, unless you really put an impression, you’re gone, how does she do it? She ignores or barely answers or stops answering.

donaxi · 2021-04-08T10:03:23+00:00

How far into it are you with them? If you’ve hung out with them for a few weeks in a row, they will need space to allow for attraction to exist. You just learn to expect it. Give it a week or two, they’ll be back with an «I miss you» text.

DBsix · 2021-04-08T10:32:26+00:00

I have encountered it once and got success from just treating it like a shit test. Girl was super flirty, touchy-feely whenever we met, then got cold all of a sudden. I gave it no thought and treated her exactly the same as I was doing earlier. Showed no overt hurt or any emotion at all, even though she was deliberately being cold to me. I didn't address her being cold/distant to me at all. Took her about three days to come back even stronger than before. Fuck me eyes every second, super girly behaviour, the works. The iron was hotter than ever before now, so you can imagine how it went from that point on..

JackTheRipper_17 · 2021-04-08T11:22:11+00:00

Abundance mindset

2021-04-08T11:46:14+00:00

Sounds like you are their alpha rebound fuck, you might be showing how beta you when you get comfortable so they go find someone more alpha.

YeeYeeAssHaircut915 · 2021-04-08T12:06:35+00:00

How are they "super in to you?" Are they just making eye contact and smiling? Or are they deep throating you one day and cold texting the next?

Aubrey_D_Graham · 2021-04-08T14:17:00+00:00

Are you doing anything about their high interest? They feel rejected if they show interest and you haven't asked them out.

They hang out with you, and they realize you are an overt bad boy. They hate this, but can tolerate this for some time from extremely high value men like rappers and athletes.

150420throwaway · 2021-04-08T14:48:06+00:00

I’ve experienced this myself, the solution, which I’m yet to implement is;

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Go cold yourself
Act quicker, before they hop on a new dopamine rush from meeting someone new that gives them attention

kclanton80 · 2021-04-08T15:26:35+00:00

Where are you meeting them. Are these tinder girls?

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