MY FIRST FRIEND

My first buddy is a cop in his late twenties. He is in pretty good shape and works hard. Being a white cop today is kinda stressful but it's nothing compared to being married to his wife. She is pretty out of shape and much older than him(15 years). Every time we talk I find out that she does less and less but bitches more and more. She recently left the dishes in the sink for a week while he was off on a work trip.

He has to look after their toddler all the time while she just plays around on her phone. He recently started working out harder and his wife accused him of cheating.

Everyday he tells me that I should never get married.

MY SECOND FRIEND

My next buddy is going through the process of separation from his wife. She recently became a project manager so I knew the marriage was circling the drain. He was taking care of their kid so he wasn't working. He has no family to rely on and has to live upstairs in a room above his wife until he can get a a job and move out. He has done all he can to make his wife happy but it is never enough. Once she said she needed space it was a wrap. He is a former shell of himself. Super depressed and just finding life hard. His wife isn't bad looking and seems nice but the more I found out about her (being arrested a few times, anger issues, bipolar rages, control issues,) the more I remembered that AWALT.

MY THIRD FRIEND

This one is the real doozy. This guy is in his late 20s, has a great job that makes really good money and no kids. He had a fiance but she called off the engagement and they stayed friends. She is a ...bigger girl but still not horrible looking. The reason she broke off the engagement was that she said she felt like she couldnt move forward sexually with him anymore. She needed a break. They remained close friends and he still did all the same shit he did when they were dating. He recently bought her a bunch of bullshit for her birthday.

He has a hard time dating but finally hit it off with this one new girl that he met. They talked for several hours on the beach and then he invited her to his place for dinner. She was super stoked according to him. Then later that day she came over to his place for a few minutes and then abruptly left. Needless to say he felt like shit and was pretty down that this girl had flaked on him.

He then .......calls his exfiance to confide to her about it. For some reason during their conversation she decides to tell him that she was seeing people and had been having threesomes as well.

This crushed him. This was the worst time to tell him that. He had been holding out hope but that was long gone. He then punched a wall and fucked up his hand pretty bad.

Now he can't work and he just feels terrible. I can't really force him to be red pill but I'm trying to "support" him. I told him things would take time to get over.

TLDR; Three bad stories of women totally screwing over my male friends. Lots of bluepillness. These three stories have reminded me how ridiculous dating and relationships have become. It's best to go your own way.