When you are saying "damn what I did there was alpha asf" you are sucking yourself off. By categorizing actions as alpha or beta, when you fall short of the 'alpha' actions, you feel as if you failed and you aren't good enough.

Stop labeling. Just as a drug user feels when he no longer has a high, you calling yourself alpha will only bite you in the ass when you fail to reach your own expectation. It's validating yourself to yourself. You are chasing women when you are thinking you are alpha.

Some people say "I don't chase women... I don't even try to talk to them, I'm alpha." You see the problem with statements as such? Just as people who say they don't care about 'x', its cap, cause if you actually didn't care you would no be thinking of it or mentioning it. "Alpha male shit", I heard that goofy shit from my friends in college. Are you trying to prove something to me or yourself by saying you can game women or flirt?

A true alpha pays no attention to these concepts and does not pedestalize himself or anything. He is "that dude" who does it all easily and does not mention concepts such as alpha or beta. I think these terms are important in the beginning to distinct better or worse actions, however if you get to attached to status or appearing strong, you are in actuality just as weak as the beta. The beta needs validation and he gains that by calling himself alpha cause he fucks and goes to the gym. Nah you just graduated to fuckin' bitches you not alpha, you look stupid saying your doing "alpha male shit."